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shibham @shibham (16977) • India 2 Sep 10

hi friends.... days ago, i received a letter on my mail from a 23 years old girl from a country( name is hidden due to privacy)... she told me that she has found my mail id somehow and intereseted to me even she saw my pictures...

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9 people

lonmar71 just ignore her email and forget about her. she's just making a fool out of you. so move on.

3 Sep 10

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ktmatunog @ktmatunog (912) • Philippines 1 Sep 10

we are. my friends say that you should not be friends anymore. because of the reasons that your heart might hurt more and to make you heart completely healed. but it depends on your current boy/girlfriend, it depends on you...

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4 people

lonmar71 the question is would your ex want to be your friend. it takes two to tango and only matured people can rise above the failed relationship and be friends again.

2 Sep 10

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incus99 @incus99 (1083) • Philippines 31 Aug 10

"It's Better to have Loved and Lost than never to have loved at all".. Do you believe this Cliche? I have believed this since, every time I have doubts with love, I always go for it and make the most out of the love...

falling in love

relationships

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3 people

lonmar71 loving a person involves taking risk and getting hurt in the end if the relationship won't work but it is worth giving a try. it is not good to be always on the safe side. how would you know if the relationship is worth it unless you give it a shot and you'll...

1 Sep 10

santosmarichris @santosmarichris (1849) • Philippines 30 Aug 10

Let's face it, lol... We don't just get attracted by a persons looks but also by their personality. As they say looks can be deceiving... When it comes to lasting relationships we all look for someone with a good...

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6 people

lonmar71 personality is more attractive for me than mere good looks because looks fade in the end. we want someone with a great personality whom we could spent the rest of our lives with.

31 Aug 10

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1 person

Shearry @shearry18 (118) • Davao, Philippines 30 Aug 10

I am in a relationship right now and I'm afraid it's going to end. We've been together for six years and he is my second boyfriend. I've been with him since college and we were good friends before we has this LOVE thing between...

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7 people

lonmar71 happiness is a choice. we simply choose to be happy. i think its about time you let go of the relationship because if you still continue holding on to the relationship you'll get frustrated and be miserable in the end. i know that its not easy to part with him...

31 Aug 10

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

..hi fellas.. As I look back to my love story, I realized that one biggest mistake that we usually commit when we love, we try to give all our love to our partner and nothing is left for our self. Then when our partner decides to...

love

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7 people

lonmar71 happiness is a choice. we simply choose to be happy even if we are not in a relationship. it's better to be single than to get married or be in a relationship with an unsuitable partner beause you'll be miserable in the end. it's really hard when you give it...

29 Aug 10

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christinachow @christinachow (40) • China 27 Aug 10

Last week my best friend told me that he loved me, and I was shocked at the moment. We know each other nearly for 6 years, and now we are in different cities. I didn't expect that he would break the silence. oh, I'm totally at a...

best friend

love

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lonmar71 why don't you give it a try. friendship is a good foundation in a relationship. love comes when you least expect it and it involves taking risk. just go for it especially if you think you also have feelings for your friend because the two of you will make a...

28 Aug 10

apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 21 Jul 10

Old flame or new love Ok, say you had a bad brake up with a previous boyfriend, and you started seeing someone new. your happy in new relationship but suddenly your old flame that you never completely got over comes...

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lonmar71 i would choose the new love and say no to past love. past is past. it didn't work in the first place so why force the issue.

28 Aug 10

apples99 @apples99 (6556) • United States 21 Jul 10

Old flame or new love Ok, say you had a bad brake up with a previous boyfriend, and you started seeing someone new. your happy in new relationship but suddenly your old flame that you never completely got over comes...

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lonmar71 i would choose the new love. past is past. it didn't work in the first place so why force the issue.

28 Aug 10

SimpleBB @SimpleBB (1329) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

No one get into a relationship and wanting it just to end for nothing. All we want is to prolong our connection and live a happy life to its fullest with our loveone. Unfortunately, there are still unlucky to succeed to their...

