mensab

@mensab (4200)

Philippines • Age 50

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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insecurity is in her

pentagan12 @pentagan12 (757) • Philippines 30 Apr 13

I have known this person for quite so long. Unfortunately, she is the aunt of my fiance, the sister of my boyfriend's father. Even before, I was already aware of her negative attitudes; however, I never thought it is quite severe....

insecure

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mensab just be cautious of what you hear from others. they may also be untrue. what is important is your focus on what is truly important in life - family, career, relationships, faith, etc. do not lose sight of those important to you. otherwise you will lose them if...

30 Apr 13

birthday goal list

effinmuffin @effinmuffin (191) • Philippines 22 Apr 13

Hey guys & gals!! It has been a long time since the last time i opened my account. My birthday is coming up and i wanted to make a goal list but i don't know what am i going to write. I have already thought of 3 things but it...

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mensab your goals oftentimes depend on your life situation. if you are a student, then one of your goals must be to finish the studies on time. if you are a worker in a company, one of your goals must be to find your work meaningful to you and your company. well, it...

29 Apr 13

Where Do Writers Get Their Idea?

craziestqueenever @craziestqueenever (1819) • Philippines 29 Apr 13

I had been dreaming to be a writers, I just don't know why I want it, but because I envy those who write so well. When I was young I hated writing, I also hated reading literary pieces, but now people are into it. I just...

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mensab keep the dream of becoming a writer. it never stops to become a writer. everytime you read a good novel or a piece of writing, i hope that you find sufficient inspiration and motivation to pursue your dream of becoming a writer someday. for me, reading...

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Lakers are put out of their misery!

koopharper @koopharper (7601) • Canada 29 Apr 13

San Antonio swept LA. They trailed the entire game. Dwight Howard got his butt ejected. What should management do with this team. I would not be surprised if D'Antoni is looking for work this summer. I not sure Dwight Howard as an...

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mensab this shows that superstars do not make up a good team. when nash and howard joined the lakers this year, metta world peace declared that the bulls' record of 72-10 was in danger. but what happened that the lakers barely made it to the playoff. and now, it was...

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I Envy Those Who Are Rich

craziestqueenever @craziestqueenever (1819) • Philippines 28 Apr 13

Hey there friends! Here am I again, I am now in my lowest point. My mind is wandering. I keep on asking God, Why is it that I am not good enough, Why is it that we are not that rich, Why is it that we don't have a great house,...

envy

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mensab life is about hard work and belief in yourself who is capable of making things possible. if you have faith, that is also a powerful force to push your dreams and aspirations to reality. start from what you want. becoming rich and wealthy is not a good start. a...

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Avoiding Others For One..!!!!

Dassodils @Dassodils (2010) • India 28 Apr 13

Haii.. Now I am going to share some thing that I cant agree at any cost.I have seen so many people behaving like this.When they get engaged to a person,they will be very decent or act like that and they will surely avoid others...

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mensab that is the essence of engagement. it is a decision to stick to one person because a decision has been reached to have that person in one's life. it is definitely acceptable to focus on that person and avoid others who may influence the decision in one way or...

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Mother's Day Gift, A New Pen

Sandy @velvet53 (22533) • Palisade, Colorado 27 Apr 13

I went down to the Loaf&Jug to grab few things and ran into a friend. She asked for my phone number and I didn't have a pen or paper. So I went over and asked the manager if I could get apiece of paper and borrow. He asked what...

manager

pen

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mensab that is indeed so sweet to happen to anybody. i believe that there are still so many people out there who show random kindness to people. oh, mother's day is coming. i have not thought of anything to give to my mother. thank you for this discussion because it...

27 Apr 13

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Mother of Bomber Suspect on Terror list!

lelin1123 @lelin1123 (15595) • Puerto Rico 27 Apr 13

So the mom of the bombing suspect has also been on the terror watch list since 2011 due to becoming more militant in her thinking. She also has legal problems stemming from an outstanding warrant for shoplifting in the US. She...

bomber mom

legal problems

terror watch list

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mensab being in the terror list does not make any person guilty of terrorism. probably you have heard of ordinary persons who are unknowingly put in the list and being apprehended for questioning and restraining them to travel. also, you might have heard that the...

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Past Life

Anji1985 @Anji1985 (46) • France 26 Apr 13

Do you think that it's true that what you have done in your Past Life determines how this Present Life goes? Because, a friend of mine knew this lady who could not have children, and then she went by someone who hypnotized her...

past life

relationships

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mensab this is not true. i believe that our lives are not determined because we are free to choose our path. of course, there are forces that influence our direction, but the intelligence and freedom are ever-present in us. what we do faces consequences in this life....

26 Apr 13

Weirdos in the internet.

TrinityDownpour @TrinityDownpour (790) • Liechtenstein 26 Apr 13

There are some weirdos in the internet, who randomly gave their emails to complete strangers just to make friends/ask for a date. I had this lady, who gave me her email in response to the drawing service I offer on one site....

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mensab you are right. there are many weirdos in the internet. because it is free and accessible, people can be anonymous in expressing themselves. many scams are also proliferating online. one has to be careful in dealing with them. information must be handled with...

