pastorkayte

@pastorkayte (2255)

United States • Age 54

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Where would you go?

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 2 Aug 10

My anniversary just passed, and we did not get to do much, however I was thinking of taking my honey on a Golf vacation. He said since we have never tried it, he would love to. Does anyone have a Golf vacation story that tells us...

golf

vacation

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Vampire movies

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 27 Jul 10

Why is it that most vampire movies claim there is a link to Christianity and vampirism. Such as the movie that I saw the other day. In this movie the vampire was Judas, and he was made to walk the earth forever for betraying...

christianity

vampires

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Do you think that people in a second marriage...

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 10 Jul 10

In the second marriage some people are telling me that their marriage is so much stronger than the marriage they had with their first mate. They think that it is more loving, that they understand better the needs of their new...

marriage

second

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Married Women and the Husband's Last Name

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 8 Jul 10

When I first started writing, my name was how people knew me because I work online, so to find me they looked up that name and face on the internet. However when I married my husband people keep telling me I need to change it to...

husbands last name

married women

professional life

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2 people

Is communication easier with your mother or father?

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 8 Jul 10

You know for my whole life I could tell my father anything, he listened and gave non judgmental advise to everything and I knew that I wanted to be this way. However my daughters say it is easier for them to communicate with their...

communication

father

mother

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My Goal Has Been Reached

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 7 Jul 10

Besides mylot, one of my side companies where I make extra money is Helium, and I had a whole list of very important goals that I wanted to reach working there, one of them has come true, yesterday I became the Channel Manager for...

channel manager

goals

helium

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Is text messaging keeping kids from learning communication skills

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 7 Jul 10

I have just learned that my daughter can text faster than I can type, and her friend can't spell a thing the way it is supposed to be spelled. I have also learned that it is getting so bad with the texting that moms are starting...

communication

texting

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1 person

When kids go bad...

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 5 Jul 10

Is it the parents fault when kids grow up and go bad? Well do bad things, do you think it is influence or do you think it is societal and not really parental that causes a child to do bad things?

child

influence

parent

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Do you think that interfaith marriages are doomed?

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 5 Jul 10

A young man who is Jewish, wanted to know if he and his soon to be wife would be doing the right thing by marrying knowing that they dont share the same beliefs and that this is a problem for them. The question is do you think...

interfaith marriage

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Is having fantasies cheating?

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 5 Jul 10

I was asked by a young woman recently whether fantasies where considered cheating, she had dreamed about having an intimate relationship with someone other than her mate and she was wondering if that was cheating. I don't think...

cheating

dreams

fantasy

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Should kids have a vote in who they live with in divorce?

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 5 Jul 10

When the parents go through a divorce and decide to move on, does the kid get a choice in who they get to live with? I think they should, children are relatively bright about these matters. I think if both parents are reasonable,...

divorce

kids

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2 people

Should the court do away with alimony payments

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 5 Jul 10

Nowadays, when women work, I don't see a reason for men to have to pay alimony. In the past it was to ensure that the woman who had no skills outside of homemaking could still live the lifestyle she was accustomed to, however...

alimony

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Should the custodial parents deny visitation when child support is not paid

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 5 Jul 10

There are many people (not just men) who fail to pay their child support payments and the children suffer for it, however do you think that the custodial parent should be able to deny the right to visit the child if the support is...

child support

custodial parent

visitation

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Why would someone hide their divorce from the kids

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 5 Jul 10

This has got to be the dumbest thing I have ever heard, when a family is going through divorce, the parents who hide it, hurt the children, those children grow up feeling that the parents lied to them and start wondering what else...

divorce

kids

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Shoul the man buy gifts for the children of his new girlfriend

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 5 Jul 10

I think when a guy or a girl come into a relationship that they should know that their mate comes as a package deal, which means if it is the kids birthday buy a gift. However, don't start buying gifts for no reason or she will...

buy

children

gifts

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Should girls be required to return the ring...

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 5 Jul 10

Should girls be required to return the ring if they don't go through with the marriage. I have heard of some women who will pawn the man's ring that he spent 3 or 4 whole paychecks on after the breakup the women caused. I think...

return

ring

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Why My Kids Cant watch Degrassi

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 12 Apr 10

I turned to a television show the other day, I had not ever actually seen the show, but this day this show had everything. There was adult themes, violence, drama, and a whole host of other crap on what is supposed to be a teenage...

degrassi

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1 person

Have you Fallen Prey to Fad Diets

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 12 Apr 10

I have, i have tried a bunch of different types of diet. I have done everything from low carbs, to high protien, and every other kind of diet. Juice diets and high energy exercise. I have tried every diet that I could do. Then I...

fad diets

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Do You Hate to Shop

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 12 Apr 10

I am one of those people who really hates to go shopping, and I am a woman. I hate going to crowded stores, I dont like rude people working in the stores, and most of all I hate standing in line. While I have to go to the store...

shopping

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2 people

What do you think of Acupuncture

pastorkayte @pastorkayte (2255) • United States 12 Apr 10

I have lower back pain since I have started getting older, because it really hurts a few people have told me I should try acupuncture. Has anyone ever tried it and does it hurt, in addition how do you find a good doctor to ensure...

acupuncture

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3 people