raina21

@raina21 (130)

India • Age 38

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Do you lock or confine yourself in a room if you're depressed?

goddessofbeauty @goddessofbeauty (713) • Philippines 28 Jul 08

Well, I am depressed right now and I have locked myself in my room... I don't let people in and don't want to take calls either. I guess it is better for me to do so to avoid arguments and I wanna have some time to rest... im sick...

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raina21 Yes I do so at times...Actually sometimes we need our own space and time to spend with ourself.So I guess we do this...and its very normal to do it...This way we can stop a lot of arguments and fights to start.

29 Jul 08

love at first sight is true love or an attraction

ashish1487 @ashish1487 (137) • India 29 Jul 08

we all say that love at first sight happens and that becomes true love but is it true or it is just an attraction

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raina21 Love at first sight is definitely an attraction...If u are able to make it the true love of your life then u'll be really luckily coz the person whom u liked at first sight is in love with u but I beleive such cases are really rare...

29 Jul 08

Whats the best way to beat stress?????

Ryan Rosario @ryandreamz (159) • India 24 Jul 08

I hardly get stressed out. But when i do, I simply listen to music or play games on my mobile (i have a ngage qd). I sometimes i even play games on the computer or do mylotting. It helps me to relax and freshens me...

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raina21 When I'm stressed out,I just dnt like to talk to anyone(otherwise everyone calls me chatterbox).I just lie down and put on some good old songs which I love...It really comforts me.Or else I go out somewhere where there is some peace and I can enjoy the beauty...

24 Jul 08

How do you become friends with your ex?

polaris714 @polaris714 (607) • Philippines 22 Jul 08

I want to stay friends with him because I really like him, even if we do set each other's tempers off after we broke up. I like him as a person, as a friend, but we could never make it as lovers. How do you stay friends with...

ex boyfriend

friend

lover

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raina21 Hi there would definitely like to comment on ur discussion coz I'm also now try being a freind to someone whom I thought I loved...well I know its difficult coz as soon as u see the person u start remembering of the past and it doesn't let u start a new...

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would you be my love??

saierchok @saierchok (1294) • United States 3 Jul 07

I'm 20 YO studying medicine,smart, politer, outgoing, have a bright future and now single!! would you like to be my love?????

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raina21 Hi there must mention that u are really cute but the way u are finding ur love its difficult... I think u r very smart and dnt think it will be difficult to find someone...

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one bedroom flat : was it worth it ??

vipulchawla @vipulchawla (2220) • India 27 Feb 08

Hey guys i read this story written by a software engineer and i really felt the bitter reality behind it.. I just kept feeling.. Was it really worth it.. And me being a software engineer myself .. i could really feel the pain.. So...

bedroom

international phone cards

life

relation

worth

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raina21 Hey thats a real nice story Vipul.Thanks for sharing... But whatever happened to the engineer was due to his own decisions and so u can't really pity on him... In my opinion its very necessary to rank our priorities in life -atleat thats what I believe...

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Do you like your Boss....Be frank...

cutebabydoll @cutebabydoll (20) • India 18 Jul 08

Hey guyz....I Work as an interior designer and my field is full of male counterparts...and my boss...is always like testing me....i am not telling that he's wrong ...i think that he has some partiality with me...but still i stay...

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raina21 Like? I just hate him.He is so mean,I don't like him at all..I mean I knoe what my duty is but he just wants us to stay till late hours whether thereis work to do or not... I just don't like him..

19 Jul 08

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Sad songs..

AnnaB7 @AnnaB7 (756) • United States 19 Jul 08

Do you think sad songs can help bring healing to a hurting and broken heart? I do because i do not cry very often or very easily, it is hard for me to cry even when my heart is broken in many pieces, but sometimes when I hear...

broken hearts

healing of the soul

how to mend a broken heart

sad songs

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raina21 Ya I think thats true Me too like listening to sad songs... I mean it all depends on my mood When I'm happy I like ti listen to some very good romantic songs... When I'm feeling down in life I listen to some slow sad songs.. It makes one feel nice and...

19 Jul 08

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How many kids do you have? Or you wish to have? How many sons/daughters?

ck3259 @ck3259 (248) • Malaysia 19 Jul 08

I prefer one son one daughter. Some people wish to have two son and two daughter. The reason that they can play together and make the enviroment liveliness. I love kid. It is wonderful things when you look after them until they...

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raina21 Me too would prefer one son and one cute little daughter.. Ya it surely is a wonderful thing to give birth to new lives,taking care of them, They make u feel so very responsible,so very proud... It really is a very different feeling and I would love to...

19 Jul 08

Truth about the month you were born in ...

vipulchawla @vipulchawla (2220) • India 17 Jul 08

Hi friends.. A day before or two, i received a mail from one of my friends which described about my personality as per the month of the year i was born in. I was born in the month of Septemeber. and my zodiac sign is Libra. I...

