ladyella

@ladyella (145)

Philippines • Age 35

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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An EX wanted to get me back!!! but his married already.... OHHHH Nooooo..

fler @feodda (579) • Philippines 14 Nov 09

My ex just call me this day. He is asking me about us. What had happen to our relationship before and Why I leave him? I told him that I send him a letter for our break up stating all what I want to tell him. It is because of a...

lover

partner

relationship

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ladyella hi there! i can't help but wonder what's going on with your ex, chasing you that way when he's already married. well for me, it'd really be safe for now to just to stay away from him and ignore his attempts at communicating with you. although it wouldn't hurt...

14 Nov 09

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What do you do to boost your immune system?

marguicha @marguicha (224945) • Chile 25 Oct 09

Let´s share our secrets. Most of them surely are just common sense. For me it´s important to be as relaxed as I can. That´s why vacations are a very important part of my life. I love sitting on the sand in a beach, watching a...

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ladyella hi there! it is really important for me to get enough sleep because if i don't, i seem to be more prone to different kinds of sickness. i also eat on time and i cut out on meat and make it a point to eat more fish and vegetables. i believe in the saving power...

26 Oct 09

Should Woman pay on First Dates?

fler @feodda (579) • Philippines 24 Oct 09

For me, on the First date the guy should be the one to pay for the bills. Unless for many dates you have with him, I should offer to pay for the bills. It not fair to let him pay all the time. It should be an equal treatment.

date

dating

first dates

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ladyella hi feodda! well, it is really customary for a man to pay on a first date because it is usually them who did the inviting, right? but if you are already a couple who's going steady, girls should share the bill sometimes. i do that with my boyfriend because we...

26 Oct 09

Emotional Intelligence and IQ, Which One is More Important?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 25 Oct 09

There was a time when intelligence quotient(IQ) was considered the leading determinant of success. At that time, people who had a high IQ were more likely to succeed. However, more and more people hold the idea that our...

emotional intelligence

succeed

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ladyella hi there! i believe that both are equally important and it'd be far better if we can balance these two. but have you heard of the multiple intelligences? there are 7 and that's quite the new approach to intelligence now. intelligence covers a wide spectrum and...

26 Oct 09

Is it just me or ..

SandrainSpain @Sandra1952 (6047) • Spain 26 Oct 09

Does it bother you as well when responders end their post with 'Happy Mylotting?' To me, it's a jarring note at the end of the response. People who make long, interesting responses never seem to do it, so it makes me wonder...

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ladyella it's a funny thing because i started using that on some of my comments when i read it from someone who commented on my post. lol. i do not know why but maybe i'm using it because i believed it was some kind of a trend in here in mylot so i did it too....

26 Oct 09

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What will You Do When Parents Quarrel in Front of You?

getbrowser @getbrowser (1708) • China 26 Oct 09

Yesterday, my parents had a fierce arguement just for some trivial matters. Whenever I meet such bad situations, I tend to go to my room so that they can have some privacy. Yes, what I want is to leave them some space to let...

parents quarrel in front of kids

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ladyella i was too young when my parents broke up so i do not have much memories about their quarrels. but i have seen my mom and her boyfriend quarrel and i was between them. i was dumbfounded and i wasn't able to do anything except just stare at both of them. i...

26 Oct 09

What do you hate inside your class or during class time?

ryheanne @ryheanne (222) • South Korea 9 Oct 09

Many students hate quizzes, exams especially un-announce and recitations. I also hate that when I was still a student, I also hate assignments in Math, and Math projects. As a joke says, when answering a journal ( I forgot the...

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ladyella i hate it when students have to do REPORTING in class. you know, the one where topics for the whole course are assigned to each student and they are asked to do the discussion in place of the teacher. i know that it's one way of engaging each one to speak up...

24 Oct 09

how would you rate your level of stress as being a student?

danemz @danemz (9) 23 Oct 09

education is one thing that nobody could ever steal it from us. it is one of the most important thing that everybody wants to have, for it is through it that we can secure our future. and for us to live a better life..but as a...

education

student

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ladyella from 1-10? my stress level would be 5. ^^ i'm really a very relaxed person and i do not take things hardly because it is not necessary. i take things slow and i do not push myself into doing things that's why i am keeping my stress level low. yes, i am a...

24 Oct 09

what time would be a best time for marry?

christina1989 @christina1989 (462) • China 23 Oct 09

marrige is one of the most important things in one's life .but what time would be a best time for marry?I think it will be 26 to 28...how do you think?

marry

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ladyella well, personally, i believe that the best age to marry is between 23-25 for women and 25-27 for men. i believe in the principle of starting early because life is short and i personally would like to spend my life with my husband and kids. i still want to be...

24 Oct 09

husband does not love anymore

indahfth @indahfth (11161) • Indonesia 24 Oct 09

What should I do? My husband told me be frank, that my husband did not love me anymore. he remained there with me because he had responsibilities as a husband. I felt odd about this situation. whether I should leave my husband?

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ladyella oh, i know how you're feeling and i pray that you'll patch things up with him again. why don't you ask him for the reason why he believes that he has fallen out of love? as his wife, you have the right to know. maybe in knowing the truth, you'll realize a lot...

