lissaj

@lissaj (532)

United States • Age 51

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How To Make Your Girlfriend Obey Your Wish ???

cummank09 @cummank09 (116) • Indonesia 21 Oct 11

Sometimes in relationship, we will be depressed by a smoldering ego. But of course if you impose your will, it will damage your relationship with your girlfriend. Is there a way to make our girlfriend in order to placate us??

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lissaj You can not MAKE your girlfriend do anything and it isn't fair of you to try to change who she is to make you happy. What about her feelings, wants, needs? She is her own person and you knew what kind of person she was when you started dating her. Unless she...

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Why do people love rumors?

hushi22 @hushi22 (4928) 5 Aug 10

For three months that I have been in this company, there is one thing I have noticed the most. People love rumors and spreading them. I could say there were only few whom I could say were professionals. Most of them were not....

rumor

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lissaj I've discovered that the majority of people who spread rumors and talk about other people have no lives and their world revolves around all the drama. I hate drama and the people who like to create it. I just try to avoid them if I can.

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drugs?

miiszcaramel @miiszcaramel (62) • United States 27 Feb 10

my neice who is 16 is doing drugs and i dont know how to tell her parents. they are the type of parents to think and act like their child is perfect and wouldnt do such a thing. at the same time i dont want my neice to stop...

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lissaj You tell them. Your niece my be mad at you for some time, but she will realize that it was in her best interest. She needs to be helped before she gets to the point that she can't get help. It doesn't matter if she says she was experimenting, or was her first...

27 Feb 10

Nasty words and insults may belong on a school play ground, but Here?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 27 Feb 10

This is maybe partly a rant but a mylotter friend of mine who is beloved by many here, her and her little dog, was hurt and insulted by someone. this is so hard for me to believe as she is one very sweet kind person. So am asking...

lets grow up

mylotters

no unkind

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lissaj I don't think nasty words and insults are appropriate anywhere, especially in a playground. We are adults with a wide array of words in our vocabulary. We should be able to express our opinions on topics without being insulting. It is our job as parents to...

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Tiger Woods apologies to the world, with fans with every one, how you feel?

vine88 @vine88 (1031) • India 27 Feb 10

Tiger Woods says " I was wrong. I was foolish. I don't get to play with different rules. The same boundaries that apply to everyone apply to me.I brought this shame on myself. I hurt my wife, my kids, my wife's family, my friends...

people

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lissaj I think Tiger Woods is human just like the rest of of. No one is perfect. There are millions of people who cheat on their partners, but I don't hear that being talked about all the time. Yes, he is a celebrity, but his personal life should be his personal...

27 Feb 10

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Does silence help in solving an argument?

mavieserrano728 @mavieserrano728 (670) • Philippines 21 Feb 10

Do you believe that if you are caught in a heated argument and your mind is boggling, you are waiting for an answer so that you will meet half way and eventually resolve the argument? Personally speaking, at times I get so...

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lissaj Yes, it does help. Sometimes things are just so heated that you need time to get your thoughts together so that you don't say something you will regret later in the heat of the moment. It is good to take some time to think before you open your mouth. I think...

27 Feb 10

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If he leave his partnetr because of you ,will he do the same to you?

cloud31 @cloud31 (5809) 27 Feb 10

A man or woman who fall in love with someone else in time that he/she is committed to someone can make a decision to leave the one whose currently committed to him/her and hold another love forsaken the others.Because he need to...

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lissaj I would not trust someone who left his/her partner to be with me. There may be reasons that this person is leaving but it should never be due to another person. A relationship is just that. A relationship. How do you know they won't do the same thing to you?...

27 Feb 10

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What a day!!!!!

heavenschild @heavenschild (4777) • Canada 22 Jan 08

It's almost 9:10 and my son's therapist was to be here at 9am but it has been snowing good for a couple of hours now and still is...I wonder will she call me? The weather looks awful outside but I listened to weather and news...

plans for today

snow

weather conditions

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lissaj It was a bit icy this morning here, not bad, but schools were delayed for 2 hours. Of course, it would be when I had things to do lol. Hoping spring gets here soon. Be safe.

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Am I too Old to Learn ?..... :(

kukkad @kukkad (511) • India 30 Apr 07

Can you ever be too old to learn anything. Learning comes naturally...... and we keep learning all our life........ then why do some people think......... "Is'nt he too old". I am 30. And, I can not swim. I have joined this...

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lissaj You are never too old to learn new things. I think it is great that you have decided to learn to swim. Learning is an ongoing process throughout our lives, which those young children will figure out someday. Good luck with your lessons.

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i am so mad at my mother!

floramwaters @floramwaters (1595) • United States 30 Apr 07

First let me say that I am a mariied 26 year old women with three kids. I have started a small in home daycare center. I have just started watching two children and may have two more in the next month. I told my mom aout it and...

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lissaj You need to do what you want to do, what is going to be best for you and your family. There is nothing wrong with running a day care in your home. If nothing else, it gives your children others to play with. You are providing love and care for other's children...

30 Apr 07

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How do you if they are married?

