lady10blue

@lady10blue (43)

Philippines • Age 42

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Will you change religion for the one you love?

raviteja_ravi84 @raviteja_ravi84 (2620) • India 11 Jul 10

My friend has a problem. He is a Hindu and he has met a girl online who is a Muslim. They want to get married together but the girl's parents said that he must convert himself to a Muslim if he wants to marry her. He is ready to...

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lady10blue Hi rav, well both of them should make the decision in the first place and not their parents wishes. I'm sure they are on their right age to stand up on what they think would be best for them both. Secondly, converting into something you don't believe in would...

12 Jul 10

Is this possible?

cherryjean @cherryjean (77) • Philippines 28 Jun 10

I and my partner just broke up last month. It's hard. That is because we really love each other until now. We just broke up because I know that he needs to improve himself, as well as myself. Well, We will just have to wait for...

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lady10blue Hi cherryjean! You know when you plunge into a relationship there's always something to improve. We grow and we change and we adjust to new things..What you got to do is not to break up but help each other to improve things. That's commitment right? Until you...

29 Jun 10

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is it ok if I will be involve with man to man relationship?

LIENROSE @LIENROSE (910) • Philippines 28 Jun 10

i feel abnormal these past few days... i am with my friend jacob who was been s,o close to me...and i feel something wrong with me...aizzzt plz help me

man

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lady10blue Hi lienrose, you know i think it is just okay :) But! I think too that you should confront yourself first. Feels like you dont know yourself. How could you possibly date a guy if you yourself dont know what or who you are. Spend time with yourself. Ask and...

29 Jun 10

How can you make someone feel that you love Him/Her without yourself look stupid

mhekhies16 @mhekhies16 (462) • Philippines 8 Jun 10

I just wanna know how...we have a new player in our computer shop.. He's not handsome or cute..you can tell that he is ugly when you see him.. but I like him..and I want to make him feel it..but I am so afraid that I will make...

admiration

crush

love

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lady10blue Hi mhekhies, your a funny girl! I like the part when you said he is ugly when you see him lol. Thats us girls, not after looks but after character! Anyway, why not try to play the game he is playing then compete with him. IM not sure how you guys play things...

9 Jun 10

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Can you forgive a sister who slept with your husband?

zukichucha @zukichucha (991) • United States 28 May 10

At the age of 16 my sister was an alcoholic. I took my mother to court and got custody of her. I sobered her up and got her back in high school. She lived with me for over two years before I realized she was sleeping with my...

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lady10blue I couldnt imagine what you had gone through. Im so sorry. How could people do that? Not to mention a sister and a husband?? Unbelievable! But you did the right thing. Stand up for yourself and your daughter. You dont deserve a man like that. And personally...

9 Jun 10

Do you buy this?

zenki08 @zenki08 (700) • Philippines 8 Jun 10

I know it is possible to fall in love in cyberspace and on the phone. I too have experienced it one time but I have a friend whose experience is different. he has been in a long distance relationship with a girl which he has not...

love

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lady10blue 5 years? You know when we girls fall in love we really move heaven and earth. And for 5 years, she's got all her time! I think there's something fishy there..can you smell it? lol

8 Jun 10

made to feel guilty for being just a "stay at home mom"

ersanmiguel @ersanmiguel (476) • Philippines 3 Jun 10

i didn't understand this profession until i became one i myself sometimes feel having such low self esteem especially when i see some of my classmates from high school and college wearing their professional...

business at home

multitasker

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lady10blue i feel exactly the way you do. But at the end of the day, its my life. And as i always tell my friends, being a mom is never a job, its a career! And yes, im a proud stay at home mom too (^_^) Cheers to us!!

8 Jun 10

what's the cuttest thing your child did?

madonna22 @madonna22 (28) • Philippines 4 Jun 10

my daughter loves to dress up. she wears gown as her everyday clothes, she have a cabinet full of gowns and costumes. she imagine herself a princess and her imaginary friend is Jesus.

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lady10blue My daughter really loves asking me WHYs? Like "mum, why do we have big mouth?" "mum, why do we sit?" Impossible child! And one day, i caught her looking at me intently. She said, "mum, why are you pretty?" She really made me laugh with that one! Cute!

8 Jun 10

How do i help my wife cope with the loss of her dad ?

Glennbradbury @Glennbradbury (367) 7 Jun 10

My wifes dad passed away this morning after losing a long battle with cancer. My wife is obviously devastated. I am there for her but i do not know what else i can do. I feel so helpless.

death

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lady10blue The only thing you can do for her Glenn is to be a shoulder to cry on. I just lost my mum too. It was devastating and traumatic especially when i saw her face down on the floor swollen with bruises and cuts on her lips and chin. My husband just stood by me...

