montevilla

@montevilla (550)

Age 42

Joined myLot 12 years ago

Love -changes everything

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Is it till possible to find true love this days?

nixx_04 @nixx_04 (20) • Philippines 28 Apr 13

I mean, in today's time, it sees like you can never find a true love.People are getting in a relationship at an early age and get **** at age 15 or soething.Well for me,it just seems like love reduces its value over time.

love

realtionship

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montevilla I believe that it is possible to find true love but just not when you are expecting it. Many people want to experience true love at a point in there life and become quite anxious and desperate for it and realize they are not finding it then. That is because...

29 Apr 13

What Gentleman means for you?

extremefun4fun @extremefun4fun (2908) • India 25 Apr 13

Well, for me Gentleman is the one who is really polite and sophisticated.. I love sophisticated, soft spoken and handsome guys! Men in my home country are really Gentle, they would never pass the door if a lady is there, they...

gentleman

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montevilla A Gentleman ensures that the feelings/needs of others are always considered so that everybody feels comfortable. Happy mylotting!

25 Apr 13

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Do answer a call from the number you don't know?

AkamaruKei @AkamaruKei (5219) • Malaysia 30 Mar 13

I always receive a call from the number I don't know. Before this I answer because I think maybe my friend use new number but when I answer most of it from someone make a wrong number call. Sometime I just worried if it is...

cellphone

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montevilla Usually no. unless they become relentless and won't stop and then we find out that its family or someone new and we don't recognize the number yet. happy mylotting!

22 Apr 13

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How do you save music on sd card?

htownshawty @htownshawty (265) • United States 15 Apr 13

Trying to get all my music off my old phone huawei ascend 2 and put it on sd card can anyone help

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montevilla To transfer anything to an SD card you have to have either a device with it in it (like a phone or camera) plugged into your computer or have the SD card in the computer through a memory card slot. Once you have it connected, if a window does not pop up on...

22 Apr 13

Can i get married before my brother's marriage?

Ashokraj @Ashokraj (107) • India 22 Apr 13

I have two brothers. They both didn't get married still now. But i want to marry. Can i get married before my brother?

marriage

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montevilla Everyone is entitled to get married, Whether it's now, soon, or in a few years. I wouldn't hold off my wedding just because of a decision someone even family made. Have your wedding when ever you want. Goodluck! Happy mylotting

22 Apr 13

Do you believe in bad omen/signs?

ayeeesha @ayeeesha (1127) • Philippines 22 Apr 13

My husband and I decided to take some time off and watch a movie, to which I made some reservations. Prior to leaving, my husband decided to take a quick jog around the village. My daughter does not normally cry when my husband...

omen

signs

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montevilla I do, we all have souls and are spiritual beings, Some people have spiritual awareness and other right it of as sheer coincidence. There is no such thing as coincidence, And everything happens for a reason and has a meaning to it. Whether it makes sense or not...

22 Apr 13

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can love really survive long distance?

ariannet @ariannet (15) • Philippines 6 Apr 13

i was browsing my FB account and most of my friends posted love qoutes.Most of them are outside of the country earning because of lack of oppurtunities here in my country.They have to leave their love ones.And most of them are not...

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montevilla yes it can, If you truly love someone distance shouldn't matter, It takes more effort to make the relationship work, But true love is worth it.. Happy mylotting!

21 Apr 13

Do You Believe In Luck

anujkumarkumar1 @anujkumarkumar1 (721) 21 Apr 13

Hello friends hope you all are enjoying here On My lot.Here is my one question - Do You Believe in luck,If you would ask the same question from me then my answer is yes. Yes i believe in luck because i see some persons in this...

luck

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montevilla Yes I believe in luck, But for me, More importantly it is also what you do with it. Happy mylotting!

21 Apr 13

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Who do you think will be the 2013 Finals Champion?

momworker41 @momworker41 (113) • United States 21 Apr 13

I watch basketball, and it is the Playoffs time. Who do you think will be the 2013 champion. I was a Heat fan since 2006, ,and i am still. The Knicks are really playing well, as well the Thunders. So, what team do you think will...

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montevilla Miami heat, Lebron prove he can play well and win a title last year, Dwyane wade coming back 100% health with an improve jump shot that he is working on. And I think the only thing stopping heat is injuries. Happy mylotting!

21 Apr 13

How to make long distance relationship work

nenemae77 @nenemae77 (2) 10 Feb 13

My boyfriend for more than a year decided to work abroad. I am worried and wanted to know how i will be able to survive our relationship for I am used of him being always at my side. Please help me

long distance relationship

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montevilla The most important way to have successful LONG DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP is to have faith and hope in your relationship and in each other. It is by no means easy, But put your strength together and you can definitely make it! Happy mylotting!

