kaka10

@kaka10 (178)

South Africa • Age 41

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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What you think is good? Working with family business or finding your own job?

Archie0 @Archie0 (5652) 12 Aug 10

Hello everyone, i need some help from everyone regarding choosing my life and my career. I have completed my education, no i am on the edge of finding a job but i am not getting the good one right now, i have plans other than...

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kaka10 It depends on how your family will treat you, if it is a close knit family it always does good to get to know the family business as you might end up inheriting it, always give it a shot first try it out but let your father know in advance that you are there...

13 Aug 10

Are you afraid of Friday the 13th?

eileenleyva @eileenleyva (27560) • Philippines 12 Aug 10

Much had been scripted about this particular ominous Friday, and films had utilized this doomsday in many a suspenseful and horror movies. Actually, the myth emerged from a 13th century torture proliferated by King Philip....

philippines

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kaka10 It is funny that you would point that out, it is friday 13th today in south africa and it feels like an ordinary day today and it seems like my luck has changed, unlike all the previous other years where I have been suspicious and afraid of going near dark...

13 Aug 10

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Inter personal skills-do you think you have them?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 13 Aug 10

Interpersonal skills, people skills,--these are terms that are very much relevant when it comes to succeeding in life ,especially in a career. How many of you think you have this? How many of you feel that you are inadequate in...

career

interpersonal skills

varied experience

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kaka10 I think it all depends from person to person and like everything else in life takes practice to communicate with people and the more you are in the company of others the better you get at it. I am good at it as I spend most of my days amongst people, as a...

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What will you do facing person like this?

charlies2805 @charlies2805 (777) 30 Jul 10

Hi all, just want to get your opinion about what someone (whom I know) just passed through it. I know 2 people live together in a house, they aren't couple but just classmates. They were very close to each other but hardly...

classmate

friends

housemate

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kaka10 I think it is kind of sad that they don't speak, she should have been honest about what she had done and it would have been easier. I was in a similair situation where my camera was borrowed without my knowledge and consequently was broken and then put back in...

31 Jul 10

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Helium Stars and writing contests.

tiggerific @tiggerific (230) 28 Jul 10

Some of you may know, when I first joined Helium, I struggled for the first star. It felt like a bit of a graft - though actually quite satisfying when achieved. Which would have taken me much long, had it not have been for...

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kaka10 That is so cool I haven't achieved any stars yet as I only joined recently aswell, maybe you can be my mentor as I have been struggling to get started, any advice as to how to go about getting some ratings on Helium? Thanks for the advice in advance hope you...

28 Jul 10

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Rejected!

Ingkingderders @Ingkingderders (3832) • Philippines 26 Jul 10

I found one of my Ex in Facebook through a common friend and I requested to be friends with him. I was so surprised that after a few days he was not accepting my invitation, event hough I can see that he was active, cause he was...

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kaka10 Sometimes it is best to just leave people in the past even though you attempt to be friends, they just hold on to the past and are unable to move on. It is the most difficult thing, my ex broke up and told me she hoped that we could be friends and after like...

27 Jul 10

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Do you think that I should be friends with my ex boyfriend?

cream97 @cream97 (29086) • United States 19 Jul 10

I am on facebook again. And I am now friends with my ex boyfriend's brother. We have chatted for a little while. And now my ex boyfriend has wrote me back. I was inquiring if he was married or not. And he wrote me back. I think...

ex boyfriend friendship facebook relationship

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kaka10 It depends sometimes it is just better that some peole can't be friends if their wife/husband are fine with it and aren't jealous type of people it is okay, because sometimes you can end up being good friends, naturally if he still feels for you it is only...

27 Jul 10

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Cursing

smartie0317 @smartie0317 (1610) • United States 20 Jul 09

Offline, do you curse? Do you curse a lot or a little? Does cursing offend you?

cursing

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kaka10 I curse sometimes when I don't find the right words to express myself it has been something that I have picked up from the American Pie movies that I watched since High School. But as I have read more and more I have found synonyms to express myself.

27 Jul 10

What do you think about girls who swear?

reco13 @reco13 (605) • Philippines 22 Jul 10

My mom used to tell me that guys don't want to kiss a girl with a dirty mouth. Men are ashamed having a girlfriend who talks like a trucker. They will also have a negative impression about you and your family about the way you...

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kaka10 I am personally not a big fan of women who swear,but on the other hand no one should be judged and in society there are many double standards as to what women can't do, I am a big fan of gender equality and what is good for the goose is good for the gander. I...

