kalpan_vasa

@kalpan_vasa (324)

India • Age 47

Joined myLot 17 years ago

If you are pour at soul, you don't need to be affraid of someone knocking door at mid-night.

Responses (175)

kalpan_vasa's Responses

Have your best friend ever hurt you like this???

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 18 Apr 07

Just want to know what you have gone through. I had a friend whom i used to think my best friend. At a point of time I got all his help when i needed. Not that only it was him who helped me. I also helped him a lot whenever he...

feelings

friend

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kalpan_vasa I would say, dont take such things much seriously, it happens, when people go at distance places, such thning are going to happen gradually.. Just keep moving.. Take care

18 Apr 07

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I have got the ‘Bravo’ award from my company… ? just wanted to share with u all

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 16 Apr 07

Yesterday I got the news! We had a office party. I did not attend that. In that party it was announced that I’m selected for the ‘Bravo’ award. Let me tell you, I work as a system engineer in the World’s largest IT company. Yes u...

award

recognition

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kalpan_vasa WOW ! Congratulations !!!! That's really a good news. Now, I am sure, you are not considering yourself as born-unlucky person, right Subha? Anyways, where is my piece of Cake (Egg-less) :)

16 Apr 07

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1 person

Am I a born loser?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 12 Apr 07

I always think so.Because from my childhooditself i had been always unlucky. Other than geting a good supporting family , luck has never favoured me. be it anything small or big. I have become an engineer, but that also after a...

life

luck

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kalpan_vasa Life is always becomes the way you think it from the beginning. I don't see there would be any reason for you to consider yourself as unlucky person. You have your family, you have mother-father and all. There are lakhs of children in India only, who don't...

13 Apr 07

Do you prefer to speak or hear more?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 12 Apr 07

What is your nature? Do you yourself talk a lot or you love to listen others saying? I speaks less myself. By nature i want to listen to what others are telling much. Just curious to know your habit.

habit

nature

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3 people

kalpan_vasa It seems like you are good listener. That's really a good thing to follow. However, I truly believe in communication. Communication is not complete without enough talking and listening too. So, it must require the balance amount of both. I do pay more...

13 Apr 07

How many best responses you have got till today?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 13 Apr 07

For me , its a very sad figure. I have only got 3 best responses. I don't kbnow why. whatever i try to answer,i answer in a good manner and how effectively i can. But alas! May be I'm not so popular or people here don't like my...

discussion

mylot

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5 people

kalpan_vasa I have got 15 best responses. Just keep answering to your friend's discussions, you will surely get more best responses.

13 Apr 07

Does it really help if I put my own picture as Avatar?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 13 Apr 07

I was jsut wondering that if it really helps one to get so much responses for a discussion if you put your own picture at the avatar of u? Or does the moving avatars help you to attract other mylotters to see and answer your...

mylot

ratings

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2 people

kalpan_vasa I am very much honest guy and always appreciate the truth only. So, if you ask me, I would surely say to put your own photo as I did. However, its your individual choice. Take care.

13 Apr 07

why it is tough to ignore one whom I once thought to be my best friend?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 13 Apr 07

I really don't know what is the problem i'm having in forgetting or ignoring someone! I thought this person to be my best friend.But after few circumstances, i have fond out that he has started ignoring me, as i thought. But...

dilema

friendship

relationship

3 responses

kalpan_vasa You are doing all the right things to get out of this situation. The only thing I could see here is you are entertaining his calls. Eventhough you know that he is going to say the same thing, you are picking up his phone calls. You shouldn't even attend his...

13 Apr 07

Do u believe in matrimonial Ads on newspaper?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 11 Apr 07

Do u believe that its make sense to choose your life partner from newspaper matrimony ads? I find this concept very wired. How one is going to choose the perason to live the life with just from an ads. I find it traets brides and...

marriage

3 responses

kalpan_vasa Its quite a good idea. Let me explain you how... There are many people in this world who does not have much contacts. Now, this kind of ads are very helpful for them. Matrimonial ads are the first step to meet the person, rest is depends on futher meetings...

11 Apr 07

Received my first payment from Mylot

coolsid2007 @coolsid2007 (1030) • India 13 Mar 07

Hey guys ... received my first payment today.. just wondering if anyone else has also received any!

payment

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kalpan_vasa Hey ! congrats !!! I am very much excited about this.... I wana talk to you about this.... Could you plesae give me ur phone number???

21 Mar 07

how are people able to make more than 50 posts?

