lifeluver

@lifeluver (743)

Canada • Age 54

Joined myLot 17 years ago

Let me be free to be me.

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What's been going on in your life lately?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 23 Sep 08

Greetings to members of Mylot Land,I have been missing in action here again and have been wondering how things have been going in your life lately? Our summer is winding down and we are enjoying a lovely Fall. Weather over the...

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lifeluver Hello Raia :) I, too, have been noticably missing from MyLot the last several months. Many things have happened since - all good things, I might add. After several years of struggling with major depression and, therefore, not being able to work, I now have...

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Thought Spring had arrived in Manitoba...N-0-T!!!! Weather where you are?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 24 Apr 08

Hi again... On Saturday of last week David and I were enjoying balmy temperatures and working in the garden. We thought Spring had arrived with our perennial plants breaking dormancy and ladybugs appearing on plants...ah...

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lifeluver Hi there! Well, now that's we're in the middle of the summer, here in Nova Scotia the weather's been unusually hot and muggy. We seem to go back and forth between hot, sunny days and torrents of rain. The ground this month is so saturated that it doesn't soak...

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How to Become Positive in Life

Barin Mehta -Healwell @healwell (1268) • Ahmedabad, India 6 Aug 08

How to Become Positive in Life People know that to become positive is helping in life overall. But the issue is related with our own system of thinking, accepting and allowing negative things unknowingly because of the habit of...

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lifeluver Hello Healwell! It's been a long time since I've been able to be on MyLot. You bring some very interesting points about being positive in life. Here, in the West, we tend to be so occupied with making money and aquiring things that we forget about being...

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Do you hit your Computer when it pisses you off?

LightninStrike @LightninStrike (5915) • Saint Vincent And The Grenadines 9 Nov 07

I know that you have all probably at least felt the temptation to bump some sort of device when you were feeling frustrated or the thing didn't work. This is specially frequent with our computers, since they are really...

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lifeluver Oh, I've hit mine a few times. Mostly, though, I just yell at it. I do get very frustrated if it's not working properly or if the internet is slow (I hate waiting!!). It's funny how "things" can piss of off, isn't it!

9 Nov 07

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What is your favorite season?

taylorblue @taylorblue (1286) • Canada 22 Oct 07

I love fall...I love the sounds...the smells...everything about it.

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lifeluver I, like you, love the fall. Some of my friends tease me because I go absolutly silly when fall begins. I start by saying "can you smell the fall??" It smells so clean, doesn't it. I also love the coloursl...orange, red, yellow and green...all artistically...

23 Oct 07

Have you inner child? Do you know that you are with inner child?

Barin Mehta -Healwell @healwell (1268) • Ahmedabad, India 23 Oct 07

The term inner child is used for different purposes: One purpose is mostly psychological, in which the persons childhood is related and the term indicates that child, which is hidden inside! Second purpose is widened the...

the term inner child is used for different purpose

which is hidden inside

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lifeluver What an interesting topic, Healwell!! My understanding of the term "inner child" is my innocent or childlike soul. This part of me searches for freedom like a souring bird. When I find that freedom, I feel light hearted and without burdens in my mind....

23 Oct 07

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Do you think that you are oriented properly?

Barin Mehta -Healwell @healwell (1268) • Ahmedabad, India 12 Oct 07

What kind of orientation you have? Are you aware about orientation or not? Do you have an understanding about orientation or till the date you are unaware about that? Mostly each person has hes/ her orientation and with such...

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lifeluver Hi Healwell....I'm not sure I understand what you mean by "orientation". Would you mind being more clear and then I will be able to respond better.

16 Oct 07

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What does love mean to you?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 29 Aug 07

People say they love..something, someone, a pet. They are in a loving relationship...but then it fall apart and they no longer love that person anymore. So I wondered what love means to you. Who do you love...why do you...

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lifeluver Hi Perspectives :) This is such a good question! As a matter of fact, it's SO good that I can't answer it right away...I'm going to have to give some thought to how I will express myself in writing. Be patient, haha :)

31 Aug 07

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Do you have an Inner Critic...How Much Do You Listen?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 27 Aug 07

To one degree or another I think many of us have an inner critic. You know the talking voice in your head that torments you with the 'wouda, coulda, shoudas.' It is the same chiding voice that creates self-doubt, perfectionistic...

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lifeluver Having been subjected to physical, mental, and emotional abuse for much of my life, my "inner critic" started speaking to me before I started school. It is so sad now that I think about it, how little I thought of myself and, therefore, was extremely critical...

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Has reality television gone too far?

taylorblue @taylorblue (1286) • Canada 28 Aug 07

I think it may have with the show like big brother but with kids...called Kid Nation. And with big brother seeming to make fun of God by always showing Amber praying. I don't know something inside me says they are going to far to...

