meljessxena

@meljessxena (2315)

Australia • Age 35

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Body Image?

Dianax3 @Dianax3 (48) • United States 3 Oct 12

Ever since I've been pregnant I've so insecure. I never really was before about my body. But now I have stretch marks everywhere. On my stomach, sides, thighs, butt, boobs and I don't feel so great about myself. I went from a...

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meljessxena Diana, i was the exact same i now got 2 children and only just getting my body back slowly. i put on 20 kilos with each pregnancy and i think we think about our image because its alot to do with the pregnancy hormones i think that makes us feel like...

3 Oct 12

How do you respond when a homeless person asks you for money?

Robyn @floridachick (603) • United States 8 Mar 12

I used to give them change, but one time my brother packed a lunch for him and his girlfriend to go fishing under a bridge well a homeless person was there and asked him for money so that he could by FOOD, well my brother did not...

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meljessxena its really sad isnt it that people have to be like this and go homeless because of drugs etc. i personally dont give them money seeing what they do with it but i would be more than happy to give someone some food or anything if they were short on money

9 Mar 12

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Is marry a woman/man from online dating a big NO NO???

TheIzers @TheIzers (680) 2 Mar 12

I have my friend she dated make friends with a guy online for three years and never meet each other (live in different country). And last christmast they decided to be couple. Most of our friend tell her not to marry him reason is...

online dating

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meljessxena i dont think it really matters how they met and end up married but until they meet and are together for a while actually "properly together" then no they shouldnt get married. they may find that they dont suit each other properly if they jump into getting...

3 Mar 12

Experience about "team work" skill

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 3 Mar 12

Applicants usually request "team work" skill when they recruitment. However, no many candidates understand how it is important. So, they usually miss it. Last year, I worked with a new staff. I inquired her building a system...

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meljessxena some people find it hard to work to "in a team" but then they could do a different type of job and be good in a team. i think it all depends on the type of jobs. maybe the lady you work with doesnt actually understand her job role as well as she should and she...

3 Mar 12

Multitasking woman!

humairaku @humairaku (2038) • Indonesia 3 Mar 12

Some people said that women are weak creatures. For those who said this, they should watch what have I done one day. I started my day at 6am. I should prepare my daughter to go to school. I sometimes cook for breakfast but...

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meljessxena i dont think women are weak and thats really horrible that some people can think that. i also dont think that men are weak. we may do different jobs to what men do but we still do our fair share. my husband works full time and then finds it hard to do other...

3 Mar 12

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Unfair Benefit Cuts in the UK...Not enough Jobs

laura1991 @laura1991 (177) 2 Mar 12

it really make me angry how so many people who genuinly want to work and yet they get spoken down to and even lose there benefits because there arent enough jobs. i seen somewhere not long ago that there were a few million people...

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meljessxena oh i am so sorry to hear you guys are going through this. it seems to be getting worse around the world for people to get jobs because of so many job cuts happening. it also is so hard when you have to work free to try and help your chances of getting a job as...

3 Mar 12

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Is my English good enough for working in a English-speaking company?

dandan07 @dandan07 (1906) • China 3 Mar 12

I really want your help. As I am not rich, I do not have the money to take some international English level test such as TOEFL and IELTS, so I do not have a certification for my English. Now I want to find a job in a foreign...

language skill

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meljessxena i think your typing is really good i dont see why you cant just go for the job and see how you go. you never know what may come out of it and the bit of help that you may need well you may learn it on the job or when you start getting money coming in you be...

3 Mar 12

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What would you usually window shop for?

K31 @keihimekawa (2009) • Philippines 1 Mar 12

I'm just curious as to what fellow myLotters shop/window shop for whenever they step into the malls? As for me, I always stop by the gadget shops. I'm really a tech gadget fanatic and I would like to stay updated with the...

bags

shopping

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meljessxena i usually window shop for clothes for my kids and most of the times its shoes for my daughter. i actually use to buy handbags for myself all the time before my first baby came along and well now i have 2 kids i usually look at clothes for them. if i see some...

2 Mar 12

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Angered Over Non-paying Debtors

Graceekwenx @Graceekwenx (3160) • Philippines 2 Mar 12

Friends... Today, i was angered and it piped down immediately in less than a minute. I have this officemate who owes me big money 2 years ago.. Last year, she has committed to pay me little by little monthly and that she intends...

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meljessxena you do have the right to be angry and upset with the person. maybe she is short on money at the moment with bills but in saying that she should still try to compromise and pay you atleast something even if it is half of what her small repayments are. you may...

2 Mar 12

So Confusing!

jahernandezrivas @jahernandezrivas (11288) • United States 2 Mar 12

Tell me what you would think? If someone was so in love with someone ans that person knew for a year or more that they were and did not seem to care really but the guy started to come and kiss the girl like every other day and...

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meljessxena it can be very confusing, but from my own experiences and reading this i think the guy is just leading her on. she needs to just find something else to help her slowly move on to overcome these feelings for him as there will be someone else out there that will...

