prabu6683

@prabu6683 (113)

India • Age 41

Joined myLot 11 years ago

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Do your kids play instruments

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 1 Jan 13

My daughter got a violin for christmas and has done pretty good in the last few days of learning on her own. I will be getting lessons for her as well. Do your kids play any instruments.

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prabu6683 My eldest daughter plays the piano. She just about to go through her Grade 7 exam, so we have set a rule that she practices for half an hour every evening. Sometimes I need to nag her to get a move on, but she generally enjoys playing the instrument so its not...

2 Feb 13

Kids and stuffed animals

poppoppop111 @poppoppop111 (5731) • Canada 5 Jan 13

My daughter has such an obsession with stuffed animals. She has so many that they take up the entire top bed of her bunk bed plus half of hers. Ot sure how she can sleep crowded around all those bears. Do your kids collect stuffed...

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prabu6683 Our advice is to major in the majors and let the rest work itself out. When the boys do not need these things anymore, they will fall by the wayside. Divorce takes its toll on growing up and if some “security blankets” help make that less painful, then let the...

2 Feb 13

My son and I where in isolation

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 18 Jan 13

On Wednesday I brought my son back to his doctor like the doctor had asked me to on Wednesday. His RSV got worse which tends to happen around day 3 to 7 of it. Once at the doctors office I got a feeling in my stomach that he...

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prabu6683 Kids may not necessarily tell their parents or other adults such as caregivers or coaches, but children who are excluded from peers or dont have friends at child care or school could suffer lasting psychological damage. Peer rejection can come in the form of...

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Do your children afraid of something?

Shavkat @Shavkat (140024) • Philippines 21 Jan 13

I treated my little niece in the backyard. Enjoying the nature that please in our eyes. Then suddenly my niece ran to my direction and looked so scared. She was pointing to something, as I looked into it. The colony of ants were...

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prabu6683 No matter how scared your kids get, childhood fears are usually nothing to worry about. They are normal emotions that help your children figure out how the world works. Here are some dos and don ts of offering comfort. Definitely your kids are important for...

2 Feb 13

Is it okay to let your children eat junkfood?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 27 Jan 13

When I was a kid I really like to eat junk food. Although theirs a time that my parents does not allow me to eat junkfood I still buy junkfood in school. In fact I so love to eat junk food that I do sell junk food in school....

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prabu6683 How many children are raised with ABSOLUTELY NO exposure to junk food? I mean, even if parents raise them to make healthful choices and eschew junk, I wouldd still expect those same parents to realize that their kids will likely have a piece of candy or a root...

2 Feb 13

What is the right age to let our kids drink or smoke?

bulastika @bulastika (5966) • Philippines 27 Jan 13

I do drink and I do smoke and I guess its unfair if I will say to my kid that you can't drink or smoke because its bad for you. But same time I'm discipline in term of drinking. And if I have a kid my plan is to allow my kid to...

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prabu6683 First of all i need to say smoking and drinking not good for health.If it happened then you need to guide them and teach then what is right and what is wrong. Good luck for your kids. You must enjoy so much hearing at them. Its something they should learn from...

2 Feb 13

My Child is so sensitive

Chaitra Vasanth @chaitra001 (3278) • Bangalore, India 28 Jan 13

Hi friends, My son is so sensitive that he wakes up as soon as I wakeup in he morning.he is just 9 months old. I tried changing the time but whenever I wake up he wakes up within a minute after me. Have you had the same...

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son

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prabu6683 Its something they should learn from the start, it really pays to orient them on those things as early as little kids.It is natural to children to react just what you have witnessed. You are right, perhaps in my childhood years I have the same moments too. :)

2 Feb 13

Getting big!

kiepher @kiepher (55) • Philippines 1 Feb 13

Hi myLot community! I really love to comment write, and/or boast about my four-month-old baby.. I can't really explain the happiness i feel whenever I see my son's face.He is really my strength. I'm so proud because he...

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prabu6683 Yes its pretty normal for a parent to boast and be proud of their kids. Your kids are your future. You are right, perhaps in my childhood years I have the same moments too. Also my suggestion is need to be very careful when these things are happen in any...

2 Feb 13

Is this abuse? Why or why not? Is it worse than circumcision?

Charlene Sally C. @PointlessQuestions (15397) • United States 1 Feb 13

This video bothers me, but at the same time we do horrific things to our kids out of customs. This video is forcing a 3 year old to get a tattoo. Someone in the comments makes a good point about us who find this to be abusive...

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prabu6683 You need to be very careful when your kids are trying to do those kind of things. If they are doing that then you need to guide them and teach then what is right and what is wrong.

2 Feb 13

Saying Good Bye is so Hard...

Shavkat @Shavkat (140024) • Philippines 1 Feb 13

It's been awhile that I didn't participate in mylot. The reason, I need to comply all the needed requirements for my new job. I will be working in the mountain side of the Philippines and there is no guarantee that internet...

