langleben

@langleben (42)

China • Age 39

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Have you ever made no sense after hours on Mylot?

April @cloud_kicker_32 (4635) • United States 30 Aug 09

I was just looking back on all my unresolved topics and giving out BR's and there are like 5 discusssions that made absolutely no sense what so ever! lol! No wonder people never even touched them! Then i also thought about how...

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langleben Hi, cloud_kicker! As a new mylotter, I have similar feeling with you. I am easily lost in the post forest while wandering here and there. And I am not sure whether my discussion could cause attention. Everytime I start to write a discussion myself, too many...

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Why is staying committed such a challenging task?

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 30 Aug 09

One thing I have learned through my boyfriend is that I am really not very good at staying committed to something. And when I say committed I don't mean to our relationship, I mean to extra activities. Like excersize and diets...

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langleben Hi, phoenix! It seems my auntie and you are of the same type. She often makes decisions and always does a good job at the begining but leaves a mass in the end. But do you know that is the reason why my uncle loves her:) Since broken order can always give him...

30 Aug 09

why it is so tough to live ?

rocketsky @rocketsky (1013) • China 29 Aug 09

I am currently looking for a job ,I found it too difficult to be recognized by other people even though you are talented .I felt so tired and unhappy these days ,It seems I had lost myself on this way .I have tried four working...

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langleben Hi, rocketsky! Please remeber you are not alone. It is the best time and the worst time also. To have an ideal job is somewhat like to have an ideal marriage. If you start to pursue you may be hurt. But if you don't start you will gain nothing. So that is all...

29 Aug 09

Do you still have your first cell phone?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 28 Aug 09

I got my frist mobile 5 years ago as a gift from my Dad when when I passed MS with a good grade.I stil have it even though I don't use it. It is a standard Sony Ericsion phone without many features like Camera or FM. I badly...

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langleben It has been sold. My first mobile is bought via earnings in part-time job. It's Nokia 1001 or someother. No radio, no camera but with a torch. I loved it, however. Especially in the dark night, it helped a lot. It accompanied me for 2 years. During these...

28 Aug 09

What should i do?! HELP!!

x_Jo_x @x_Jo_x (1040) 23 Aug 09

Hey all! Right, this is the situation:- My last relationship was crap, my ex was a pig, domestically violent and it was a really horrible time of my life in which i lost several of my close friends and rarely spoke to the...

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langleben Congrats on your new begining relationship. Man and woman think different. Man focuses on the result, while woman is more concerned about the process. Your friend maybe too desired to have a solution of your relationship because he found you suitable. But you...

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How do you use any extra income or other money that comes your way?

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 21 Aug 09

I have had to spend a bit of my online earnings to pay a couple of bills, but anything I earn online, I usually put in a savings account. Soon, I will start adding some of it to my retirement account....

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langleben Hey, PeacefulWmn! You are my real model:) I always imagine to be well prepared for my retirement account with the help of internet. You know in my hometown retired life is not so guaranteed. The question is not to earn a lot but to have some extra from time to...

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do your moods have colors?

savypat @savypat (20216) • United States 19 Aug 09

How do you choose what you wear each day? By that I mean what color you wear when you can make a choice. If you wake up happy do you choose a happy color, if you are stressed do you wear some other color. Or does what you are...

habits for coping

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langleben When I am happy, I prefer some lucky colors. Red is very good, orange is also my favorite. But if I am depressed, I will take care of colors so as not to to even depressed. Depression can be caused by physiological problems. For example, stomach-ache can make...

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Should Google Create Their Own Operating System To Compete With Microsoft?

elmiko @elmiko (6630) • United States 19 Aug 09

Google is the best company that could pull such a thing off as they have plenty of funds to do so. Its just they would have to get the support of computer companies. It would actually give Microsoft competition. For all I know...

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langleben Yeah, of course. Google has to do so, i think. Microsoft is good at imitating. Nowadays, MS is pulling a lot of his resources in the field of searching. Though his product is more a toy than a business, you should never overlook him. Think about Vista like...

20 Aug 09

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Technology Making People Lazy?

maxilimian @maxilimian (3099) • Indonesia 19 Aug 09

Did you feel that technology making people more lazy nowadays? There is a lot of technology product's been made to make people get easier to do something, but as people get used to do the things with the technology, is this one of...

