phat_navy

@phat_navy (58)

Philippines • Age 50

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unFair!

MQLanaoC @MQLanaoC (51) • Philippines 13 Sep 10

others say that it's wrOng to lose someone you lOve and you should fight for your lOve..But the wrong is when you are going yo fight for your lOve for him?whiLe him is nOt fighting for you..it's unfair!

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phat_navy You have to have reason for fighting also. If you think the person still loves you then i guess that is enough reason to fight for your love. But if the person wants freedom from you because there is no more feelings left for you anymore then it is useless to...

13 Sep 10

bEing single!

MQLanaoC @MQLanaoC (51) • Philippines 13 Sep 10

There is nOthing wrong with being single,it's exactly nice to be free,i can go anytime i want,i can just be my plain old self..The whole world sees that i can take care of myself bUt the truth is,i miss the times that someone...

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phat_navy Whatever choices we decide to make with our lives, it doesn't matter if others will not approve of it, important thing is we are happy with our choice.

13 Sep 10

Do you still watch movie in the theater?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 9 Sep 10

Its been many years since I last watch movie in the theater. I rather buy CD or DVD and watch movie at the comfort of my home. I think the last time I watch movie is 2004. So about 6 years ago. Price wise the cost of watching...

movie

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phat_navy I totally agree with you on this. Of course aside from being practical, you can watch the CD over and over again for as long as you want. You can even have a collection of your favorite films.

13 Sep 10

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Learning how to say "NO"

bluemoonpavilion @bluemoonpavilion (4658) • Singapore 12 Sep 10

We want things and we don't want things, do you know how to say "no" to the people and things we don't want? For example, a persistent salesman on the street insisting on introducing his products, an invitation for a function that...

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phat_navy It happened to me a couple of times before. I can say you are and will always be at the losing end if you don't learn to refuse and say NO to things that you don't like and don't have interest to. What i did was i tried to avoid situations like that. I don't...

12 Sep 10

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Would you give your cell number to a stranger?

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 12 Sep 10

"Can I have your number?"---If a stranger approaches you and would ask you this just because he/she thinks you're cute, would you give it? ...For me, if he/she would tell me it's for business matters, more likely I would give...

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phat_navy Whatever reason he/she has for asking, i don't usually give my cellphone number to anybody that i don't know especially so to a total stranger. Not unless it is business but even so, there are lots of people out there also who like to play monkey business....

12 Sep 10

why you stop to be happy?

hbsztsyx @hbsztsyx (85) • China 31 Aug 10

No one can last laughing forever, also, no one can last crying forever. What are our pursuit? If we pursuit happiness, and I can assert everyone have caught happiness once, but why we give up at last? So strange for me. what do...

happy

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phat_navy I think it is a choice whether to be happy or not. It is a state of mind.

31 Aug 10

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Do you forget what you did when you are drunk? Why?

laedyan @laedyan (189) • Philippines 15 Jan 09

I have a friend who always love to drink. And after every event of being drunk, she always asks me what happened. At first, i thought she's playing with me but when this thing happens everytime, i don't know anymore what to say....

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phat_navy I have been drunk many times but I don't remember to have been having an amnesia every time i am drunk. I don't believe a person who says he or she doesn't know what she/he has done. Maybe you cannot control yourself to behave but i don't believe those...

31 Aug 10

cash gopher

jeikl_08 @jeikl_08 (97) • Philippines 31 Aug 10

what do you think this cash gopher all about?, would it be best for everyone?,,i heard all you need to do is nothing yet you earn!...i cant wait for this,,how bout you?

cash gopher

money making

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phat_navy Hard to believe that you could at least earn money without doing hard work. Will see in the future if there's really truth in it.

31 Aug 10

what is you're favorite color?

mutchaching @mutchaching (10) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

give specific color

colors

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phat_navy I have always liked blue. It speaks of being loyal.

28 Aug 10

Hongkong is already repatraiting Filipino maids

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 26 Aug 10

..hi fellas.. I'm a Filipino and I have friends in Hongkong.. this morning, my friend sent me a message that many Filipinos have been drove out by their employers even in the middle of the night and those Filipinos have nowhere to...

filipino maids

filipnos

hongkong

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phat_navy Totally unfair for other Filipinos. Nobody wanted that incident to happen in the first place. The Chinese nationals who have been doing business here in the Philippines are treated fair and square. There have been many instances that people would judge them as...

