kitmurphy

@kitmurphy (81)

United States • Age 39

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Only with him

kitmurphy @kitmurphy (81) • United States 21 Oct 12

I slept at my boyfriend's apartment last night and one of our friends sleep on the couch. The apartment is a studio with a wall seperator from the "living room" and the bedroom. When I woke up earlier this morning and had to go...

people

relationships

silly things my boyfriend does

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The cooking wars

kitmurphy @kitmurphy (81) • United States 13 Oct 12

It is when my boyfriend and I try to cook a meal together. We try to follow a recipe and something is missing, he changes something, I question what he is doing, and/or many other side arguments that you may be able to fathom....

angry cooking

cooking with boyfriend

cooking with girlfriend

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kitmurphy I like just trying out stuff without looking at recipes all the time when I am by myself. I have a 60% success rate may be a little more. When we cook together he wants to work on Indian dishes lately. If he just did all the cooking without me or I just...

20 Oct 12

Simple Spinach without the chalky taste

kitmurphy @kitmurphy (81) • United States 20 Oct 12

I like to eat spinach but when I am doing it very simple with a little EVOO and may be some tomatoes or just oil it always seems to taste a little chalky. Does anyone know why that happens? What ways do you do spinach that...

chalk taste

cooking

spinach

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The Best Exotic Marigold Hotel

celticeagle @celticeagle (168269) • Boise, Idaho 20 Oct 12

No, this was not an exiting, fast action, eye openers around ever bend. But it was a quaint, sweet tale of some old folks and what they do in their travels to India. It had Magie Smith, Judi Dench, Ronald Pickup and several other...

judi dench

sweet tale

the best exotic marigold hotel

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kitmurphy I saw this film and liked it. It is a fish out of water story in the fact that these people decide to move to India until they pass but don't really know anything about the place they have chosen. There is comedy and a little romance as well as self discovery....

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How do you feel like being in a "secret affair"?

ggubatina09 @ggubatina09 (36) • Philippines 20 Oct 12

I have seen lots of men who loves to cheat and find secret love affair with other woman. I can't see the bright idea of this and I think that it will cause deep pain with the real partner. The "third party" knows that he/she has a...

discreet relationship

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kitmurphy People are really complicated creatures. Men and women as well have "secret affairs" for many different reasons. Sometimes they have fallen out of love with the one that they are with but out of duty stay with that person thinking that they have made a...

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People with very small heart!!

riyauro @riyauro (6421) • India 17 Oct 12

Hi guys, Since I have painters working at home, I thought I will give them tea at like 4.30pm here which is like tea time. So I went to the shop on the motor bike an d brought the milk, so my mother in law was outside her house...

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kitmurphy I really haven't had any workers come to any place I live in since I left home for university. I mean When we had some one mow the lawn at my parents house my dad would always go and talk to the guy and see how he was doing. I think for Christmas he would give...

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Is married by choice or by love alone?

bembzee @bembzee (768) • Philippines 13 Oct 12

Marriage is a lifetime commitment. It is a responsibility of making a relation work. Though material things is secondary than love yet it plays a vital role in every decision making such as getting married. I have witnessed a...

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kitmurphy There are a lot of people that get married because of love. I know my parents did and they had one child then decided they wanted a better one and had me (jk I love my older sibling). I am happy that they found each other and even though they argue at times,...

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Should I call it "prank calling your ex"?

hana_tsukushi @hana_tsukushi (136) • Philippines 11 Oct 12

I have a friend who has never been able to get over his first girlfriend. He still has her number. And it's still active (I tried one time calling it for him and it rang). He plans on calling her and pretend that he's another...

break up

cell phone

love

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kitmurphy I agree with the others that he has to be honest if he calls this ex. If he calls and pretends to be some one else that isn't going to help things along. She can instantly not want to talk to a stranger and if he pretends to be some one she knows then what if...

13 Oct 12

The cooking wars

kitmurphy @kitmurphy (81) • United States 13 Oct 12

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Picking on me for stuff I have done before

kitmurphy @kitmurphy (81) • United States 7 Oct 12

I have been with this guy for a while and we only recently have decided that we are officially boyfriend and girlfriend (it sounds so middle school to say that). Well last night we were hanging out at my favorite bar. I grabbed a...

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kitmurphy This was definitely a day I was not using my words. I know that there are some soft spots that are triggered indirectly by just the implication of things. I try not to let this come out but I can tell that they will always be there and I have to better manage...

13 Oct 12

Since when does $12.32 - $4.94 = negative $22.62?

HeresTheScoop @HeresTheScoop (748) • United States 12 Oct 12

Our bank is doing it again! This is what our statement said. We were charged $120 in late fees!! We had a balance of $12.32 and two debits that were $4.94 and $5.38 $6.34 which leaves a balance of a positive $2.00. The bank...

bad bank computer software

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kitmurphy If this persists to happen then it is definitely worth the hassle to move banks. It will suck to have to move everything but it will be easier for you in the long run. Imagine the accidental fee charging occurring when you really need the money in your bank...

13 Oct 12

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I think she needs to look at herself

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 8 Oct 12

My Mother watches Hoarders all the time, now I'll say our house isnt nearly as bad. She keeps walking by you need to watch this show, this is your future house, this is how gross you are. Now right now I will admit I have a...

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kitmurphy The good thing for you is that you are actually cleaning after yourself. Also you do have an example of what you do not want to be like. The problem with her is once you move out it may get worse in her house. Even though she hasn't gotten to hoarders status...

8 Oct 12

i am having outside food as i do not know how to cook..

subhojit10 @subhojit10 (7375) • India 8 Oct 12

hey guys, my parents are out of station for 5 days and i had to stay at home due to my other priorities but the worst part is that i have to depend on outside food as i do not know how to cook. i even do not know how to turn on...

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kitmurphy That sucks. I was lucky though because anytime my dad left town, he did the cooking in the house, there were meals to be heated and eaten around. My mom didn't cook because she worked a lot and this only happened when I was in grade/elementary school and...

8 Oct 12

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My boyfriend and his ex girlfriend's picture

kokomo @kokomo (1867) • Philippines 7 Oct 12

What would you feel if you see the picture of your boyfriend or girlfriend's ex in the photo album that was kept and taken care of by your boyfriend or girlfriend?Will you be hurt?Is it a big deal for you?

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kitmurphy This is a loaded question no matter what. It would hurt to see the picture of a boyfriend's ex in a picture album but there can be many levels to this. If this picture was out and on display in his room it would be a big deal because obviously that could be...

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How to let go of love without hurting?

bembzee @bembzee (768) • Philippines 6 Oct 12

Many cases of breaking ups makes two become a mortal enemy. Most get depressed and recovers a long time. Where few becomes man or woman haters. Can't this be avoided? Is there any other way of breaking ups without hurting someone?...

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kitmurphy When my ex and I went our separate ways it was hard. We knew that we still cared about each other but there was a lot of friction and strain on us from not being together a lot due to his job. For a while I tried to keep it friendly but a lot of the time we...

7 Oct 12

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