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7 people

lonmar71 i don't believe that there really is an ideal man or woman. when you are in a loving relationship you just accept the person for who he/she is and you strive hard to make the relationship work.

27 Aug 10

SimpleBB @SimpleBB (1329) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

No one get into a relationship and wanting it just to end for nothing. All we want is to prolong our connection and live a happy life to its fullest with our loveone. Unfortunately, there are still unlucky to succeed to their...

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7 people

lonmar71 i don't believe that there really is an ideal person. when you are in a loving relationship you just accept the person for who he/she is and strive hard to make the relationship loving and lasting.

27 Aug 10

SimpleBB @SimpleBB (1329) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

No one get into a relationship and wanting it just to end for nothing. All we want is to prolong our connection and live a happy life to its fullest with our loveone. Unfortunately, there are still unlucky to succeed to their...

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7 people

lonmar71 i don't believe that there really is an ideal partner. when you love someone you accept the person for who he/she is and strive hard to make the relationship work.

27 Aug 10

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

let's see which weighs heavier in people's decision making.., What if you are very much in love with someone.., But he is not rich.., jobless and cannot afford to give you your needs.., then here comes another one.., who...

money over love

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lonmar71 i would choose love over money. if you are in a loving relationship both of you will strive hard to make the relationship work and also strive to be financially stable.

27 Aug 10

Sphinx30 @Sphinx30 (286) • Philippines 25 Aug 10

I have this experience and i don't ever expected that it would really happen to me. I was thought that what I feel is just infatuation towards a person but what I never realized that I have felt something special with her. It's...

love

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1 person

lonmar71 love happens when you least expect it. no words can describe it you just feel it.

26 Aug 10

MisterApropos @MisterApropos (288) • United States 25 Aug 10

I've experienced a heart break a couple of times in my life, and it was a bad experience.... Was yours bad too? It was extremely weird how my emotions would fluctuate from being mad to sad. How did your experience go? Did...

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lonmar71 time heals all wounds and it took be a while to fully recover from the experience. but the best part of it is that it made me a better and stronger person. it made me realize that he was just not the right person for me and that someone better will come along...

26 Aug 10

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1 person

deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 24 Aug 10

What if you are in love with someone who cannot return your feelings at all.. This someone can either be already in love with someone else or just treat you as a friend.., nothing less.., nothing more.., But there is this guy who...

choose

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3 people

lonmar71 i would choose the person who loves me but whom i don't love since feelings can be developed if the guy is loving and patient towards me. i wouldn't waste my time to someone who doesn't love me in return.

26 Aug 10

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kquiming @kquiming (2997) • Philippines 25 Aug 10

When friendship turns to a romantic relationship, there's a risk of losing the friendship and love altogether when an argument or a breakup happens. So would you take that risk with someone you have known for a very long time?...

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lonmar71 as the saying goes its better to have loved and lost than never to have loved at all. loving a person involves taking risk. when you love a person there's that possibility of losing your friend in the process and end up getting hurt. but if your both mature...

26 Aug 10

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deve_annrn @deve_annrn (1856) • Philippines 25 Aug 10

Have you ever considered getting steady with someone yet you cannot imagine yourself being with him for the rest of your life? Or you have doubts in your head that your relationship will not last for a lifetime? Or maybe.., while...

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lonmar71 i haven't meet that person yet but usually when people go steady they like to believe that that person they go steady with is the one they'll end up with. when you truly love someone you don't have any doubts about the relationship or wish that someone better...

26 Aug 10

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hotpink89 @hotpink89 (134) • United States 20 Aug 10

okay so I've been single for the past 6 months. i am pretty, smart, brave and very social and caring with others. yet at the same time i have men always approaching me but not the right ones! and it's sad because people always...

finding love

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2 people

lonmar71 there's nothing wrong being single. just wait for the right time it will come when you least expect it. sometimes man are intimidated with your presence. just be yourself. enjoy being single and celebrate it.

21 Aug 10

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