kccrystalsachi

@kccrystalsachi (117)

Philippines • Age 42

Joined myLot 13 years ago

I just love life, no matter what the circumstances.

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I almost lost my boyfriend this weekend

success1625 @success1625 (533) • Trinidad And Tobago 25 Mar 12

Being an independent woman, who oftentimes get her way no matter what or there's hell to pay isn't necessarily a good thing. Women today have taken to the notion that because they make their own paper, drive their own cars even...

boyfriend

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kccrystalsachi Just read this and realized and felt the same way of you. LOL. I am close to acting this way most of the time because in most cases, I'd like to be the "superior" instead of giving the lead to my husband which usually makes him go mad at times too. Thank...

30 Mar 12

What is best for my bf/husband to be as a gift to his graduation this april?

jazzieruffa @jazzieruffa (19) • Philippines 26 Mar 12

hello mylotters, i really need your help with this... I've been into a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 6 years now, and he will soon become my husband, since I am bearing our first little angel and soon will be...

grad gift

tattoo

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kccrystalsachi For me, it could be a watch or wallet. Something he can make use of everyday that you feel it can be used for a longer period of time, a year or 2 perhaps... Or you could probably ask him just out of the blue while you're both having a conversation...

28 Mar 12

how often do you get online in mylot?

Bebekoh @lrglara (1334) • Philippines 27 Mar 12

i have been a member of mylot for 4 years. and after a while, i got tired of the similar posts that i respond to every now and then. I know i shouldn't complain. and mylot wasn't as active as it was before. don't get me wrong, i...

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kccrystalsachi I was part of mylot since 2006, but around 2009, I lost my password and couldn't really retrieve it from the email account that was associated with my mylot account since I forgot both of their passwords. :( So I had to literally start from scratch and here I...

27 Mar 12

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birthday =) no money =(

AR Dianon @dianon_ice14 (461) • Philippines 26 Mar 12

My birthday is fast approaching, and I have mixed emotions. Part of me is a bit excited, obviously it's my special day and it's my chance to receive gift (hahahaha). But worried (BIG TIME) because I need to treat my closest...

life

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kccrystalsachi Hi! I'd say having no money on your birthday isn't really a fuzz. It's not something to be so worried about because if your friends care and are real friends, they wouldn't worry about that too. They'd be happy knowing that you've reach another stage of...

27 Mar 12

Friends who betrayed,what's the feeling?

befrindwithme26 @befrindwithme26 (5805) • Philippines 25 Mar 12

Example,you have friend for years together,sharing,exchanging food,helps and others in the time of friendship. And times come he/she betrayed you,and you did not expect,and never know that at the end for years of...

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kccrystalsachi This is always one of the most painful risks of being a best friend to someone. There'll really come a time, when something like this, betrayal can happen, even at the least time that you expected it to happen. But then again, you feel a lot better if you...

25 Mar 12

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Which would flatter you more....

maezee @maezee (41988) • United States 24 Mar 12

By the way, mature content (sort of) warning. I didn't know which interest group to put this in, so I decided that this was going to be the right one - for now. I hung out with a group of my sister's boyfriends friends at the bar...

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kccrystalsachi I'm not a guy here but I'd respond by saying that you should get to know him more. If you feel you like him too, let friendship develop. A good friendship would a great start for both of you to get to know more, and in the long run, know more deeply about each...

25 Mar 12

what will you do to say no?

egram09 @egram09 (78) • Philippines 24 Mar 12

I am always in the middle of stress when my friends ask me for a night out during their free time, not because I don't want to join them but because I don't have money to spend for the night out. I know that they will treat me,...

friends

night out

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kccrystalsachi I would tell my friends that I really can't go out because I don't have money. If they are your real friends, they would understand that you can't go because you ran out of cash or rather would still let you go with them and would just pay for your drinks or...

25 Mar 12

Do envy if other people have many responses in their discussions?

ardoy0731 @ardoy0731 (7308) • Philippines 24 Mar 12

Good eve fellow mylotters... I used to write and post topics or discussions that I think and thought,sometimes based on the things happened to me,what I feel to say or things that I wanted to express.Every time I do make...

mylot

responses

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kccrystalsachi I don't envy them at all. It's just a matter of sharing of ideas and thoughts here and buildings a relationship with other mylotters. Good friendship is what's the most important here so why envy those with lots of responses. I am and will even be happy to...

24 Mar 12

Girlfriend goes to clubs alot

livetrent @livetrent (52) • Australia 22 Mar 12

What do you think if my girlfriend goes to clubs alot? I am not sure if she dances with other guys but I get bad feelings in my gut when she goes out. Is this appropriate?

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kccrystalsachi I've been having a wonderful relationship with my husband, ever since we were still on our boyfriend-girlfriend stage because of open communication so I'd like to give you a simple advice here... Talk to each other... talk to her especially. Let her know that...

