marissa0124

@marissa0124 (179)

New Zealand • Age 45

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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She is very wild, should i go further with her?!

YazEid @YazEid (1139) • Philippines 5 Dec 07

I know a girl who looks so attractive and i really like her But she is so wild and naughty even when she was in a relationship she always liked to look for other guys .. now we are becoming closer and closer to each other but i...

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marissa0124 Well I guess you have to stop seeing her as early as possible. Don't get yourself be fallen for her if in the first place you really knows her attitude. You might get hurt in the future if you will still continue having a relationship with her. I know that...

6 Dec 07

Do you hide money from your spouse?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 29 Nov 07

I hate to admit that I do hide money from my spouse. But, I guess that's better than hiding bills. He doesn't really spend lots of money, except at the grocery store. But, I worry that if all our paychecks were so readily...

free checking

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marissa0124 For me, I hide money because Im saving it but my husband knows about it. We are both working and I think it is unfair to hide money from him and then spend it for my personal needs or to my family. We both need to know where our money is going. We also have...

29 Nov 07

What will you like to gift ur husband on his birthday???

navneetrai_26 @navneetrai_26 (411) • India 25 Nov 07

may b flowers, cards ... anything that comes to ur mind ladies

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marissa0124 On my husband's birthday, I am planning to give him a perfume, PSP or a new digital camera. These are what he wants and wishes to have by next year. Also, I will take him to a buffet dinner with lots of seafoods..=)

26 Nov 07

Giving Gifts at work?

Kowgirl @Kowgirl (3490) • United States 26 Nov 07

Does the people you work with exchange gifts or do they all get together and draw names? Is everyone expected to give the boss a gift or do you all pool the money for just one special gift? Does everyone participate?

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marissa0124 Yes we do have exchange gifts during Christmas. Anyone is invited to join as long as they still have a budget. With regards to giving gift to our boss, we don't usually give gifts for Christmas coz we are expecting the boss to give us gifts...

26 Nov 07

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toughest job

beybidoll @beybidoll (10) 21 Nov 07

I gave birth last august for my second child and i realized that being a mother is the toughest job in the world. Here, you need to be full-time without pay, you need to think of the best way on how to discipline a child without...

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marissa0124 Yes exactly. Being a mother is not an easy job to do. You have to do all the household chores and at the same time taking care of your children...=)

23 Nov 07

Doesnt matter who earns but who should handle the finances in a married couple?

humbleme @humbleme (1004) • India 21 Nov 07

Hello friends, Doesnt matter who earns less or more or nothing, but who do you think should handle the finance,expenses of the the famaly of a married couple, only the husband, or the wife or together?If your answer is together,...

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marissa0124 My husband is working full time and I am working part time as I am taking care of our child. But with regards to finances, we are both handling it. We have a joint account and monitoring each other expenses as we have a target budget every week. Also, we let...

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Would you marry a person with a child?

reegan1207 @reegan1207 (102) • Philippines 21 Nov 07

Share your opinion pleassssseeee.... I have this suitor a long lost suitor but came back..He told me that he was still inlove with me..I admit that before i also like him and eoowww until now..He proposed marriage to me..But i...

father

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marissa0124 Well I think if you really love the person, you have to accept him/her whatever or whoever he/she is including their past relationships and experiences. You have to think if you are really ready to be with him for the rest of your life even if he has a son. Is...

22 Nov 07

When do u want to get married or when did u get married?

rockyyy520 @rockyyy520 (113) • China 21 Nov 07

I want to do that when i am 25 years old,and now,i am 23,without money or a good job...what do u think about it?

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marissa0124 I got married when I was 24 years old and my husband is 25 that time. I really wanted to got married at an early age coz I want to have a baby right away. I can say that we have savings and kinda stable but we spent a lot of money to our wedding without our...

22 Nov 07

can a woman ask a man to marry her?

Kazashmaza @Kazashmaza (431) • Australia 22 Nov 07

What is your opinion on women asking men to marry them? My boyfriend wants me to ask him when we eventually get engaged. I find that a bit odd being a bit old fashioned. I think I would like to be asked. What do you think?

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marissa0124 In my own opinion, I still want the guy to ask me to marry him but it really depends to a person's personality and situation...=)

22 Nov 07

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Are you a Filipino?

joahnna18 @joahnna18 (368) • Philippines 21 Nov 07

I just want to know if there's a filipino who is member in mylot. Thank you very much my friend. I just want to meet all of you..