Vicky86 @Vicky86 (243) • United States 17 Mar 07

I joined 2 or 3 months ago and I'm alredy bored of posting here and getting a few cents every other day. It surprises me to see that a lot of people manage to post 30, 50 or even more posts a day. How do you guys do that? And...

posting

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4 people

kalpan_vasa Have patience!!!!!!!

21 Mar 07

i need help!!!

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 19 Mar 07

I really need help of my fellow mylottians. I have one good freind. We were very good friend say about 1 year back. We met at workplace. After that our friendship started and it grew like anything. Ours was a very healthy...

character

friendship

relationship

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kalpan_vasa I believe in "time is the best medicine for everything" I appreciate the decision you have taken. Just quick suggestion, don't allow anyone to take you as granted. People should know what you are stand for and what you are not stand for. Leave the past as...

21 Mar 07

What is your favourite salad?

sweetlady10 @sweetlady10 (3611) • United States 19 Mar 07

Salad is a very healthy food. I think there are very few people who don't like salad. All those colorful veggies and fruites are so tempting. I like salad, lettuce and carrots are my favourite ingridients. My hubby just love...

favourite food

food

salad

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kalpan_vasa I like to eat salad a lot. If any particular time I dont have much to eat, I go for fresh vegitable, I love to eat carrots at any given time.

21 Mar 07

Anyone of you ever had this type of friend?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 20 Mar 07

Do anyone have you a friend just like this type? I had one very confused friend. He acts the way whatever he wants at a particular point of time.When he thought i'm his good friend, he acted as a very good friend of mine. When he...

feelings

friendship

3 responses

kalpan_vasa I don't want to comment anything about him. I could not decide anything about him from this one single situation. All I could say is, he should not change his attitude every now and then like this. I understand that this would surely hurt you and now you could...

21 Mar 07

Are you very active in the morning?

sweetlady10 @sweetlady10 (3611) • United States 20 Mar 07

All of us have some different habits. For me I can't be very active during the morning hours. Only in the afternoon I can take care of all my work nicely. I don't know it is morning chickness or what, but in the morning time I...

life

morning time

working habit

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kalpan_vasa I am always very much active in early evening time. I usually do all my important work during the evening time only.

21 Mar 07

How many friend's request you get??

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 21 Mar 07

Just curious to know that how many Friend's request you get per day in mylot? Or what is the frequency of getting the friend's request in mylot? Do u add of them u get?

friend

mylot

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1 person

kalpan_vasa I generally don't get friend's request so often. If I get friend's request I would see the quality of discussion and if I find it interesting I would surely add him/her.

21 Mar 07

Blame Game.. What shoukd I do?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 21 Mar 07

I need your help! In my team there is one lady who is very near to my manager. Yesterday, our onsite people had sent some issues and bugs with one of her codings. I only did the testing of that. But the bugs appeared where no...

job

problem

1 response

kalpan_vasa If I would at your place, the very first thing I would do is to give complete priority to my work. I would go to the manager and put things in front of him very clearly, I would say, I don't know how all this happend and I will surely find out that. But right...

21 Mar 07

Would you like to add me in your friendlist?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 21 Mar 07

Just wanted to know, if you want to add me in your freind's list in mylot.:P

friend

mylot

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kalpan_vasa Yes,I would love to add you in my friend list. I have added you in my friend list long back only. Not only that, I have added you in my Orkut account too. But I am just wondering you like to ask such questions but when person who has added you in his friend...

21 Mar 07

What do jellyfish eat?

aslygirl @aslygirl (531) • Philippines 21 Mar 07

do you know?

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4 people

kalpan_vasa Jellyfish eat jelly.... LOL. I know its not right answer. But I really don't know that.

21 Mar 07

Have you ever been hopitalized because of serious illness or accident?

sweetlady10 @sweetlady10 (3611) • United States 21 Mar 07

We all suffer from illness time to time and all have to go to doctor. But some people are unfortunate enough to admit into hospital because of serious illness or accident. Have you been hospitalized because of illness or...

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kalpan_vasa No, I have never hospita lized for any illness, but yes I had problem with my health some 2 years back. I had taken rest for about 2 months completely. Now I am fine. I really feel very bad whey anyone is suffering for any illness. May GOD give good health...

21 Mar 07

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Coffee

afreddy @afreddy (182) • India 1 Mar 07

How do you like you coffee? I personally love coffe to be strong with less milk, at times I would love it to be sweet and other times no sugar at all. Coffee is best enjoyed when u have a good movie or a good book to read

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kalpan_vasa I love coffee. "A lot can happen over Coffee" I love to have coffee with my friends..

1 Mar 07