22 Mar 12

are swimwears a must have?

jazzieruffa @jazzieruffa (19) • Philippines 21 Mar 12

I am an online seller in facebook, and i will be joining a bazaar next month. I am doing a list of the products that i will sell in the bazaar, shorts, tops, shoes, bags and shirts are already on my list. I am considering to add...

swimwear

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kccrystalsachi Wow! I love the discussion here ---- lovin' summer and talkin' about Swimwears. And yes, definitely, a swimwear is a must have. That is irregardless if our partners like it or not, especially if we're addicted to collecting it. And I'm pretty sure most women...

21 Mar 12

Would you ever take back your boyfriend or husband who has cheated on you?

chloe1055 @chloe1055 (21) • Philippines 21 Mar 12

I was reading a book that said that it's normal for a guy to cheat on you. Would you ever take him back if ever that happens? For me, I don' think I will take him back. I don't think I can do that. How about you guys?

boyfriend

cheater

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kccrystalsachi I was the one who cheated once...and yes, he took me back. We were back then "ex's" who is now literally just happily married with an only daughter who is now 4yrs old but is just so responsible for her age and is going to graduate soon with flying colors. My...

21 Mar 12

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Why do men always like someone else's wife?

zhaozy @zhaozy (33) • China 19 Mar 12

Why do men always like someone else's wife?either because someone much younger wife,either because someone else's wife is more beautiful,more attractive,either because someone else's wife and so on.What is your opinion on this...

like younger beautiful

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kccrystalsachi I may sound too confident --- but I can always find so many reasons why my husband wouldn't want any other wife than me. That is in my own marriage and perspective and one of those reasons would be: Even if I seem to "look and act" like a nun in the outside, I...

21 Mar 12

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how to be debt free

chloe1055 @chloe1055 (21) • Philippines 21 Mar 12

Hi guys! We have to face reality that some of us or most of us have debt. Anyone have a suggestion how can we be debt free? How did you pay off your debt?

debt

money

pay debt

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kccrystalsachi To add up with this kind of problem is the abuse of using Credit Cards. Most people would like to have all the kinds of credit cards in the world where in fact they don't really need all of them. And when they have it, they tend to shop around, not realizing...

21 Mar 12

Love is really just confusing. How much do you love your partner?

cleverland @cleverland (150) • Philippines 20 Mar 12

I don't get it when a person broke up with his boyfriend/girlfriend for so many years and then started a new relationship (sounds more like a rebound), then after a few months, they get married. How can they move on so quick. I...

love

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kccrystalsachi Love is a mixture of confusion and risk. Also, love is just what makes us happy or sad. It really depends on you and your partner. Love is all this but everyone would still choose to be in love irregardless of what it brings to our lives because without love,...

21 Mar 12

My Best Mother

kearkear @kearkear (963) • Davao, Philippines 13 Sep 11

Last year, a month of April, early morning at exactly 5:30 am. My phone rang,before I answer the call, I'm so nervous thinking that what bad things happened in our house that in a very early morning they called up. When I answered...

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kccrystalsachi You are still lucky. Why? Because you're still able to have your Mother alive with you and your family - even up to now. But as for my case, she just called me up 2 days before she passed away. When she died, I wasn't with her and even up to now, I have that...

14 Sep 11

Why do you love your parents?

alnilam @alnilam (969) • United States 14 Sep 11

Do you think that love for our parents is a link that is made by birth (with most cases - well when children do not hate parents or there is abuse, exceptions are always there). Or is our love the product of the fact that we spend...

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kccrystalsachi I love them as they deserve to be loved - more than anything else because it is from them that we owe what we are right now, especially by the values they have taught us and the way they guide us as we grow up.

14 Sep 11

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What you remember most about your teacher?

kearkear @kearkear (963) • Davao, Philippines 13 Sep 11

Lots of things I remembered about my teachers during my high school. Their mannerism, how they teach and inculcate us with the topics. The way they say their jokes.

inculcate

jokes

mannerism

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kccrystalsachi This makes me miss my Mom who is my very own favorite English teacher since birth. When I was still 2 years old, I remember her teaching me how to speak in English with such a great "american" sounding accent. I always love to look back English classes with...

14 Sep 11

Do you know your neighbors well and interact with them regularly?

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 8 Sep 11

Sometime back I was amazed to read a news item in our local papers stating that a housewife was attacked by two men who came to her house saying that they were her neighbors and wanted to make a telephone call since their own...

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kccrystalsachi It may seem odd but since we moved to my hubby's place, where his parents lived, I never knew their neighbors who lived so close to their house. I just see their faces everyday and is somehow familiar with how they look and where they live, like the next house...

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