27 Jul 10

Do men have to share the household works?

vijayanths @vijayanths (7877) • India 26 Jul 10

Men were the sole breadwinners of the families in olden days. Now things have changed and women also go to work and earn. Nowadays to maintain a decent standard of living both have to work and earn. Now it's not fair to expect...

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kaka10 I think the family that does things together stays together, my mother taught me that a man and women should be able to share the load in order for things to go easier at home, and she is right a woman's place isn't in the kitchen alone we live in modern times...

27 Jul 10

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Do you keep a diary?

T_Diamond @T_Diamond (965) • New Zealand 27 Jul 10

I've recently started a diary myself, or a journal as I refer to it. Guess it's because I'm a guy - diary just doesn't sound "manly" enough I must say, I'm enjoying it very much. It's a place where I can rest my...

diary

journal

thoughts

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kaka10 I have a journal, but recently I have decided to start blogging about the things you find interesting and you get paid for it, so it is basically hitting 2 birds with one stone. If you want check out my blog just send my a msg on here.

27 Jul 10

You are a writer.

dpk262006 @dpk262006 (58678) • Delhi, India 26 Jul 10

Hi friends! I feel that those of us who contribute in discussions here on mylot are ‘writers’of a sort. To me ‘writing’ on any topic is not an easy job, writing is a kind of creative thing (until and unless you are...

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kaka10 I agree with you by writing you actualy have to also be a reader, I spent alot of time reading to get ideas on how to write. I have actually started writing a book about my life experience with the people I have encountere over the years.

27 Jul 10

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Would you spend to earn money online

patialvi @patialvi (715) • India 23 Jul 10

I have seen that there are people who don't want to spend money online to earn some good returns. It could be because they are skeptical to the program online. But in my view you can not earn good results if you are not going to...

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kaka10 I couldn't agree more with you, we get spammed all day long and how do these guys get our emails it is all the free letters and nonsense we sign up for, if you want to make money you have to spend money and I like google 'cause sometimes you get free vouchers...

24 Jul 10

He Calls ME DUMB!!!

eurekafemme @eurekafemme (5876) • Philippines 24 Jul 10

I'm not sure why this man treated his wife this way? The woman practically do everything in their house and sometimes, she'd carry her child while cooking and sweeping the floor or wiping dust. The man does not help much. She...

dumb wife

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kaka10 It is a confidence issue, I know alot of guys who are like this, they put up this defense mechanism so they attack befroe you can see the weakness in their armour, so the best way to look big is by bellittling those around them all you can do is keep loving...

24 Jul 10

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climbing on a mountain

Bluerain25 @Bluerain25 (812) • Philippines 24 Jul 10

Another dream that keeps coming back up to this days. Scene one: I was preparing something as if im going for a walk with out knowing where to go. As i was walking i find myself going up the mountain trail. I saw unfamiliar...

climbing on a mountain

dream

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kaka10 I think that your dreams are a subconscious issue with your daily life maybe thereis something that you are struggling with but eventually you will overcome that problem, fear, obstacle or whatever is and you will begin to find true enlightenment in your life...

24 Jul 10

I am not getting any more cats when they all die,

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 23 Jul 10

as it is too much heart ache.When cats go missing you get worried until you find out that they are at home again safe and sound.But when a person comes to your door and says your cat has been killed and you are not sure if it is...

heart ache

killed

no more cats

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kaka10 I think this has made you a more loving person, they say pets open you to loving other people and will help give meaning to your life. I got my first cat when I was in grade 10 and when that cat died, well or got poisened I never thought I would get a cat...

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What do I do with Leo?

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 23 Jul 10

Leo is a young man....19 to be exact! He lives in a garage that he rents from some people who more or less took him in. Leo has been working for me for the past two days. He is polite..has a good work ethic...is smart...hardest...

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kaka10 This will take alot of creativity fro your side, I would say give him the walmart gift card and tell him that it is an employee bonus and give him the impression that he has earned it, that could possibly be the best as it would not make him fel like a charity...

24 Jul 10

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Should we trust the media anymore? I am starting to wonder BIG TIME

lilwonders @lilwonders456 (8214) • United States 21 Jul 10

In light of fox news recent blunder (I don't really think it was a accident) and the recent media-gate (that no one is talking about). I think we need to take a real hard look at our so called press and media. What do we have? We...

conspiracy

integrity

media

no more unbiased news

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political party tools

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kaka10 News is just hype and is used to promote the shareholders who are in actual fact the ruling government in a country most of the times and on other occasions they will sling mud and dig up dirt on the ones who are in power. I don't think or even recommend...

22 Jul 10