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langleben Generally I feel bad in similar situations. But as far as I know, that may not result from laziness but from other 3 main reasons. Sometimes, those one-floor users maybe too tired. Not be tired in the body, but be tired in the mind. They have no idea what...

19 Aug 09

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Can Negativity Be Classed As An Illness?

Brian @wolfie34 (26771) • United Kingdom 16 Aug 09

What makes a person negative? I am not talking about a few negative thoughts here and there, I am talking about a permanent state of negativity when everything is viewed as being negative. Is negativity just a part of...

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langleben Hi, wolfie! Negative thinking seems to be a gene of my mother's family. As far as I was born, a bad cold caught me and my grandma did not believe I could survive. During my childhood, I was used to helping my grandma's mother to clean up her belongings because...

17 Aug 09

Love is Difficult, and Then There Is the Guilt-

princess07031980 @princess07031980 (5412) • United States 13 Aug 09

OK, I am not one to post the "drama infested" subjects, but it has seemed that that is what's been on my mind lately so here is another one.... I broke up with my fiance 2 days ago. We were together just over a year. I have...

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langleben Hello princess! Have you ever watched some plants like vines or with bines? They usually live upon bracket's support. I guess you have found him as your bracket because he could solve so many problems and comfort you. That is very natural so please do not...

15 Aug 09

What is a true console? Mother's embrace / friends or partner's hugs?

phillip_shiny @phillip_shiny (2330) • India 13 Aug 09

Hi People, I really wonder about the 'place of console' for every heart in this world. Everyone in this world really needs to be consoled in some situations or other. Now tell me what is your true consoling place....

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langleben Long long ago, my mother told me church could be my final console. She meant not only for God, but referred to a religious family. I am finding that very true. Parents have got old and they could not understand a young man's feeling sometimes. Though they...

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Is keeping your word important to you?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 13 Aug 09

For most of us promises are easily made, it is keeping them often proves more difficult. We sometimes find it simpler to agree to undertake an almost impossible task than we do to say no. When we aspire to consistently keep our...

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langleben "Heaven and earth will pass away, but my word will not pass away." The promise of God has a great influence on me even from the childhood. Many devotional followers have taught me a lot of lessons of how to keep their words to friends, collegues and God....

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Embarrassing (and costly) moments....

PeacefulWmn9 @PeacefulWmn9 (10420) • United States 12 Aug 09

One time when I was a young mother, for no apparent reason, the clothes dryer wouldn't work, no matter what I did. It was a Kenmore, so I called the repair people at Sears to come and fix it the next day, which they...

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langleben Eh, it makes me to think of my first working day. I was so fresh in a business environment and very excited. After manager introduced me to the stuff, I began my work. First, the HR department had some formulas for me. While filling them, I was a little...

13 Aug 09

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Do you offer seat when you are on a bus?What a bad experience I have......

nagisachan @nagisachan (88) • China 12 Aug 09

Today..I was on a bus.and it's lucky not much people so I have seat,but just after a few station,it became crowded..and then an old woman went into the bus,and seems very tired of waiting in the bus station,and since she stant...

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langleben Yes, but sometimes. If it is not so crowded, I will usually ask politely whether the elder or disabled need that seat so as not to annoy them. Because there are always some people with a young heart:) According to my experience, only the blind will never...

13 Aug 09

do you like to show your personal information online?

Victor005 @Victor005 (52) • China 12 Aug 09

In china,we have two blogs which are used frequently.the one is xiaonei(sth like facebook),the other one is QQzone(QQ blog).in xiaonei,you have to show your personal information like real name,address,cellphone number,school........

personal information

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langleben The second one is preferred. When there are people, there are conflicts, thus will be Vanity Fain(Jianghu^_^) there. If others do not know your personnal information, it could be easier to focus on the contention itself, it has nothing to do with any...

12 Aug 09

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Do you or have you attended your class reunions?

jillhill @jillhill (37354) • United States 12 Aug 09

My 40th is this weekend. I have not attended since my five year reunion because of many factors.....first my best frien in high school and my boyfriend of four years suddenly became involved at the end of my junior year......it...

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langleben Primary school's, junior middle school's and senior middle school's class reunions have I all attended. But I may never attend them again ~ My classmates have all changed so much and be very curious to know what is happening to each other. However, after...

12 Aug 09

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