24 Oct 09

Do you like bargaining? are you good at it?

shally_hh @shally_hh (418) • China 9 Oct 09

It is common that sometimes the shop owners quote us much higher price than the normal,in case of being cheated,bargaining is necessary.but i am not good at bargaining at all, so i prefer to buy something from emporium or shops...

bargaining

high price

shop

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ladyella i believe that i am quite good at it and that is really a good advantage no matter where i am. bargaining is really easy to do especially when the salesperson is a man. lol. my sister and i really love bargaining with men because we can sometimes make them...

17 Oct 09

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Do Clothes make your personality change ?

asfiona @asfiona (174) • India 14 Oct 09

Hi Recentlty i went for shopping wearing t-shirts n jeans in a big show room. Before i enter in that store, i juz question myself whether m i wearing the suitable clothes. I ignore my thought and entered in the store but what...

do clothes make your personality change

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ladyella personality means a lot more than the clothes you wear. it is an integration of many things, not just how you look. clothes could only change how people see you and what they think about you. it may also change how you feel about yourself. but changing clothes...

17 Oct 09

what is the best wish i can give to a debutant?

alleroid16 @alleroid16 (943) • Philippines 16 Oct 09

help guys. my friend's birthday is coming soon. i need to have a short speech on her. :D

debut

friend

jewel

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ladyella tell her that you are wishing all the joys of womanhood and of life and that she may find the desires of her heart, whatever they may be. ^^

17 Oct 09

Will you open your door to Bible carrying religious workers?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 16 Oct 09

I see many religious people going around knocking on doors asking for time either to talk or conduct Bible studies. They meant well but in today's society when it's even more difficult to trust stangers, it's difficult to just let...

religious workers

talking to strangers

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ladyella my mother tells me to just tell those people that my mother is not in the house and she has strictly left instructions not to let stranger into the house. i find it hard to turn down people, especially concerning religious matters, but there are times when i...

17 Oct 09

What mannerism in people that you find annoying?

manong05 @manong05 (5027) • Philippines 16 Oct 09

Some of us have mannerisms and they are brought to our attention by friends and we overcome them. I know of someone whose mannerism really irritates people but bringing it his attention doesn't change anything. The guy plays with...

annoying sights

mannerism

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ladyella i really hate seeing men who put their hands inside their pants as if they want to make sure of their manhood is still there. lol. it's okay to do this where people can't see you but in public places, keep your hands off yours. you know what i mean. ^^

17 Oct 09

What's your favorite type of movie?

cjfoust @cjfoust (614) • United States 16 Oct 09

What is your favorite type of movie? Do you prefer funny movies, scary movies, action movies? I like a variety of all. It is hard to choose which type is my favorite. I love funny movies. I like a good scary movie too, but I...

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ladyella i love funny and romantic movies like chick flicks. i'm not really into the heavy kind of movies like drama. i also like a little bit of horror but not the gross type where there are lots of blood and heads are being cut off. but the best are really funny...

17 Oct 09

do you want to be student in rest of your life..?

udnisak @udnisak (609) • Australia 14 Oct 09

most people tend to finish studying after they graduate.. but some go for master degrees or even phd degrees... i want to know how you end your life as a student.. will u stop styding as soon as you get a good job or will you...

master student

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ladyella i would stop studying when i already earn my phd someday. it's really nice of you have degrees like that cause you get better jobs and higher compensations. but even after receiving it, i'd still study, not the kind i do in university but studying life skills...

17 Oct 09

any suggestions to wear high heeled shoes

rachellecu @rachellecu (52) 17 Oct 09

hi. i have high heeled shoes and it just kills me to wear them. i see celebrities and other people wear their shoes so comfortably, no matter how high their shoes are. do you have any suggestions on how to wear them for a day...

shoes

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ladyella choose the right kind of high heels. there are high-heeled shoes that are only nice to look at but are not comfortable for use. try on different kinds before buying one and try walking while wearing it. for tips on how to walk gracefully like a lady and...

17 Oct 09

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Children - Is it OK not to have any?

carmelbg @carmelbg (519) 17 Oct 09

I am almost 30 and my husband and I have no desire to start a family. We have enjoyed the freedom and flexibility of having no children, lived in various countries and been able to do what we want when we want. I feel like people...

children

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ladyella no, i don't think that there's anything wrong with that. the decision to have children is a couple's own choice since they are the ones who would take responsibility for raising kids, not the people who are surrounding them. if you really do not want to have...

17 Oct 09

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Have you ever reused cooking oil?

ronnyb @ronnyb (6113) • Jamaica 16 Oct 09

In these times of recession many of us including myself are tempted to economise and find ways to minimise use of materials .There was a time when I would reuse cooking oil or use it for an extended period of time but then I was...

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ladyella oh yes we do. but it really depends on the kind of food that was fried beforehand. we do not reuse oil when we are frying fresh fish or when we are cooking dried fish. the idea is it's ok to reuse oil as long as it is still clean and there are minimal residues...

17 Oct 09

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1 person