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marissa0124 Hi there, I am a Filipino but staying in New Zealand now. How are you? Nice to meet you..=)

21 Nov 07

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have you ever been inlove to a friend?

raizza07 @raizza07 (98) • Philippines 20 Nov 07

im just wondering have you ever been in love to a friend?

friend

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marissa0124 Yes this happens to me before but we haven't got a chance to be in a relationship because I have a boyfriend that time. I have some fights with my boyfriend then coz he's jealous to that friend of mine. We even came to the point of breaking up with him but I...

21 Nov 07

Would you get married in a church?

Kazashmaza @Kazashmaza (431) • Australia 21 Nov 07

How strongly do you beleive that you must get married in a church? where would you get married? I would love to get married on a beach. My family will be strongly against it, but hey, it is mine and my man's day!

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marissa0124 Well for my opinion, couple can be married everywhere they want. Its their choice. But church is still the most special and sacred venue for me where to get married..=)

21 Nov 07

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Whose in charge at your house..you or your spouse..

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 21 Nov 07

Whose in charge. in your house..is it you or your spouse? Why ? Do you have certain things you designate "a man's job" " a woman's job" in your household; or, do you all pull your weight?

households

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marissa0124 Well as a couple we help each other in all the responsibilities at home...=)

21 Nov 07

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How do you handle

TerryZ @TerryZ (22076) • United States 20 Nov 07

When your with someone for the whole day and all they talk about is their self. Im a very good listener but enough is enough!LOL I cant be mean to them and say anything. If you have any great ideas I would love to hear them.

please share

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marissa0124 Well Im a good listener too but if this happens to me, I will try to change the topic and make some excuses I think...=)

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Do women cheat on their partners as the way of getting out the relationship???

kwenge @kwenge (2487) • Kenya 20 Nov 07

I have a friend who have been stuck in a relationship for 4 years. She wanted to quit but she could not because the man keeps begging her to be with him(he is sticky). She decided to cheat on him with another man and that way the...

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marissa0124 Well I think this is not right coz she tried to cheat as she wants her boyfriend to leave her. She should be true to herself and not use other person. This is also unfair to the guy (other) specially if she has no feelings with him. I think there are other...

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what r u goin to do????

swesun08 @swesun08 (32) • India 19 Nov 07

suppose today is the last day of ur life then what things will u want to do??????????

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marissa0124 Well if this is the last day of my life, I want to spend it with my family. I want to thank them for the love they have given me. I want to let them feel how much I will miss them. Also, I would like to eat all my favorite food...=)

19 Nov 07

another bombing

cdparazo @cdparazo (5765) • Philippines 14 Nov 07

Yesterday another bombing happened here in my country. The bomb was set off in the 'Batasang Pambansa' where a our congressmen and lawmakers are holding their offices. One congressman died and 4 staffs or personnels. I can't help...

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marissa0124 Someone sent me an email regarding this incident. This is a very sad news as there is a recent bombing in Glorietta where innocent people are suffered and died. Hope this problem will come into an end. Prayers is the only thing that we can do. Hope that their...

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What do you think about terrorism?do you angry them?

mari123 @mari123 (1861) • China 18 Nov 07

International terrorism is the biggest problem that occurs now. The whole world is paying attention to this situation. Economic crisis, sicial problem and political problem are influenced by violence and terrorism. Many countries...

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marissa0124 Yes you are right, this is one of the problems we are facing right now. I just hope that this problem will come to an end as there are a lot of innocent people out there who suffered and died because of terrorist attack which is really unfair. They should stop...

19 Nov 07

Are you excited about Christmas???

livvy @livvy092002 (1032) • Philippines 19 Nov 07

Christmas comes every year and every year i am so excited about it. Even if there are times or years when things wasn't really going on well in my life, i still have passion and excitement about christmas. I think it's because i...

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marissa0124 If you gonna ask me what occassion I really love and like the most..Its CHRISTMAS!!! I always have a positive and happy mood when Christmas is coming, I don't know why, I can't explain. But this coming Christmas, this is the first time to spend it without my...

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What do you want for Christmas?

laurika @laurika (4532) • United States 19 Nov 07

This is the question my hubby ask me yesterday and I tell him, we are together for 2 and half year so he should figure it out by himself what I want. Did I do the right thing? If your partner will tell you this, will you know what...

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marissa0124 I am married for 4 years now and since we got married, we did not give any presents to each other. Why? Because we don't need any material things. As long as we are together during this special day is the best gift that we can give to each other. We buy gifts...

19 Nov 07