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retired nurse with handicaps lives on a train...

dagami @dagami (1158) • Rome, Italy 26 Apr 13

meet silvano, an 80 yr old retired nurse who lives on trains. he lost his apartment because he couldn't pay the rent with his meager pension of 500plus euros. since handicapped persons like him do not need to pay train tickets, he...

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mensab this is heart-breaking. a pensioner should be able to live comfortably after working hard when s/he was still able to work. no one deserves to live in a train. the government must look into these cases to address the rising cost of rent, food prices, and other...

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Summer Get Away Quarrel : Boracay over Palawan!

Magz1989 @Magz1989 (271) • Philippines 26 Apr 13

In Philippines, summer is the best part for its the vacation time away from school or work. Be free to discover places especially beaches. But the problem was how to settle first the place where to have that summer vacation...

summer vacation

tourist spots in philippines

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mensab either place is a good choice. no one could get wrong if one chooses palawan or boracay. it seems that the divide is marked by gender preference. the females want palawan and the males want to go to boracay. well, boracay is associated with partying and...

26 Apr 13

It's Time to Assemble a Portfolio

bloggeroo @bloggeroo (2167) • Philippines 26 Apr 13

I'm going to try getting jobs at the bigger freelancing sites. So now, I must assemble a writer's portfolio. It should showcase a range of writing skills. I should be all original. It should be done soon. Hmm. It's going to be...

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mensab yes, i admire those people who can pursue their dreams without reluctance. the confidence and faith in their works are present in their hearts and minds. someday, i know i will be able to read your works. i hope you succeed to get those works published and...

26 Apr 13

How much is your minimum target income online? How did you arrive with that?

Jackie Russell @CandyzNikka (380) • Philippines 24 Apr 13

I am not sure if I should increase my target income online per daily basis. I only set a target based on the minimum wage of an offline employee here in my country Philippines. I round it off to P500 or $12 a day (Probably 8 hours...

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mensab when i was starting, i had my minimum target earning online. now that i am done with the beginner's level, i have my maximum target income from online activities. i think it is advisable that you do not dwell and satisfy with the minimum target. start from...

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Do you end the relationship or do you wait for the other person to end it?

sunsham68 @sunsham68 (1376) • India 23 Apr 13

When you are in a relationship that you know is bad and you are both miserable/ angry/ bored, whatever, do you take the inititave and call it quits or do you let the other person do the severing? I once called the shots and...

breaking off

ending relationship

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mensab why does the relationship have to end in the first place? misery, anger, boredom in the relationships are the testing and challenging times for the couple to stick together and fight it out of those times. as we know, relationships are not always a fairy tales...

23 Apr 13

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Need a date?

jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 23 Apr 13

Some friends told me that i need a date since i'm busy and always try to put work first.That would really be not nice,so what do you think of it as well?I would like to hear your thoughts,good luck and thanks in...

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mensab i am not sure whether you really want to socialize. i am much more cautious when something is being forced into someone. if you are opent o dating, then you can start from going out with your colleagues and friends. becoming active in social organization will...

23 Apr 13

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i know i should not forget to give thanks to the Lord

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 23 Apr 13

i have been so busy with the every day things in life. trying how to pass the day and enjoy each moment. it is hard to live life as i have been living. i have been privileged to have enough to eat and live decently but at the same...

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mensab yes, the Lord looks after us and provides the things that we need. the simplicity of our lives depend on our efforts and graces and blessings from God. we earn what we deserve. what we know is that God is there to help us in our needs. our grateful and...

23 Apr 13

Diaries, Journaling, Discipline

momiecat @momiecat (997) • United States 22 Apr 13

I have recently been watching the day to day revelations of an active trial involving a female who admittedly murdered her boyfriend/ex-boyfriend. Throughout the unraveling of the defense and prosecution witness testimony, it has...

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mensab this is incredible and amazing. i always admire those who keep track of their moments in life. of course, special and ordinary moments account for our purpose and meaning in this world. i could only wish to have written similar diaries and journals. but i am...

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How should I comfort her?

randomarts09 @randomarts09 (1405) • Indonesia 22 Apr 13

This is actually the problem of my good friend. she suddenly told me that she want to die and almost did a suicide. And of course I tried to stop her over the phone. Luckily I can stop her. So her boyfriend (or should I say her...

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mensab you are doing something right for her. by being by her side and listening to her, she needs to release all the insecurities and negative energies in her. you are right when you mentioned about her ex-boyfriend. it is not a real man if he only sees her...

22 Apr 13

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Elimination of Cash

lakshmi11 @lakshmi11 (278) • United States 21 Apr 13

I have heared that cash is going to be eliminated . Banks try to use solely computers and cards instead of the cold hard cash we still use now. - One would start with stores which only accept credit cards. The consumer would have...

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mensab slowly cash is not being used in many transactions. but i do not see the disappearance of cash in the system. the numbers and figures in the computers and online have to backed up by hard cash. without the cash somewhere, there will be no transaction. no one...

21 Apr 13