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raina21 Hey thats great I totally believe in astrology and I like reading about myself... Please send me mine I was born in March...

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What to do for a perfect romantic night ?

elitess @elitess (5070) • Ipswich, England 14 Jun 08

What to do for a perfect romantic night ? - this is the question i ask you for both ladies and men out there. I think any mylot-er should have some idea to respond to this topic

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raina21 Hi there... Well not experienced in this field but let me make some guess.... I would invite him at my place and prepare some special home made food for him coz I think guys luv the home made things...Some good wine will definitely be on menu.. Then may be...

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What is The way???

priyankps2005 @priyankps2005 (535) • India 11 Jul 08

Hey Guyz, I am little bit confused about my life.Plz help me out.What is the best way to live our life?? I need your help.. Thank you

life

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raina21 Hi there I didn't get your question completely.What is it that you want help for.What's the problem.Seeing your age I think u must be studuing so what is it thats bothering u

11 Jul 08

How old is the oldest text message in your cell phone?...

aseretdd @aseretdd (13730) • Philippines 10 Jul 08

The oldest text message stored in my cell phone is more than three years old... i was sent by a friend welcoming me back to the Philippines... after 2 years of working abroad... i don't have the heart to delete it... since it...

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raina21 The oldest text msg in my cell is the one received in Jan 2007.It was by my cousin caongratulating me on my getting really gud marks in my exams.It has so many feelings attached to it that I dnt wanna delete it.I usually dnt delete msgs unless there is no...

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Do you still use tape for listening?

ifglan @ifglan (1152) • China 10 Jul 08

Hi,friends,today i'm cleaning up my room,and i threw away so many things,some of them are useless,but some can still be used again,for example,the tapes and the recorder,i remember,when i was a high scholl student,i bought them...

english lessons

tape

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raina21 Ya I do listen to some old tapes,these have very old songs and I like them very much.Dnt knw whether these are available in cds now but I do have a collection of some very gud songs.

11 Jul 08

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what is ur dreaming place?

rochakrs @rochakrs (36) • India 10 Jul 08

hi......all of us have some dreams which we want to fulfil .i share my dream with you.i wnt to spent a whole day on miami beach with my girlfriend and follows with a beutful dinner in moonlight on beach with a bottle of shampiean...

dream

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raina21 Hey u are a very romantic personI guess. Me too would like to do the same things with my bf. But first need to find him. you are lucky that u have got one such person in ur life. Enjoy

10 Jul 08

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What is one thing that enjoy most???

alcazar @alcazar (761) • India 2 Jul 08

I have a hobby of catching fish and m always up for it...so i never forget to go for fishing when i have a holiday...that is onething i enjoy most and will continue till i am dead????What is that one thing for you????

fishing

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raina21 The one thing that i enjoy most in life is music.I feel so much relaxed when I listen to it.So whenever I'm free I just put on some good songs at a loud volume so that I can listen to it and nothing disturbs me.

3 Jul 08

What are your feelings about a married couple in love but not sleeping together?

CharRay7 @CharRay7 (1549) • United States 3 Jul 08

Hi, I've been married to my hubby for 9 years now and yes we still love each other. For the past 7 years, we've slept in separate rooms, in separate beds. Reasons: 1. he likes it warm, I like it cool 2. he snores and I'm...

cpap

love

marriage

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raina21 Well thats strange and I've not anything about this before.If u are comfortablesleeping together its ok but then u say u love each other.I think when u are in love u can compromise on these small little problems instead of not sleeping together.This is my...

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Mylotters feel like family

ketybhagat @ketybhagat (4123) • India 2 Jul 08

I am so glad I joined mylotting and believe me, when I say that all the mylotters feel like family to me. I dont know any one of you presonally, but the bond is very strong. When we are sad and distressed, we have each other to...

bond

family

mylotters

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raina21 Yes I also feel the same about mylot.Whenever I've a problem I'm here to discuss baout it.Its really great.I'm also very happy to join mylot.

3 Jul 08

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Do You Have Any Tips On How to Lose Weight ?

eihdra @eihdra (3115) • Philippines 1 Jul 08

I'm not so fat but I need to lose a little more. I honestly hate exercising even If i'd do it at home. I want to lose weight the natural way and not take any pills or be on a crash diet.. What do you do to lose weight...

lose weight

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raina21 had i known this i would have done it for myself.I'm also fat and I too have tha same problem.Hope ur discussion helps me too.

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which shift do you work in?

knightrider @knightrider (1083) • India 30 Jun 08

i always work in day shifts startiong from either 9-5 or 10-6, but i pity the people whu hae to take more than one shift ,especially the night shift, how can they catch up on the sleep, and manage their body to the rchanging...

shift

time

work

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raina21 Ya i also do the same.I can completely understand the problems of working in odd shifts as my brother also does the same.His schedule is very tight and its very strange when he sleeps the whole day and then when we are going to sleep he goes to work.It is...

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