lydiab

@lydiab (33)

United States • Age 69

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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What do you do when you had a bad day with work?

vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 12 Aug 11

I had a bad day with my work, sometimes It's just hard to do some procedures and I felt that I'm doing my best but it's not enough. I don't know what's wrong but I'm really trying hard. Do you get what I feel? (sigh…) am I too...

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lydiab I believe that at the end of the day if I truly believe I did the best I could that day than I am ok that I gave my best but if I know I could have done better it is my responsibility to assess what went wrong. I ask myself did not feel well, was there...

14 Aug 11

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Do you give money to beggars?

ThrillerAssassin @ThrillerAssassin (295) • Philippines 12 Aug 11

In a lot of country (including my country), a lot of beggars are staying on the streets asking for some help. Though there are asking for food, the majority of these beggars ask for money instead. I do not agree with that. If you...

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lydiab I offer to buy food and since I have worked in the human service field for many years I provide information on where the safe shelters are and churches who are giving out free meals, etc. I don't mind the begging I don't judge but I do know that in my...

14 Aug 11

Emotional Hyper Sensitivity - Good or Bad?

Ram Bansal @rambansal (574) • India 10 Aug 11

Even at this matured age of past midway of my life, my eyes get wet if I see a pathetic case even in a movie, knowing very well that is is all a fiction. This is what I am - hyper-sensitive person. Now, I have a beloved even...

emotion

tears

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lydiab Maybe she is depressed about something else and does not realize it. I have heard of women going through menopause going through emotional spells similar to pregnant women. Something about hormone in balances. Has she seen a physician to start with? If nothing...

11 Aug 11

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Government Grant?

dreamertink @dfollin (25343) • United States 10 Aug 11

I received a phone call yesterday with a person saying that me and 1900 other people were given grants from the government.The first thing I was thinking,I almost lost my social security,medicad and I cannot get food stamps or...

government

scams

trust

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lydiab Very old scam that unfortunately many have fallen for. Don't let need or greed get you in further financial trouble. No one is giving out something for nothing. NO ONE!

11 Aug 11

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How important is work location to you?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 9 Aug 11

i mean, is it important that your workplace is quite near to where you live, so that you do not get stressed too much with the travel time from home to work and vice versa. I think for me, it is indeed very important because i...

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lydiab I live in an area that requires driving on the highway to get most places. It is important that it takes me no more than 1/2 hr to get to work. Now that I work from home it isn't a problem but that was my main criteria when I did have a job. The further away...

10 Aug 11

Kiss the boss as* -- NEVER!

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 8 Aug 11

Things have been pretty much complicated at work. It is getting into my nerves even. I am the type of person where i wanted to be known and notice for my work. That is why when i work - i really work soooo hard, to the best of my...

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lydiab Sounds like your cousin should be watching her position instead of putting fear in you. If you followed protocol for taking the day off no worries it just goes to show how rumors start. Getting close to a boss to learn more does not have to be done in a matter...

9 Aug 11

What do you do to your used books?

bobosusanwang @bobosusanwang (135) • China 8 Aug 11

Obviously as we growing elder and graduating from schools,we have a lot of books that we will saldom use in future. What do you usually do to them? Throw them away,sell them as wastes?

books

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lydiab Some books I keep for all time. Then there are others that I sell on half.com and ebay. I also have sold books at flea markets and yard sales but not that often because loading that heavy weight on the truck is a burden. Text books I like to keep because I...

9 Aug 11

Would you sacrifice everything for the one you love?

eynjel_1988 @eynjel_1988 (330) • Philippines 7 Aug 11

Hello there people. Early this morning on my way to office,I had read in one column in a newspaper that contains letters to the editor asking for a piece of advice regarding his love life. One letter their caught my attention so I...

love

sacrifices

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lydiab If he makes the decision to marry the girl his parents wants him to just so that he can remain in the parents good graces which results in staying in their will then he is doing his current girlfriend a big favor. His value system places money over the so...

8 Aug 11

First Tweet, Yay!

2wicelot @2wicelot (2945) 7 Aug 11

And with those immortal words (tweet) I am officically on twitter. But I have no idea what to do. I have been hearing of twitter but never really thought I would ever be using. Today I just decided to sign up on impulse. So far I...

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lydiab One way to start you can go to the search box and enter keywords related to a topic you are interested in. Then you will see people who are tweeting on that topic you can then follow them. I don't follow people who have not put up an avatar unless I see that...

8 Aug 11

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Conflict with supervisor

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 7 Aug 11

This started with her approach to know my name. So I told her my name is Wendy. But she kept on forgetting and calling me "ooi" instead. That's rude and then big thing happen. We argue. I want to stay on the job but she wanted me...

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lydiab Well the mf comment is way over the top. Have you filed a grievance with upper management. Even if you think the head office won't do anything file a grievance, keep a copy and document when you sent it in. If you haven't already document to the best of your...