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lifeluver Kid Nation scares me but I'm also interested in seeing it because I want to see how these children cope with their circumstances. My problem with these "reality shows" is there's so darn many of them, the producers are running out of ideas. Also, I'm really...

29 Aug 07

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Are you a gardener? What does it give you?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 16 Aug 07

I cannot believe I didn't think to create a discussion on one of my great passions in life...gardening. It is something my hubby and I do together and we take great joy in using our back yard as a 'painter's pallete.' When we...

the gift of gardening just keeps givineit is ou

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lifeluver I can't say that I'm a gardener since I don't have a garden. I do, however, have many house plants that I take great pleasure in caring for. I love to see how each one grows differently. I also love to discover new things. For example, a friend of mine gave me...

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Do you waste food?

laurika @laurika (4532) • United States 28 Aug 07

My mum always tough me, how to eat everything what I have on my plate.We have never reall throw some food.What about you?What do you do with leftovers?Do you throw them to the trash, or you feed your pets with them?

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lifeluver I hate to waste anything, especially food. I have to admit, however, I am quite guilty of wasting leftovers. I don't know why, but I never seem to be able to eat leftovers even of my favorite food. I've tried freezing things too for a later date but they just...

28 Aug 07

Is your cat lazy or active?

Cammeel1 @Cammeel1 (372) • United States 28 Aug 07

This is Oliver who is a little over 2 years old. I adopted him from the local animal shelter when he was 6 months old. The shelter did not know his history but we believed he had been abused because of his very skittish and...

activity

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lifeluver My cat is extremely lazy. She hardly will lift a paw to play with string. As a matter of fact, when I start to play with her, she usually flops on the floor and just looks up at me. Also, if there IS a toy she's interested in, she'll lay on the carpet and drag...

28 Aug 07

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need to study all the religions.

zahoor007 @zahoor007 (273) • India 25 Apr 07

every body claims that his religion is the best, i think this is big problem,i think leads to various conflicts between people belonging to different religions, do you agree with my view, i think best solution will be to study all...

religion study

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lifeluver I think it's a good idea to learn something about other religions. There are many ways of finding the Creator and learning about different religions can help one discover which method works best. Also, it helps when discussing current events (conflict in the...

28 Aug 07

Would you donor your organ when you die?

ladysurvivor @ladysurvivor (4746) • Malaysia 9 Jul 07

There are many people who in need of organ replacement. If they don't get a replacement, they would die. There are also many people who died from accidents. These people could donor their organs to the people who still live....

donor your organs

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lifeluver Well, I've already signed my donor card, so I guess I'm going to be a donor, haha. I decided to be a donor so that I can feel good about contributing to someone's life, even after I die. I don't even mind if they just use my body for study. We have to study...

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Bad breath can have a big effect on social life

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 9 Aug 07

Have you ever been talking to someone and had to turn away because their breath smelt really bad? Has anyone done that to you. Most healthy people have unpleasant smelling breath sometimes, especially when they wake up, but only a...

bad breath

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lifeluver I'm very self consience about my own breath because I have encountered people with really, really bad breath. One guy always insisted in talking right up to your face and his breath was so offensive that I would hold my breath while he spoke to me. I have...

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Are you a tea drinker?

onecutehoneybear @onecutehoneybear (938) • United States 6 Aug 07

I absolutely love tea, all kinds of tea. Cold or Hot it doesn't matter which one. In high school when all my friends were drinking hot chocolate and coffee to keep warm, I always had a mug of hot tea with me. I love flavored...

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lifeluver Oh yes, I do enjoy a good cup of tea. Depending on my mood, I'll either go for a black type (usually Earl Grey) or herbal, like lemon. Although I don't really care for green tea on it's own, I like it combined with lemon or mint. And, there's nothing like a...

7 Aug 07

Who's bummed it was cancelled??

taylorblue @taylorblue (1286) • Canada 2 Aug 07

I was so mad that it was cancelled do you know where I can watch it online??

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pirate master

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lifeluver I was pretty mad too when I discovered Pirate Masters was cancelled. I had no idea that one of them committed suicide!! When did that happen? What happened? Who was it? I had really wanted Loise (sp?), the guy with the beard to win it all. I really enjoyed...

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How many pets do you have in your house right now?

mossjanicelynn @mossjanicelynn (1240) • United States 3 Aug 07

Me? Just 1 cat. I was wondering because I read all the time about people have too many cats or dogs.

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lifeluver At the moment, I have just my one, very beautiful cat, Hunnybunny (notice my avatar). When I was growing up though, we had up to three dogs, 19 cats, one bird, several fish, one hampster, one rabbit....uh, I think that's it. There were always lots of animals...

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