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prabu6683 Saying good bye is so hard depends on the situation. Sometimes you really want to leave from someone then you say good bye means then really you feel happy. Everything on the situation. But if you have good relationship with somebody then if you say good bye...

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my english is poor

Yaojie @Yaojie (11) • China 1 Feb 13

i am a chinese and i have learned english for 9 years. but i still feel my english is poor. i have no idea sometimes when i need to talk in english or write english passages. now, i have been an college student. however, my...

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prabu6683 Language is just a expresson of people. You no need to much worry about you are not able to communicate in english. Keep on try to correct your mistakes in that language, then it definitely helps to resolves the english speaking problems. Still my suggestion...

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Spoke to my son and dad for 2 hours last night......

mariaperalta @mariaperalta (19073) • Mexico 1 Feb 13

Spoke to my son last night, and my dad. My son is very upset over this deal with his dad and new step mom. His dad told him 3 times, you leave my house you never come back. I know my son, he wont go back. Hes a quiet kid, buy...

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prabu6683 It is very good to talk about your family problems with your family members. It helps some time each other corrects their mistakes. These kind of discussion you have to be very careful and should not mis leads any of your family members. If the discussion goes...

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I have no religion now but it's fine

aubrey @averygirl72 (37845) • Philippines 2 Feb 13

During my first struggles, I thought I will go crazy or I will go sick if I will miss a church. I am a naturally peaceful and a behave person so I guess I really don't have to be religious. My mother, she is really religious,...

christian but no religion

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prabu6683 Religion is nothing and it just guide the people to go for a right way. Some people they are well educated then not needed to goto any religions. Whatever the religion you follow it should not hurt any one. You no need to go for any convertions for your...

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burn fat or build muscle or both

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 24 Jan 13

So here's a question for folks out there. I'm overweight and I have alot of fat to burn. However, I want to build muscle too. Now is it best to focus on burning fat and doing more cardio or building muscle and core work or...

cardio

muscle

weight loss

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prabu6683 My suggestion not required to burn fat or burn muscle. Just work hard and do more exercise, eat healthy food then automatically everything happening good. whatever the shape you have you can get it perfectly. sometime we weel more muscle is not good and at the...

25 Jan 13

We love our Muslims, we love our Bhiaris...

vanny @vandana7 (100312) • India 24 Jan 13

So ..I was walking down from post office and I saw this vegetable vendor. I bought some vegetables from him, and we started talking. I asked him from where he is... He said Bihar and for a fraction of second...I was ..you...

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prabu6683 I dont love any repligions. Instead of just love the peoples. But what is happening is people involved so much into religion and the are sometimes directed wrong way without knowing them. Because some people driving such peoples in a wrong direction. I never...

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how i wish things will go smoothly

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 25 Jan 13

There have been quite a lot of changes i want to take place in my life, more into the financial aspects as well as my outlook in life. i am so praying i could achieve it this year as this is like my very goal of all. Last...

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prabu6683 If you want to go the things smoothly then sometimes you have to sacrifice many things in your life. You will get more happy when you start sacrify your life. You can adopt a child, helping to old people, help to blind people etc save your life to run...

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What do you think of healthy people begging for money?

pahak627 @pahak627 (4558) • Philippines 23 Jan 13

In our place, there are lots of people asking for money in the streets who look healthy and well. I observed that some people whom they asked money from won't give them with comments that these beggars should work in order to earn...

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prabu6683 Its really not acceptable if still they can able to work. Sometime people facing problem like they are not able to earn any single unit of money. At the time it is ok. but healthy people begging is serious issue. Heard that some places beggers are doing a...

23 Jan 13

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Do you feel bad when you can't help others financially?

Dominique25 @Dominique25 (9464) • United States 23 Jan 13

I recently found out my brother in law and his girlfriend will be having a baby. He is twenty and she is only eighteen. I would love to give them a lot of money to help them prepare for the baby but I just can't do that. My family...

helping

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prabu6683 Really every one feels sad a bit if someone helps. But it is not for every time. Because you can see some places they are following a culture finance as a gift. Those people according to the culture thy never feel bad. If someone who is helping you...

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Are you willing to try some new food?

jricky1 @jricky1 (6800) • China 23 Jan 13

New food are strange to me but i do really want to try.For before last year,i never tried durian and i heard this fruits very popular but don't dare to eat,but after that i found it tastes great.So what about you and...

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prabu6683 People who loves food definitely they are willing to eat new foods. It doesnt matter whether taste is good or bad. still eating a food at first time is very good experience. Whatever the food you eat it doesnt harms your health is more good.

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after you get married do you maintain your single friends as tight?

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 23 Jan 13

i am asking this because its something i have seen with many people that soon after marriage not many people maintain very close friendship with their unmarried friends.its not that you stop being friends but its like you no...

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prabu6683 Yes. its true. Because before your marriage you dont have much responsinbilities. So you can spent more time with your friends and your friendship circle may grow. But once you got marriage you have kids, wife and the life style completely changed. You have to...

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