AdamMax @AdamMax (260) • United States 30 Apr 07

If someone won't let you meet any of their family or friends, is it a strong possibility that they are hiding something,..like being married?

cheating

dating

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lissaj If you have been dating awhile, and they don't want you around their friends or family, I would start to wonder. If they are always at your place, but you can't go to their place, or if they don't want public dates, I would think something was up. If it were...

30 Apr 07

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Anyone else out there who doesn't really believe in marriage?

gwendovere @gwendovere (1279) • United States 30 Apr 07

I used to be so desperate to get married. But now that I am, I don't think it's what I really want. I don't like having to answer to anyone. And the *legal stuff* scares me. I don't have a pre-nup. And I'm afraid that my spouse...

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lissaj Sounds like it is time to sit down with your spouse for a heart-to-heart talk. Get everything out in the open, so that you both know where each other stands. If you are feeling like you are "answering" to someone and that you have no say in things, something...

30 Apr 07

Beating your children in public!

silver_shaddow @silver_shaddow (1204) 29 Apr 07

Yesterday I saw a parent beating the hell out of his 3 year old kid in public. the helpless kid was screaming and shaking at his father's rather large and powerful fist. If any of his blows ever got on me, it would have defiantly...

child abuse

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lissaj I do think that if I saw that, I would have been on the phone to 911. That is just ridiculous. If I could have gotten over there, I would have been in between that kid and the parent. I don't believe in hitting a child, I have smacked a hand or two, but never...

29 Apr 07

A Telephone Scam

ElusiveButterfly @ElusiveButterfly (45940) • United States 29 Apr 07

My daughter-in-law has been getting calls from a guy who said he would give her a free cell phone with picture capabilities if she would give up her personal information, including her social security number. She told him several...

better business

scams

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lissaj If they are calling that many times, and keep asking for personal information even after you say no, that is considered harassment. I would definitely report that 800 number.

29 Apr 07

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Important things you expect from your babysitter

dopey22girl @dopey22girl (3319) • United States 29 Apr 07

Hey everyone..just throwing a fun topic out there for all those people who get babysitters for their children. What are some things you expect from your babysitter? Do you allow them to use the computer after the kids are in bed?...

life

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lissaj I am trusting someone to watch and care for my children, so that's what I expect them to do. They are not allowed to have friends over, and if they want to talk on the phone, they have to wait until the kids are asleep. I don't allow them on the computer,...

29 Apr 07

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Swimming: When should be introduce and how?

caesarin @caesarin (1089) • Indonesia 29 Apr 07

I like swimming and I wish I could bring my daughter of 14 months to swim along with me. I read a book where western people introduce their babies when they were about 6 months old or younger. WOW. I can't imagine myself doing so....

babies

cold

indoor and outdoor pools

swimming

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lissaj I think it is best to do it at an early age, so that they aren't afraid of the water when they are older. My children were all introduced to swimming around 6 months. They were only let in for a small amount of time at first, getting used to it. Now I can't...

29 Apr 07

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Do you return call to a missed call?

Palace_Girl @Palace_Girl (416) • Philippines 29 Apr 07

I'm a research assistant and i make a lot of phone calls each day as part of my work, most of the time when there is no answer and it is directed to a voice mailbox i leave my office number and message to return my call. Only 1...

missed call

return call

voice mailbox

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lissaj I don't return calls if the person does not say why they are calling. I get a lot of telemarketing calls, and if they can't take a minute to say what they want, I can't take a minute to return their call for something I probably don't want anyway.

29 Apr 07

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Only in America!!

honeyangel @honeyangel (1991) 29 Apr 07

1. January 2000: Kathleen Robertson of Austin Texas was awarded $780,000.00 by a jury of her peers after breaking her ankle tripping over a toddler who was running amuck inside a furniture store. The owners of the store were...

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lissaj People wonder why no one trusts the legal system and law enforcement these days. I think that these cases are just ridiculous. People should have some dang common sense.

29 Apr 07

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If a limo driver got lost and made you late, should you get a partial refund?

gapeach65 @gapeach65 (805) • United States 29 Apr 07

My son went to his Senior prom last night. The limousine driver picked them up a little late, he was supposed to pick them up at 6, he didn't show up until about 20 after, their dinner reservations were for 7, so they cut that...

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lissaj A limo drive is hired(not at a cheap rate either) to drive you somewhere. He/She should know where they are going, how to get there, and alternate routes in case of construction, accident, road closed whatever. And being late to pick you up, not acceptable. I...

29 Apr 07

When you sleep, do you sleep on your right side, left side, back, or stomach?

LordGregoroftheSith @LordGregoroftheSith (667) • United States 29 Apr 07

It is said that depending on how someone sleeps you can tell a lot about them, if you sleep in a ball you are "shy, enclosed, and not very talkative" if you sleep on your back you are "open, talkative, out-going" and if you sleep...

positions

sleep

sleeping positions

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lissaj I sleep on my side curled up, and shy, enclosed and not very talkative are definately NOT words my friends would use to describe me lol. So I guess that doesn't fit for me.

29 Apr 07

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