kaitan

@kaitan (46)

Japan • Age 42

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I wonder why?

roselynm1023 @roselynm1023 (950) • Philippines 1 Feb 09

hi, can you share your thoughts about this question in my mind. i wonder why there become cheaters in a relationship? sometimes it the woman who cheats most of the time its the man. no offense meant to the male gender but have...

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kaitan I believe that a man or a woman cheats because of dissatisfaction in a relationship. I guess it's instinctive that if a need of a person is not met then he will look for a way to satisfy that need. That somehow, explains why there are people who are tempt to...

3 Feb 09

...how to make friends with your ex-gf/bf???

rodeth @rodeth (87) • Philippines 3 Feb 09

...Past relationship sometimes hurts us so badly, sometimes, it also makes our life miserable because we can't accept the fact that you have broke up... ...But, how could you make friends with someone most specifically your...

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kaitan Yeah, I agree that past relationships could really hurt us that bad. We think that we couldn't afford to be friends with them anymore but I believe that it depends upon your personality and the personality of your bf/gf and the situation that you have gone...

3 Feb 09

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Which Language you speak at home??

manoj1502 @manoj1502 (854) • India 31 Jan 09

Hi friends which language do you speak at home. Everyone knows more than two languages which do you speak at home I do speak in my mother tounge even though i knew three languages. For...

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kaitan I do speak in my mother tongue at home, english at school and japanese at work...sounds complicated huh?well, it can't be helped, that's just the way it is.LOL...

3 Feb 09

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When for you is enough? (a relationship/love discussion)

laydee @laydee (12798) • Philippines 30 Jan 09

They have been separated with their husband and spouse for a long period of time, both met and spent 10years or more together as live-in partners. After a while, things became rocky. She had a phobia of men cheating on their...

letting go

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kaitan yeah, i believe that you would really get into that point when you truly say enough is enough...Everyone deserves to be happy and when you are not happy with the relationship anymore , I guess, you have the right to free yourself. Why do you have to prolong...

31 Jan 09

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Bring one person back from the dead !!

Lindery @Lindery (853) • Latvia 30 Jan 09

If you had a chance to bring one person back from the dead, who would it be and why? I know it's tough question but let's try and think. I would bring my grandmother who I really loved. She died when she was 73 years old and I...

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kaitan If I have the chance to bring one person back from the dead, it is most likely my father. It is simply because, when he was still alive we didn't have much time together with my family.He was always busy with work and I always missed him. I was only 13 when he...

31 Jan 09

Do you live in the city or in the countryside? Do you sometimes feel loney?

qianlizhifeng @qianlizhifeng (468) • China 29 Jan 09

Some years ago ,I lived in the countryside with my family because I come from countryside.At that time ,I had quite a lot of friends ,and enjoyed my happy childhood.However, since I had to go to school and college in the city ,I...

urban life country life lonely

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kaitan I experienced living in both.It's good to live in the countryside because the air is fresh and there's no traffic.On the other hand, the city has almost everything when it comes to business establishments, schools and others. Both has actually advantages and...

29 Jan 09

Which type of books you like most?

punmsharma @punmsharma (700) • India 29 Jan 09

We all read books. But which type of books you like most? There are many type of books like holy books, romantic books, novels, magzines, comics, and other type of books, Some people like tragedy story books. And some like story...

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kaitan I love reading romantic, adventure,comedy, sci-fi, thriller and even horror books. Actually, i'm not very particular with the genre.As long as it is interesting and I like the storyline, then that's it. If a book will keep me awake until the break of dawn,...

29 Jan 09

If you could go back in time &change one thing about your life what would it be?

mzj033y @mzj033y (185) • United States 26 Dec 08

What would it be and why?

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kaitan If I could go back and change one thing in my life, it would be my attitude in my high school days. I was so shy then, I didn't mingle with other people. I was insecure and I have no self-confidence. As a result, I wasn't able to enjoy my high school days. If...

29 Jan 09

one word to describe the word love?

thesoph @thesoph (57) 28 Jan 09

How would you describe love?

word

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kaitan Love is complicated....

28 Jan 09

what move do you make in order to survive?

tkleyr @tkleyr (406) • Philippines 27 Jan 09

are you affected to this financial crisis that we are facing right now? What move do you make in order to survive?

crisis

financial

survive

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kaitan cross-cutting, spending money wisely and trying hard not to get fired...LOL!

28 Jan 09

What is the impact of global economic recession?

dropofrain @dropofrain (1167) • India 28 Jan 09

What is the impact of global economic recession? What is recession? What causes it? What is the impact on the economy? What can we do to avoid it? When will it end? Are all industries which depend heavily on exports, are likely to...

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kaitan Yeah, the global economic recession is so sudden that we can't do anything about it as of this moment.Even here in Japan, many companies are downsizing and many people lose their job. Foreign workers went back to their home countries. I think it's difficult to...

28 Jan 09

Am I FReaking Paranoid?

analynaquino @analynaquino (35) • Philippines 26 Jan 09

huhuhu tonight I feel so lonely, sad all negative elements came into my body, I really don't know why I feel this way,maybe all I need is Freedom, I wanna go out on my cave, I am prisoner of my shadow.......GOsh I feel so...

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kaitan Hi Analynaquino!I always experience that sick thing everytime i'm frustrated. When I want to do something but I can't just do it or if things just don't work out the way I want it...Well, I guess it's time you give yourself a break. Unload your baggage...go...

28 Jan 09

romantic movies

cher913 @cher913 (25782) • Canada 26 Jan 09

what is your favourite romantic movie? sleepless in seattle? youve got mail? gone with the wind? titanic? mine is anne of green gables. in the continuing story (made in 2000) anne shirley and gilbert blythe finally get...

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kaitan I like windstruck, my sassy girl,a walk to remember, titanic and love story.

27 Jan 09

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what movies make you cry?

cher913 @cher913 (25782) • Canada 26 Jan 09

everyone has a movie that makes them cry. i just watched the anne of green gables and cried buckets during the movie. it doesnt help that i am sick either... is anne of green gables, the continuing story (made in 2000) anne...

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kaitan There are already countless movies that made me cry. Just recently, I watched "Windstruck",it's actually hilarious at first then in the end it made me cry.

27 Jan 09

Did/Do you play an instrument? What one?

CRSunrise @CRSunrise (2981) • United States 25 Jan 09

I've only really played one instrument, which was when I was in high school I played the trumpet from the 6th grade all the way through high school. I tried to continue it through college, but I never got into the marching band...

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kaitan I love music that's why I tried hard to learn to play the guitar. Although it's quite difficult but if your heart is set to do it,it will just come by easily. I learned playing it during the vacation after my high school graduation.Now, I'm working abroad and...

26 Jan 09