malambing

@malambing (78)

Philippines • Age 52

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If you could stay at home with your kids would you??

rachsal4 @rachsal4 (391) • United States 13 Sep 07

My friend told me today that even if she could stay at home she wouldn't because "not every mother is meant to stay at home, some are better mothers because they work". So would you? Do think this statements true? And if so why...

parenting

stay at home moms kids

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malambing Today is my last day in my job because I have to take care of my 3 kids ages 1-3. There are so many things I've missed while my children are growing up and I don't want to miss it forever so I quit my job and just stay with them. There also so many things that...

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tessie aquino oreta...ala GMA.."I am sorry."

ryanphil01 @ryanphil01 (4182) • Philippines 25 Mar 07

have you seen lately the tv ad on senatoriable tessie aquino oreta doing ala GMA.."i am sorry for lapse in judgment."if you recall, teresa aquino oreta has been tagged as the "dancing queen" during the impeachment rial of...

dancing queen

impeachment trial

tessie aquino oreta

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malambing Oh yea, that was so scripted and so unnatural, i just wish people would make good choices as to candidates they will vote this coming election and surely oreta should be one of those that will not be found in the list

25 Mar 07

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men or women..?

vivekasokan @vivekasokan (416) • India 19 Mar 07

what do u think, born to be a men is betrer..? or born to be a women is better..?

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malambing The bible says" Neither is man without a woman nor a woman without a man" I don't think it's a questions of who's better than the other. I know we both have individual roles to play in this life and each of these roles is very significant in this world.

19 Mar 07

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Am I confusing my son?

c2adams2 @c2adams2 (351) • United States 18 Mar 07

I have this thing with my kids....I answer every question they ask as completely as possible. Take today for instance. He noticed that the air outside turned blue. I explained that it wasn't the air, it was a cloud that covered...

children

education

parenting

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malambing As long as he understand what you are saying I think there's nothing wrong with, though going very deep sometimes is too overwhelming for a child his age to take. I think what is important there is you gain his trust that whenever he has questions he can go...

19 Mar 07

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What was your favorite quote of the movie?

MrsSgtB @MrsSgtB (289) • United States 24 Feb 07

I love Dazed and Confused. I remember when it first came out to rent and I watched it over and over. I swear it was like a 100 times. My favorite quote of the movie is "The older you get the more rules they try to get you to...

dazed and confused

movie quotes

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malambing From the movie Spiderman when spiderman's grandpa said to him "With greater power comes greater responsibility"

13 Mar 07

How do you argues with your bf/husband/fg/wife?

Starline @Starline (681) • United States 1 Mar 07

I'm noticing that I'm turning into my mom!!! I always hated when I grew up and she had this high pitch yelling voice when she argued, and I wondered why she couldn't just discuss things with my dad like I imagined other couples...

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malambing I raised my voice only if I need too..Then I always cry whenever I'm mad because i'm always suppressing my anger and when i can take it anymore that I want to kill somebody I cried to myself..One time my husband and I have an argument that we don't talk to...

2 Mar 07

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"We make our own destiny" - Is this statement correct?

joven222 @joven222 (84) • Philippines 22 Feb 07

Most people when ask about the person that they loved, they would answer, "if we are destined to be, then we will be together". Then a question came into my mind. Do a person have a control of his or her destiny? If the answer is...

destiny

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malambing There's a saying that goes like this "Destiny is not a matter of chance it's a matter of choice, it's not something to e waited for, it's something to be achieved". I believe that we make our own destiny by the choices we make each day. For instance, do you...

27 Feb 07

New movie called 'Pregnant in America'.

astromama @astromama (1221) • United States 26 Feb 07

Hi, I just heard about a new movie entitled 'Pregnant in America' that is about just that. American women normally birth in the hospital, and 98% of the babies born in this country are drugged. The movie trailer says that...

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malambing Very interesting. If it's true then that's very sad. i'll look at it when it comes.