8 Jun 10

I'm looking new friends

Helenlgw @Helenlgw (16) • United States 5 Jun 10

I'm new here. Wondering how it will for people to find me? How active are the members When I joined yuwie I friends requests before I finish my profile.

friends

friendship

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lady10blue hi, u know what, i have just one friend on here lol. You can add me okay. Im not sure how lol, but we can try yeah? See you xx

5 Jun 10

do you ever feel like commiting suicide?

chantalreanne @chantalreanne (160) 4 Jun 10

I do all the time.. my life is perfectly adequate just normal really but I want so much more out of life and it seems impossible sometimes I wish I could just press a button and be dead but I'm scared of the pain of suicide and...

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lady10blue hi chantal, you know its funny because im so depressed when i logged on mylot and your post caught my attention almost at once lol. Im so much older than you and yet here i am starting to hate my life. I honestly havent read all the threads in your post bcoz...

5 Jun 10

Did you ever regret getting married?

dhezrn @dhezrn (98) • Philippines 2 Jun 10

So I just got married 3 months ago. I know they keep on saying that you won't get to really KNOW your partner until you lived with them. Now things are beginning to be clear. I keep on seeing negative things about my husband that...

regret marriage

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lady10blue Hi dhezrn, i have been married for 5 years now and i would be very honest that until now im asking myself the same question you have. But maybe because i got married a little too young. In the end, its a question of myself not him. The dreams of doing a...

3 Jun 10

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Does long distance relationship work?

kidjuwee @kidjuwee (611) • Philippines 1 Jun 10

I know it's hard to have a long distance relationship because of time differences and simply because you are far away from each other. Do you guys think the relationship is still worth it when you feel like you are the only one...

long distance

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lady10blue Long distace relationship works for some and not for others. I know, i have been into it. And its all worth the wait. BUT!! Being in a Long Distance Relationship is different when u guys dont communicate that much. Thats the whole point of having a...

1 Jun 10

Running around without being divorced

arabgirl28 @arabgirl28 (165) • United States 29 May 10

Several months ago I met someone who has absolutely no respect for any vows whatsoever. Seems or so he said that he was married and his wife just didn't care anymore. So he is running around like he is dating without being...

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lady10blue I think this guy isnt all about "running around without getting divorced", he really doesnt want to in the first place. Its not about religion or something. Becuase if you look deeper, he is just a poor guy wanting to get his wife attention by going around...

30 May 10

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Is it worth it to give second chances?

joygracia @joygracia (1325) • Philippines 29 May 10

I have my broken hearts. I found it my bf is in love with another girl. He confess it to me but the girl already has another man so he ends up coming back to me. Foolish as I am, I love him to the fact I blinded myself with this...

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lady10blue IM sorry to hear that. I think you need to move on without him, you know you deserve better. What happens if the other girl loves him too? He wont get back to you right? To him, you are just a choice. Be tough and move on, you dont need a guy like that.

30 May 10

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Are you really happily married?

momathome @momathome (474) • Canada 27 May 10

I have been married now for 8 long years, and honestly I wish I never would have got married. I think we would be more happier if we would have just left things the way they were. I think once you sign that paper that says you are...

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lady10blue I understand how u feel and ive been questioning myself too for 5 years now. AM i happy in my marriage?? And i would be honest to say im not. Feels like girls always end up taking care of the relationship instead of both of you. I always say that my marriage...

28 May 10

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What type of delivery have you undergo???

urcheekyangel @urcheekyangel (438) • Philippines 20 Mar 10

I delivered through C-section, it was very complicated, I dont really want to have an incision but that was the only option i could get is the C-section, My due was supposed to be on Sept 3, 2009, but had undergone a C-section on...

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lady10blue C-section here! She was big, weighing 7.8. My doctor asked me to have a trial labor, she thought i could handle it since im young and strong. I guess she was trying to save me from having c-section. She gave me a week more after my due but i really didnt felt...

22 May 10

What would you do if your 25 year old son wanted to date a woman twice his age?

mssnow @mssnow (9484) • United States 16 May 10

I said son because for some reason people accept younger females with older men easier than younger men with older woman. At least from my point of view. So if your 25 year old son came home and said he was dating a woman who was...

older lady

younger man

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lady10blue hi mssnow, i think i would feel sad about it, as i would want my son to go for someone he's age or even a little older but not that old. Not to mentioned he would have to face different reactions (good or bad)from friends, relatives and the society he's living...

16 May 10

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Where you keep your mobile while sleeping?

nar8988 @nar8988 (409) 2 Jan 10

Most of us have different habits ,some would say that we switch off the mobile while sleeping ,but where you keep your mobile at that time.Do you keep your mobile just at your bedside or keep it near your table lamp or you keep...

cellphone

life

mobile

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lady10blue You wont believe me but i put it under my pillow when i go to sleep. Yeah yeah i know thats funny lol. Its on a silent mode anyway. Hmmmm...habit!

3 Jan 10