8 Aug 11

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Do you drink milk everyday?

chiwasaki @chiwasaki (4694) • Philippines 7 Aug 11

I'm a big fan of milk and I'm drinking it almost every day. There are times that I drink cold milk twice or thrice a day. Most of my friends love coffee but in my case, I really love milk. Chocolate milk is also one of my...

chocolate

food

milk

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lydiab Before I became lactose intolerant I drink a gallon of milk a day. I love milk. So now I try to stay away from it but when the thought comes to have some chocolate milk on occasion I just sit back and enjoy then wait for the repercussions.

8 Aug 11

Do we really need a religion or a belief to feel peace?

yushi1905 @yushi1905 (38) • Malaysia 5 Aug 11

I still remember that when I was ten, I was attending the other people's religion classes. I don't want to say which religion but I am not of the same religion as the others in my class, in fact, I was the only one who was...

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lydiab I have met many people who believe in something to get by in life and experience peace. Not all of them believe in God or any particular religion. The point is that they found something that fulfills them and helps them get through the day. There are some who...

7 Aug 11

should you do any job or wait for a job u love?

vegegirl @vegegirl (828) • Australia 4 Aug 11

I lost my job a year ago because of the economic downturn and haven't got a new job yet. It is the first time I have been out of work in about 14 years. Do you think I should apply for jobs that I didn't really want, just to...

career

job

new job

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lydiab I agree with the others you should take what you can find now. It does not mean you are stuck there. Having a job will give you some income to keep up with your bills while you keep seeking the employment you really want. Right now the gratitude is in getting...

5 Aug 11

Money matter: Create your Own Future

zhawee @zhawee (873) • Philippines 3 Aug 11

It seems that no matter how much I try, I can barely survive with I earn, Its been the story of my life. Im now trying to change the way I think about becoming financially succesfuly b using techniques I`ve been reading about. The...

believer

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lydiab So true that we can be our own worst enemy with negative self talk. If this is where you are it won't change over night but you can practice reciting positive affirmations daily. Write one down and post by your bed and on the mirror in the bathroom so you will...

4 Aug 11

online payments

camomile07 @camomile07 (1420) • Germany 3 Aug 11

There are already several ways to realize payments online, when you buy any item, when you pay your bills.... Paypal, moneybookers, debit or credit cards, prepaid cards, netbanking... Which way is the best one? Any...

credit card

debit card

online payments

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lydiab When I pay bills I use my online banking most of the time. However, for business like affiliate marketing I only give my Paypal address to receive payments. I feel safer that way. I also use Paypal when paying out for a product and service that I am doing...

4 Aug 11

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My boss said I am stupid

wongchoiyee @wongchoiyee (7413) • Malaysia 3 Aug 11

She said I am stupid. When she delegates work to me, she seems like talking to herself. I don't quite understand what a word she wants to tell me. She is fast and not accurate talking too many things which one thing she did not...

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lydiab Unfortunately not all bosses, supervisors are good leaders and/or good teachers. Some get promoted because he/she is good at performing task however, that does not mean that he/she can lead others without further training and guidance. I suggest you use an...

4 Aug 11

What a lovely name

Flash2 @Flash2 (347) • United States 2 Aug 11

I was just informed by a friend of mine, That their prtners name is Danielle. It's probably just me but I really enjoy that name. It reminds be of the sweet sounds of spring or the chiming of little bells. At least now when...

friends

names

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lydiab I love the name Leslie. It is easy to say I like the way it looks. I here people pronounce it two ways. Lez-lee, or Les-lee. I prefer the latter. This name is easy to remember. I have met one or two males with this name but I think it is better as a female...

3 Aug 11

so what if you think i am ugly..grr

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 2 Aug 11

I am beautiful in the eyes of God but if you think i look ugly in your eyes i don't care. I don't want to waste my time thinking and hurting of what you have said. I may not be beautiful in your eyes but others may think that my...

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lydiab Good attitude. Imagine if we jumped through hoops trying to please the eyes of others what would be get done in life. Yes it hurts when someone is mean to us but I think the the hurt stings more when a person is not sure of themselves and is already full of...

2 Aug 11

Should a grandparent charge fee for babysitting from her kids?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 30 Jul 11

There were a argument going on on my next door neighbor, I heard from others. She would charge her daughter - in - law for babysitting her kids, but she won't charge her own daughter though. Is that a picking a favor over her...

babysit

grandparent

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lydiab My opinion is that if the grandmother wants to charge for babysitting she should charge both her daughter and her son's wife. By choosing only to charge her son and daughter-in-law she is opening up a lot of controversy in the family that could last for years...

31 Jul 11

Affiliate networks

leasmom @leasmom (101) • Austria 28 Jul 11

I have heard a lot about affiliate networks being very useful, lately. However I am not sure what those are really about. Any examples that you can give? Not meaning to ask for names of affiliate networks if this is not ok to ask...

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lydiab Affiliate networking is when you sell another person or businesses products or service. You receive a fee for the sales that come through the link given to you with your unique id#. Affiliate marketers usually set up a website, blog, and/or squeeze page to...

28 Jul 11