26 Feb 07

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Begging For Affection

chaime @chaime (1152) • Philippines 23 Feb 07

Do you sometimes feel that you need to beg for affection from your children? It bothers me that I have to say please or continuously ask my children to have a hug or a kiss. A small show of affection from my children can really...

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malambing Hi there. I understand what you mean. As mothers we always want our children to give us a hug and a kiss all the time. I for one is a very affectionate mother. I always give my children a hug and a kiss that they reciprocate my actions to them. I strongly feel...

23 Feb 07

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Avatars

BunGirl @BunGirl (2638) • United States 31 Jan 07

Ok, I'm tired of looking at those silly green avatars. So, I've decided to do something about it. Anyone who wants help finding themselves a suitable avatar, post your request here and I'll do my best to find you one. NOTE: all...

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malambing Yes, please find me an avatar that depicts something sweet and delicate

20 Feb 07

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Scan for Gender?

Bangalorean @Bangalorean (1282) • India 15 Feb 07

Would you advise that a mother's womb to be scanned during the third month to know the gender of the child? Would it have any effect on the baby? As such, i know it would have problems with those who are gender-baised. But...

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malambing The right term for that is an ultrasound not scanned. Ultrasound is necessary not only for determining the gender of the baby but to monitor, the weight, the heartbeat, the movement and the amount of water around the baby. It's very safe and nothing to worry...

15 Feb 07

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Best and worst Political ad

pink_passion @pink_passion (279) • Philippines 13 Feb 07

the battle of political ads has started.so far, here are my comments: Best:Manny Villar-because it campaigns for the welfare of women Worst:Mike Defensor-so awkward!the only nice thing is his good looks How about you?how do you...

commercial

philippines

politics

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malambing yeah, Mike Defensor's ad is sooooooooooooooo kainis, was it Keana Reeves who's promoting him? gosh, so baduy!!!!!!!!!

13 Feb 07

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What's your opinion...?

granprix @granprix (38) • Philippines 9 Feb 07

on Manny Pacquiao running as Vice Mayor in Manila/Mayor in Gensan (he's not yet sure where to run)? Do you think he will win? do you think he'll be a good leader? What suggestions do you want to give him if you were his...

granprix

pacquiao

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malambing I just think he will be better off and remain a boxer than be associated with the dirt of politics, i doubt it if he can handle it..I'm afraid he be like the others once he is in power they think the world owes them something... i hope not

10 Feb 07

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Do you like the snow and why?

michelledarcy @michelledarcy (5220) 8 Feb 07

I love the snow, particularly watching it fall and the sound of it crunching under your feet when you walk. However I must say today was the first time I realised why so many people don't like it. I'm watching it get deeper...

life

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malambing I saw and feel snow for the first and hopefully not last when i went to utah, i get so excited i didn't realized it was so slippery that I slipped through it and hurt my arm I haven't used it for 3 days.

9 Feb 07

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When a mother leaves her child to work abroad...does that make her a bad mother?

selina0625 @selina0625 (1379) • Philippines 3 Feb 07

Three weeks from now I'll be leaving my seven month old child to my parents and my husband to go abroad for a job.All I wanted is a good future for my child. A life that is financially secured.I want him to study in a good school....

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mother

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malambing You know what? I've been comtemplating on going abroad too to give my children a better future for which sad to say I can't when I stay here in the country but the thought of leaving them just tore me apart. I don't think I can just go and maintain my sanity...

8 Feb 07

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my husband asked my 5year old what love means to her.....

beutfulmama6701 @beutfulmama6701 (1718) • United States 24 Jan 07

My daughter and i went to pick my husband up from work,. he asked her how her day at kindergarten was and she was all excited to tell him that she has a boyfriend and that she kissed him. he went on a speech about how she is too...

love

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malambing I was busy preparing our dinner one sunday night when my almost 3-year old son came to our dinning room and said he was hungry and would like to eat ahead of us. Since there are already food in the table I just nodded without looking at him when i suddenly...

6 Feb 07

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