joy139

@joy139 (58)

India • Age 45

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Are you a people pleaser or do you look after number one?

crazynurse @crazynurse (7482) • United States 27 Jul 07

Are you one of those people who just can't say 'no?' Do you plan and organize and try to please everybody to the point of not meeting your own needs? Or do you value your own worth and take care of yourself?

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joy139 well, i am no people pleaser..what most important for me, is me and my loved ones ...in general, no one should keep themselves with the idea of pleasing everyone.... u will become unhappy and sad, in the race of pleasing everyone else.

28 Jul 07

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what is ur favorite old time cartoon?

disvachic @disvachic (10117) • United States 4 Nov 06

mine is charlie brown

cartoon

charlie brown

old

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joy139 mine is tom and jerry, all time favourite

28 Jul 07

Do you need time to decompress after you go shopping?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 27 Jul 07

When I was a teen shopping was a really fun way to spend a Saturday afternoon. Dozens of mall shops to explore and always a new deal around every corner! But, now it's just a big hassle. Dealing with thousands of coupon clipping,...

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joy139 dont take shopping as a big thing for which u have to prepare urself , go out there in markets , and face shopkeepers , bargain and all that stuff. take it as some thing, u will enjoy.just go with the flow. sometimes in weekends, go out to buy urself...

28 Jul 07

Ever Heard Something You Weren't Supposed To Hear?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 20 Jul 07

Have you ever heard someone talking about you but didn't realize you were around and it was detrimental? Or have you eavesdropped on a conversation and heard a friend, partner or associate talking bad about you How did you...

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joy139 if i hear something that i am notr supposed to hear, the best thing i feel is to act as i havent heard it at all and act accordingly too

21 Jul 07

My Charity Event For This Year....

Darkwing @Darkwing (21583) 20 Jul 07

I've had to come up with a newish idea for fundraising for this year. Some of you will remember our Exercise Bike Ride last year, from John O'Groats to Lands End, so what could I do this year, that was a bit different? Well, I...

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joy139 you can host a dance party with a fee of entrance.

21 Jul 07

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What is the best age and way to introduce reading in kids?

mansha @mansha (6298) • India 21 Dec 06

My son is seven year old and he loves to listen to stories but is not an avid reader. This is a continuous discussion in my home how to make him indulge in reading regularly any comics or any books. I feel we should read a story...

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joy139 if u want any thing to sustain in him, he shud pick it up on his own... some people r not readers but still have other passions... try to see what he likes and encourage him in doing that...

21 Dec 06

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How long do you think you should be in a relationship before getting married?

sarilynne @sarilynne (273) • Canada 21 Dec 06

What is the appropriate length of a relationship being proposing? Or getting married? I've been with my boyfriend for over two years now, and I know we aren't going to get married in the next year, but probably within the next...

marriage

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joy139 it depends... on how long u need to b sure that this is ghonna be ur life partner... but that is only till the decision that u r gonna get married someday. if you are asking exactly when to get married, that is based on other fators if one of u have a career...

21 Dec 06

The way I have made my referrals on making money online..What about you?

baronarthur @baronarthur (4187) • Indonesia 21 Dec 06

Actually, I'm not an expert on making money online. At myLot, I only have 14 referrals. But, I really want to share how to make referrals..Maybe, it will help some people who really need it. I won't give you my referral links...

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joy139 you speak of free classified ads. where do u go for it? any link u provide wud help

21 Dec 06

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what type of TV shows do you watch?

CollectingMyThoughts @CollectingMyThoughts (304) • United States 16 Dec 06

I like to watch Desperate Housewives, Lost, CSI, CSI Miami, Law & Order, and the occasional “lifetime channel movie” on my TV . How about you? I’m always up to try out a new show I really like to listen to...

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joy139 i like reality shows coz that shows real human emotions in conflict

17 Dec 06

How much trouble should you put up with?

rhinoboy @rhinoboy (2129) 14 Dec 06

My extended family seems do dump all of their problems on my wife and I. They have various serious troubles like alcoholism, debt & finance trouble, mental health issues etc. My wife and i don't have these problems, but only...

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joy139 dude... may b what you shud do is balance things. you are currently running on an extreme of providing care and support for ur folks... start denying support 1 out of 3 times with excuse of some personal trouble. then after sometime, start supporting only for...

15 Dec 06

Should I Feel Bad?

vmoore709 @vmoore709 (1101) • United States 14 Dec 06

I'm really close with my little sister. She's always been within 10 minutes away and always needed me. I'm really protective of her as well. She just took a job at Sea World. This means she's moving hours away. This has...

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joy139 i understand your situation. at the same time, you have to consider the growth of your sister as an individual. you dont want her to be dependednt on you forever, do you? let her take this job and see the life as it seems without ypour protection. she will be...

15 Dec 06

Eclipse: The Twilight Saga

JoieGahum @JOIEMARVIC (2335) • Philippines 29 Jun 10

I am really excited to watch Eclipse, the third installment of The Twilight Saga tomorrow. I have read the book for over 20 times already and I have almost memorized each scene by heart. Being able to see Jaboc, Bella and of couse...

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joy139 I am really excited to watch Eclipse, the third installment of The Twilight Saga tomorrow. I have read the book for over 20 times already and I have almost memorized each scene by heart. Being able to see Jaboc, Bella and of couse Edward in this movie is a...

29 Jun 10

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So what do u think it means?He really likes me or just just trying to get laid?

jayda_j927tijs @jayda_j927tijs (2893) • Hong Kong 14 Dec 06

so i went out with this total stranger, (he's a random guy of a friend), he claims that he had his eyes on me for a very long time,but he knew I had a bf befor and there for couldn't hit on me.... and blah blah blah. The...

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joy139 go with ur vibes... if u feel he is not trustworthy, go get another guy. what u want is company of a man. whats the harm in being with a guy who u wud like to be with?

14 Dec 06

LOVE / ARRANGED MARRIAGE

komal_swetha @komal_swetha (821) • India 12 Oct 06

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joy139 always love marriage... nothing beats the quality of relationship when its based upon mental compatibility

14 Dec 06

"No Santa'" school teacher axed

karan1563 @karan1563 (428) • United States 13 Dec 06

A PRIMARY school sacked a woman teacher for telling heartbroken nine-year-olds there is no Father Christmas. Parents were furious when tearful youngsters went home saying they had also been taught elves and fairies did not...

no santa school teacher axed

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joy139 theres more to a teacher than to just teach. it is the oevrall growth of the kid he/she should keep in mind. its absolute lack of perspective that lead her to reveal this to 9 yr olds

13 Dec 06

Self Confessed MYLOT Experts. Trust them?LOL

megs85 @megs85 (3142) • Australia 13 Dec 06

Do you trust mylot members who claim to be able to provide you with great tips for earning here at myot, when they have scores of 14 or 265, or whatever? I have earnt about forty dolars with no referrals and only 700 odd as my...

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joy139 i saw only one... by a supermom_ny. got good hints and tricks from her blog... things i never knew before like whats adsense

13 Dec 06

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Work pressure - How to deal with it ?

SimplyJo @SimplyJo (1694) • India 12 Dec 06

Friends, I'm an asst manager in a travel company.. and trust me the work pressure is KILLING ! I've coped with it for over 3 years now.. had a few breakdowns .. thot soo many times that it is TOO much and then i relax. I work...

work pressure

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joy139 take breaks often within your work... these days i do read discussions in mylot or do some orkutting... that helps me... it helps to hav a 2 min break every 30 mins

13 Dec 06

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