2 Mar 12

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how to keep the friendship alive even from a distance?

aicasalinks @aicasalinks (303) • Philippines 21 Jan 12

I have this bestfriend since my first year in college that I have never seen for more than ten years now, but we still consider each other as bestfriends. We call each other best everytime we caught on each other. I care for him...

friendship from a distance

means of communication for friends that are far a

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meljessxena i know what you mean, but its only been about 6 months since seeing my best friend and it feels like a while. we just both have different life styles that keep each other busy constantly. i now have 2 children and work and she works and is pregnant with her...

22 Jan 12

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A new opportunity will surely come.

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 21 Jan 12

What a day it was. I was so eager in working to that task wherein I have spent time in doing those. But one day, it was all gone to the trash. Although it was not a scam site and its all been legit. I feel sad for what has...

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meljessxena i understand where your coming from try not to let it get you down. hopefully it wont take to long for a new window of a new opportunity open for you and will brighten up your day. its hard when you know you have worked so hard and wanting something so bad...

22 Jan 12

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How do you feel when your friend only called you when they need something?

imcath03 @imcath03 (79) • Philippines 12 Dec 11

I experienced this and i found it irritating. My friend only bother to talk with me, when she needs something or she has problem to tell. How about you guys what can you say about this?

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meljessxena i know a few people that are like that with me or my husband. it is annoying and i have pretty much got over it now as i have better things to worry about "when they dont want to be in contact with me". i dont think its worth stressing over, as long as they...

13 Dec 11

If you break up with me, I will kill myself!!

Aja103654 @Aja103654 (5644) • Philippines 12 Dec 11

Yes, that annoying and dramatic misguided kind of love is a classic blackmailing method for those crazy lovers to use when they're partners decides to leave them. I find this very annoying. a part of me wants to tell that...

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meljessxena its hard to say what to do or say in this situation without being in it and experiencing something like this. but there is no way anyone should ever black mail anyone especially into this sort of relationship. from what i think i would do i would seek some...

13 Dec 11

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How can I gain weight

shumapadma @shumapadma (3) • United States 11 Dec 11

I'm underweight, and I really need to gain weight. what should I do so I can reach my proper weight and gain muscle. My height is 6'5", and I weight 110 lb.... Because of my underweight problem I have a health problem such as ;...

health

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meljessxena i also was going to suggest iron supplement, as i get dizzy when my iron is running really low. also maybe see a doctor to get your sugar levels tested. my friend is on body building formula as he has a fast metabolism (think thats how u spell it) and its...

12 Dec 11

Mylot Payment

girl_thinking @girl_thinking (1959) • Philippines 11 Dec 11

I just realized how addicted I am to Mylot. I'm not big on posting discussions or picture but I really like participating in discussions. I mean, I feel like I am learning a lot about how others feel towards something. Along with...

mylot

payment

stop

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meljessxena i use to come here every day but then i found i didnt have enough time, and i usually just clicked on read a few posts then went again without actually responding to anything. since i have some more time on my hands i do need to come in here more often,as i...

12 Dec 11

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What I want for Christmas is...?

Andrealoves7and8 @rogue13xmen13 (14402) • United States 11 Dec 11

Don't you just hate it when you get something for Christmas that you didn't like, and you are just wishing that that person knew what you wanted or that they just could of had the guts to ask your what you wanted? Every year,...

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meljessxena i usually like getting gift cards as well, so after christmas i can go when there are sales on and get things that could be really put to good use for me and my family. really i dont mind what i get for christmas but just as long as my kids are happy thats...

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Social networking sites like

dhawanbm @dhawanbm (3705) • India 11 Dec 11

Social networking sites to earn are too good to reisist. If you manage them they could be earners. Social networking sites like Xing.com are great for social and business purposes. They are great way to communicate your feelings...

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meljessxena they are great for communication, i also use some to keep up to date with friends and see how they are going as you dont get to keep in regular contact as much as you like sometimes especially busy families and busy working so its good to have like these.

12 Dec 11

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do you always wash your hands?

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 2 Oct 10

a pleasant day fellow mylotter, i am just curious if you do wash your hands very often. i just saw a campaign in one of the advertisement shown on the television, that, we should wash our hands often. in addition, a doctor...

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meljessxena im work with kids, so i need to wash my hands all the time. i either changing nappie, dishing up food, giving bottles or putting a child to sleep.. then i go home from work and look after my own child and husband so cleaning hands is a necessary thing.

3 Oct 10

Do you think that computer is still interesting without internet connection?

insulin @insulin (2479) • Philippines 2 Oct 10

I think it will be interesting first but maybe in some weeks or months then not.Just like my brothers desktop,when they are still waiting for the internet provider,it's really boring at all and nothing to do except for reports...

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meljessxena it is a lot better with the internet connection, but if for some reason i dont then i usually just play some games that are on my computer already. usually when i dont have my internet connection on i get all my work stuff up to date because i dont have...

3 Oct 10