21 Apr 13

What do you do when you are sad?

KhrystkaShandelle @KhrystkaShandelle (10) • Philippines 19 Apr 13

Being sad is a natural for us to fee as a human being. I think, we cannot avoid this feeling. It's either we failed to get something what we wanted, lose someone or something etc, etc. Well, there are a lot of reason why we felt...

sadness

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montevilla Listen to the music that reflects my mood on my own, When I'm lying down on my bed it's quite calming. Happy mylotting!

21 Apr 13

Loving someone who don't know love

Ashokraj @Ashokraj (107) • India 21 Apr 13

Have you ever felt the pain of loving someone deeply who don't even know what is love? I am feeling. I show her the extremity of my love. But she didn't show me a single drop of love. She didn't even understand my love. I feel...

feeling

love

pain

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montevilla All of us know what is all about love.No one doesn't know how to fall in love.In your case she might not in love with you. She don't have any special feelings on you.We cannot expect someone will love us back as we love them. If you love her you should respect...

21 Apr 13

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Who do you consider your friends?

Lana @inopiratum_a_medio12 (877) 20 Apr 13

Friendship is really tested when problems arrives in terms of money based from my own experience. Before I have no limits in treating my friends when they are in need I do all my best to help them even in cash problems, but one...

people

relationship

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montevilla I consider friends those who are accepting me and knows me well, A person who is caring and very sincere and faithful. HAppy mylotting!

21 Apr 13

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do you always wear a watch??

scubapro @scubapro (1051) • Gifu, Japan 16 Apr 13

just curious here,do you always wear a watch? nowadays technology is improving so fast,there are tablets,smart phones ,small laptops that we can carry to everywhere with us so we can see the time. but how about...

life

smart phone

watch

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montevilla Yes. Always, It's a habit of mine that probably started when I was around seven, I wear it on my left wrist except when I go to sleep, Even when it doesn't match what I'm wearing.. Happy mylotting!

17 Apr 13

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what concerns you the most? past? present? future?

maxfashioned @maxfashioned (188) 17 Apr 13

Do you worry more about what has already happened? I find myself sometimes dwelling on stupid things that I have said or done from not only yesterday but from 10+ years ago. The present? The day to day stuff can be dawnting but I...

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montevilla I actually focus on the future as well, But I realize that the present, right here and right now, Is more important of two. If you do not make wise choices and take care of your self, You will have no future. Happy mylotting!

17 Apr 13

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Do you think it is legal to download the youtube videos for personal use?

mytravelaroundglobe @sanjay91422 (2725) • India 16 Apr 13

I have seen that the link appears to download the you-tube videos when I have a download manager installed in my laptop. So I get the video downloaded to my system hard drive. I have read that you tube do not permit the users to...

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montevilla Everyone are welcome to upload videos to Youtube, So I think it is also legal to download youtube videos for personal use. Happy mylotting!

16 Apr 13

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Could you be happy alone?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 16 Apr 13

Some people aren't happy alone and once they are out of one relationship they are immediately in another. Do you think you could be happy alone? What do you think it takes in order for a person to be happy by themselves and with...

happy

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montevilla No I don't think I can be totally alone, What would be the point in not sharing anything with anyone. You wouldn't be able to share your views or opinions, Your love, Your sadness. Surely this would make us like emotionless robots lol. Happy maylotting!

16 Apr 13

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Do you believe in fate ?

juniorance @juniorance (250) • India 3 Apr 13

I often hear that everything which happens to us is pre-written. And everything will happen only according to which it is written. What is the purpose of living our life if it is pre-written ?

fate

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montevilla I believe that god has given us a choice in life, But at the same time everything is in his Hands. Our life is predestined, I believe as humans we cannot do anything without the will of god. He is the one that created us and placed a soul in us and he is the...

15 Apr 13

Do you believe we choose to fall in love?

sarahruthbeth22 @sarahruthbeth22 (43143) • United States 15 Apr 13

Some say Love is a choice? Do you? Me? I'm new to the game. I know I didn't plan to fall in love but I did fall. the only true choice I remember making is finally saying "I Love You". The rest? I'm not sure there was any choice....

relationships

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montevilla I believe falling in love is a matter of fate and cannot always be controlled because our heart has a " mind of it's own " and doesn't always like to listen to what our head tells it. Happy mylotting!

15 Apr 13

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Does it bother you what other people think of you?

aileen2008 @aileen2008 (838) • Philippines 14 Apr 13

They say that to be happy we should not get bothered by other people's thoughts of us. It's true because if we act based on what others thought is right then we are not loving ourselves but we are loving them. Sometimes, I am...

criticisms

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montevilla Sometimes but I've learned that what I think of my self is more important than what someone else think of me...:) Happy Mylotting!

15 Apr 13