melissa882211

@melissa882211 (23)

United States • Age 36

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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how do you end a relationship and stay friends at the same time?

amore2208 @amore2208 (67) • Philippines 5 Dec 10

hi mylotters! no i do not have a problem with my partner, it is my sister, shes having a tough time right now and i think she deserves a good advice. let's just say her partner is the type of person who just cannot let go of...

freedom

happiness

relationships

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melissa882211 I've been in a situation similar to this. In both relationships I've ever had. I've felt that desperation, though, too. When someone you love is breaking up with you I think people tend to reach for whatever they can to keep them around. You start to panic and...

6 Dec 10

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If you really love him/ her but he/ she loved someone else, what should you do?

gengeni @gengeni (3308) • Indonesia 5 Dec 10

Every human being must have a sense of selfish, including me or you. if you really love someone would you be best to have him/ her. and if you already have him/ her. of course you will be very happy. but if you know that she/ he...

love

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melissa882211 My selfish part would at first probably want to stay with this person just because I loved them so much, but, that wouldn't last. Who wants to be with someone when they know that someone doesn't love you and would rather be with another? That couldn't possibly...

6 Dec 10

Bad animal owners

Trace86 @Trace86 (5030) • United States 6 Dec 10

One day last week I got a text from my stepson. This in itself was a very unusual occurrence. He saw a dog get hit by a car and stopped to help it. He happened to know which house it came from, as he had seen it outside previously...

animal lover

bad pet owners

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melissa882211 I hate when I see people with pets that they can't, or just don't, take care of. If you buy an animal or adopt it, you should not only take care of it, but love it. Give it attention. Don't neglect it and ignore it. What's the point of having a pet, otherwise?...

6 Dec 10

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Have you ever had a friend act mad at you and you didn't know why?

JenInTN @JenInTN (27514) • United States 4 Dec 10

I figured I would ask my friends here if they have ever experienced this because I have a friend that is acting very strange. I am thinking that maybe it is her mood or maybe I said something to offend her but I can not for the...

friendship

odd

sudden change

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melissa882211 I feel like this happens a lot with people; me included. Either you did do something that made her mad and she just isn't saying it, or, it's her life that's had an impact on her and this "mood" that she's in, is just now her personality and perspective on...

5 Dec 10

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if I should LOVE again...i am sure it won't be YOU..

Jane @jaiho2009 (39141) • Philippines 3 Dec 10

Your love broke your heart. And now that you have learned to moved on,and totally have forgotten all about the past, then here comes again that person that broke your heart asking for forgiveness. Would you give another...

love and forgiveness

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melissa882211 Coming from someone who isn't always good at the relationship thing and who tends to screw up a lot, I would say I would forgive the person. There's no reason to hold a grudge towards someone..especially if they're truly sorry and would like to change. I also...

3 Dec 10

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Husband with many internet lady "friends" and phone friends

ladylily29 @ladylily29 (323) • United States 3 Dec 10

I met my husband on the internet, and was recently married. I am now seeing that he has many internet friends that are women. He also has some that he is friends with that call him. He got upset with me when I told him I gave up...

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melissa882211 I, personally, wouldn't feel very comfortable with my husband, or boyfriend for that matter, being friends with a bunch of random females. Especially befriending new ones while you guys are together. It's one thing to have an old girl friend that he still...

3 Dec 10

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1 person

How normal is it to feel this way??

CindyTubio @CindyTubio (38) • Philippines 3 Dec 10

I'm on my early 20's..I'm a registered nurse. I'm single as of the present and I'm focus on my career at this point of my life..but my concern is that I'm still quite confused about what I want to do and what i love doing...

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melissa882211 I'm 22 and also don't know for sure what I want to do with my life. You already have a career, I don't even have that. The only thing I'm sure about is that I want to be married and have kids someday. Career-wise, I'm still pretty clueless. We are talking...

3 Dec 10

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how to move on?

kparaino @kparaino (39) • Philippines 2 Dec 10

..we spent almost two months together, everything was going on well until one day, she wanted a different life.. a life that i am not part of.. my cycle was too tiring; i kept on crying, wishing and regretting.. it was like i will...

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melissa882211 If you're the person getting broken up with, the break up will always be hard. Especially if it isn't mutual. And sometimes it's harder for certain people to get a good perspective on it and let go. Unless she's providing some sort of reason or action as to...

3 Dec 10