Lambchoper

@Lambchoper (538)

United States • Age 63

Joined myLot 16 years ago

"Speak your truth!"

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help please!!!

friendship4lyfe @friendship4lyfe (520) • Saint Lucia 22 May 09

I am 5 feet 3 inches and i weigh almost 160lbs.I am fat and want to lose at least thirty pounds,what should i do?I am trying the cereal diet with little fat and less food on my plate.But its hard for me to do.Although i feel...

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Lambchoper Start a high fiber diet and walk a minimum of 10,000 steps a day. Make those steps aerobic, which is fast enough to get your heart pumping. You should try to eat at least 35 grams of fiber and drink at least 64 oz of water a day.

22 May 09

Do you have good temper?

cindyhxf @cindyhxf (1446) • China 21 May 09

Hi friends,do you think you have good temper.never got mad or upset to others?you are peaceful people?i think good temper alwys good gift to others.how do you think?did anyboday hurt you by their bad temper? how to control your...

goodtemper

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Lambchoper My temper can be good and it can be bad depending on the situation. The only stipulation I place on my temper is I don't let it get the better of me. I'm in charge not my temper.

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Just one in your life, you was hungry and don t have food to eat?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 22 May 09

Is a hard question, but if people are honest, they can answer. Was a time in your life when you was really hungry and you don t had any money to buy something to eating? Are so many people in this world who go to sleep with...

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Lambchoper I've been hungry. As kids we went hungry quite often and as an adult I have made a point of never going hungry again. This is the main reason why I never walk past a homeless person without handing them at least a little cash.

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The Da Vinci Code case in 2006

dicsyen @dicsyen (54) • Malaysia 22 May 09

I'm sure everyone knows the amount of mess in the Christian world after the release of the movie The Da Vinci Code.To me Christians that protest in front of the cinemas and premiers are just low in faith.Think about it,it's just a...

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Lambchoper I agree, only those who are weak in their faith fear alternative views.

22 May 09

Our own right to die

lynettebyc @lynettebyc (2416) • China 21 May 09

The news says that South Korea's Supreme Court upheld a ruling allowing life support to be turned off for a patient in a permanet vegetative state. Wow, now people in South Korea has got their right to die with dignity. I hope...

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Lambchoper Yes, I would let them die, in fact, I'd fight for their right to die. The members of my family have an agreement with each other, we all know each others views on this matter and we will do everything in our power to make sure our loved ones wishes are...

22 May 09

*** When do you use BORROW and when LEND

diamania @diamania (7011) • Netherlands 22 May 09

Could somebody please explain me when to use "borrow" and when "lend". I don't see the difference yet.

english language

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Lambchoper You use lend when you are giving, you use borrow when you take. The library lends books to the people who want to borrow them.

22 May 09

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Have you ever forgotten to do something important?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 22 May 09

This morning when I woke up, I hopped onto Twitter to check out some things. Sure enough, two hours later, when I pulled my head out of the computer, I realized that I had forgotten to do anything on...

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Lambchoper Boy, I'll say! Once, just once mind you, I forgot to pick my son up from school. He was in the second grade and by the time I remembered him I was already 30 minutes late. He was smart enough to go to the office and have them call me. They reached me on my...

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Tired of listening...

charlenmendoza @charlenmendoza (922) • Philippines 21 May 09

There will be time that you will be soo tired of listening to a friend who always complain about her relationship. She knows that the guy is taking advantage of her, she is using her and yet she dont want to listen to you. She...

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Lambchoper If you get tired of listening, then don't. Tell your friend you need a break, explain that it's wearing you out. Giving your friend a place to vent is a good thing, letting them invade your peace is not. I notice you said she asks for advise but doesn't do...

22 May 09

Do mama's boys make good husband material

scheng1 @scheng1 (24649) • Singapore 22 May 09

I come across this question while rating articles in Helium. There are 16 writers expressing their opinions on this question. My friend dated a guy from her church. After a few dates, he told my friend "if my mother does not like...

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Lambchoper Some do and some don't. If the mother is a good person, she probably raised a good son and their closeness is more likely than not a good thing. On the other hand, if the mother is a overbearing nut job and her son is a snivelling ninny, I'd steer clear of...

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Is beating really necessary to teach children discipline?

RA2_007 @RA2_007 (151) • India 22 May 09

Yesterday I have been going through another discussion here in myLot. It was about domestic violence(actually about husband beating wife). Then I came accross a response which said at one point that sometimes beating becomes...

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Lambchoper Beating a child trains them to hit. Training a child to become well disciplined takes discipline. Hitting is about as undisciplined as it gets.

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Please let me stay in care.

suzzy3 @suzzy3 (8341) 21 May 09

My neibours daughter played up caused trouble.She was a nightmare always bringing bad kids back to her mothers house,hit her mother and in the end she was put into temporary care,she does not want to come home.When you read this...

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Lambchoper I wouldn't be too quick to judge the relationship between this girl and her mother. I would be willing to bet not all the blame for the "bad behavior" rest with the girl. Loving your child dearly doesn't necessarily mean you can relate to them. Some...

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Do you think America is still a Christian nation

dzwagy @dzwagy (7) • United States 21 May 09

Dlo you think we're still a Christian naiton--one nation undedr God indivisible with liberty and justice for all? If yes or no, why? I personlly don't think we're a Christian naiton anymore and this is quite unfortunate. Yes,...

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Lambchoper I do think we are still one nation under God. I don't think we are a nation indivisible with liberty and justice for ALL. The irony is that the biggest dividing line is religion. Religion separates us. Atheists don't count because they don't believe....

22 May 09

What would you do if the person you love says it over .......

foisgras @foisgras (205) • Sweden 21 May 09

Honesty & Trust were the pillars of of our relationship. We are both divorced from our previous marriages. He has 3 grown-up children and I have 2, leaving on their own. We met in November last year. We see each other on 2...

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Lambchoper I'd get busy starting over and when the suitcase arrived I'd unpack it. The only thing you can control in a relationship is you.

22 May 09

Treet your self gently when you make mistake

evone_wen @evone_wen (11) • Malaysia 21 May 09

Avoid punishing yourself for your mistake. Don't call yourself names or tell yourself how stupid you are. That only reinforces the belife that you make poor choices,which make you fearful and acyually increases the chance of...

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Lambchoper Finding a balance between tearing myself a new one and coddling poor little ole me has been part of my life journey. It's learning to live in the now and it's a very important step to finding inner peace. I found it!! Excellent discussion!!!

22 May 09

Have you ever seen a dandelion?

Heather Echola @GardenGerty (160949) • United States 2 Jun 08

Some of my friends on myLot have not. I promised to do a closeup and a discussion. Do you have dandelions?

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Lambchoper Younger is better. You can eat them raw in salads or you can boil them like greens. A little butter, salt and pepper and you're in business. Enjoy!

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