28 Aug 10

poor me

eurekafemme @eurekafemme (5877) • Philippines 27 Aug 10

I am tired, exhausted and wasted from the doing the chores daily and taking care of my two kids 24/7 and I am so bored being confined in this place that it makes me feel suffocated already. Today is my chance to go out since...

house maid

no money

self pity

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phat_navy While absorbing your kind of situation, I find it very hard to make a comment since for one, if i were to be in your shoes, surely, the situation to happen perhaps is a different one. If, my husband would not allow me to work then he should assure me that at...

28 Aug 10

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One biggest mistake when we love

raynejasper @raynejasper (2322) • Philippines 28 Aug 10

..hi fellas.. As I look back to my love story, I realized that one biggest mistake that we usually commit when we love, we try to give all our love to our partner and nothing is left for our self. Then when our partner decides to...

love

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phat_navy You cannot love others if you don't truly love yourself first. Hard thing about love is when you are not able to control yourself of the emotions that you feel and because of that you become blind of everything, you only see good things ahead of you.

28 Aug 10

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Is it necessary to buy cake to celebrate birthday?

Betty Deng @bettydeng5 (1822) • China 25 Aug 10

My husband will have his birthday next week, I am thinking to buy a cake for him to celebrate his birthday, however when I discussed with him about the cake, he doesn't want to buy any cake, however I really want to buy cake for...

cake

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phat_navy If you can afford to buy one, why not? I think a birthday with a cake will make a birthday make it feel as it is. We don't buy cake everyday so when occasions like this come to us, and we can afford to buy it, have it...

25 Aug 10

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Would you kill a dangerous animal?

nicole00 @nicole00 (141) • United States 25 Aug 10

I have a question. I was watching on the news where someone was keeping an alligator as a pet and it got to big so they decided to just let it go. Well the alligator ended up on a street and some people had to catch it. The news...

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phat_navy I guess yes when it is already doing harm to people but if they don't, it is really not fair for them to be killed. It is being cruel already.

25 Aug 10

First thing which you do in the morning is.....

thebest1 @thebest1 (658) • Romania 25 Aug 10

...to make coffee!For me! I can't start my day without coffee!I can't move a needle without coffee! OK...after coffee I turn on my laptop LOL! What about you?What is first thing in the morning?

life

people

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phat_navy Brush my teeth and take a bath and be ready for work! Lol, coffee is always waiting in the office.

25 Aug 10

Is it possible to find our partner through the internet ?

dragonangel @dragonangel (551) 24 Aug 10

Nowadays,the internet has everything that we want to know,new and old information,games,tracking old friends and finding new friends.Even finding someone to love.In your idea,is it really possible to find a life time partner...

cyber love

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phat_navy Everything and anything is possible under the sun. Only that you have to be extra careful in knowing people through the inet. I guess the bottomline really is how you get along with each other. Not because you met the person in the internet, this would mean...

24 Aug 10

what should i do

lilmuchang @lilmuchang (261) • France 24 Aug 10

Me and my boyfriend have been together since 5 years, I have been loving him ever since, but lately he changed a lot. I wanted us to get married, but he refused, saying that he doesn't love me the way he had the first time we met...

love

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phat_navy Why do you have to force yourself to somebody who cannot love you much in return. I know, easier said than done to those who are not in the same situation as you are in right now. But it is what it is, the more you hold on to him, the more and longer it will...

24 Aug 10

FIRST LOVE never dies....

len1415 @len1415 (195) • Philippines 24 Aug 10

How is that possible? I remember my first love back when i was still in high school. We were steady for two years, young but serious relationship indeed. I am already married but we still communicate through networking sites until...

first love

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phat_navy I think that is not how it is... Personally, i think you cannot forget the person and the memories will always be remembered if it was a nice one but to say it never dies, i guess its a different thing already. You wouldn't choose to be with somebody else at...

24 Aug 10