ranji2008

@ranji2008 (53)

India • Age 62

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Love develops; it does not happen. Or, is it different for men and women?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 1 Jun 10

What are your views? [We have to exclude parental love from the discussion] Of course many of you may have contrary interesting stories to share. I am looking forward to hearing them.

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ranji2008 Well, I believe that love is a natural process.Usually natural processess are slow and undiscernable.Take for example a flower forms slowly and can't be seen growing. Similarly we cannot see the plants growing. Process is different from a phenomenon. Natural...

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Window shopping-----is it typical of females?

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 22 Oct 09

I went out yesterday to a famous shopping area.This place is renowned for the umpteen things avilable and also for the exorbitant prices.It has evolved a reputation too that we have to bargain , quoting half the price that the...

female characteristic

window shopping

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ranji2008 I dont think that window shopping is a female charecteristic. However the items that attracts men are different. I have noticed several men including myself doing this and wondering when we will het enough disposable incomne to get those things!However since...

24 Oct 09

Global economy

sudasre @sudasre (141) • Canada 24 Apr 09

Do you think Obama's rules and changes in economy in america will strongly affect in global economy. In future it is going to be benefit for people or not? what do you think? what is your opinion about Obama's rules and changes....

america

global economy

obama

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ranji2008 well, Sudasre, dont you think it is more out of compulsions in the current scenario of recession that president Obama has made these changes ? Again the economic position across the globe has changed considerably in the last few years and china has emerged as...

28 Apr 09

Are your office mate friendly???

dhalev78 @dhalev78 (104) • Philippines 20 Aug 08

We meet different people so often. Some are good and some are bad... but it is regretful that who ever your office mates are, they're the one who make you feel bad all the time... Are your office mates friendly???

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ranji2008 well yes and no.That is , I find it difficult to be too close to an ambitious fellow in the office.He/she may be looking for his/her next prey for his never ending passion for career advancement. On the other hand it is a pleasure to spend time with a office...

20 Aug 08

How do you manage your temper?

m18j7crystal @m18j7crystal (184) 15 Aug 08

Mind if you share with me how you get to manage your temper?

temper

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ranji2008 well, i often think about the root cause for the anger inducing situation and not the immediate cause. some times I end up in laughing and sometimes smiling and rarely frowning.The real problem arises when i forget to think.By training one can condition not to...

16 Aug 08

Do you have birds in your compound? Sparrows after the rain!!!!

kalav56 @kalav56 (11464) • India 19 Jun 08

We have a few birds in our compound and it is a pleasure to hear them chirp and twitter right in the mornings. The sound gets sweeter to the ears and the whole compound is a feast to the eyes after a spell of rain . Last week we...

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ranji2008 well, it is nice to hear and see the birds in the morning.you are really blessed to have the experience. one thing I have noticed is that we are able to hear the tiny voices(not loud chirpings) only when we are serene and have an ear to hear them.In other...

20 Jun 08

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Why I always end up being loser in life?

subha12 @subha12 (18441) • India 9 Jun 08

Is it just the fate? or something I am destined to? However i try it hard to look at the life positively, i never can do so. At the end I end up being a loser. Recently there were so many things taht bugging me. Its office,...

loser

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ranji2008 well. Let me tell u first that there is nothing wrong in ending up a loser.Losing is a part of life.sometimes losing is enjoyable too.For example when I play chess with my daughter I always ends up as loser. But it gives me immense pleasure to lose to...

10 Jun 08

What has the power to truly transform us?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 24 Apr 08

That seems to be the question for our time. In my work as I photojournalist and spiritual seeker I have come to accept that often raising the right questions...our own...real, deep-down, burning questions are as important...if not...

transformation and what contributes to it

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ranji2008 well I can add only to what you have said because I agree with your views.Personally I have been most influenced by experiences. I have noted that human beings are endowed with sixth sense instictively to KNOW. Once I went to hear a great seer talk.I had some...

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suicide

underdogtoo @underdogtoo (9579) • Philippines 22 Apr 08

Have you ever come to a point in your life when you considered suicide? I have, and I seriously considered it as an option. So I sat and thought about it for a long time and when I came out of that meditation I realized that it...

life

life options

suicide

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ranji2008 Well, where does one go after death ?Probably to the state in which one was before one was concieved.Also the life on earth is only for a limited period.Now consider a fruit ripening. If it is done naturally it will be really sweet. If artificial means are...

22 Apr 08

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Have you come across such situation.....????

eshaan @eshaan (6188) • India 29 Mar 08

Knowing that u and the other person...do not match by age or social background...or any reason...but still you couldn't resist..going close to him/her....and you cross all the boundries to win him/her...a kind of dream...

love n life

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ranji2008 i have not come across such a situation .However i can imagine it and also understand that it can happen to any body any day.Now if both the partners are adults knowing their mind I would say GO AHEAD BY ALL MEANS!!

29 Mar 08

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Who is a real friend?

maasha25 @maasha25 (108) • India 23 Mar 08

Who is a real and true friend?

friend

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ranji2008 from my experience, a true friend is someone you know involuntarily that he or she is a true friend.Usually we pick up very few true friends during our course of life..The elements of love, compassion, understanding, mutual respect and admiration, tolerence...

27 Mar 08

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i've just turned 28 and i'm still single!!

nikkiwith @nikkiwith (1074) • Australia 14 Mar 08

Don't get me wrong, i know you have to be happy within YOURSELF before you can be happy WITH someone. I am not really happy with myself and where i'm at today, but i plan to change that, which i am doing step by step.......but i...

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ranji2008 Relationships should grow spontaneously.I think one need not try to make it. However it is important to make favorable circumstances to build a good relationship.It is just like watering a plant. And you are too young to be much concerned and see it as a...

14 Mar 08

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Allowing women to Ayyappan temple in Kerala- India

subathra @subathra (3519) • India 10 Feb 08

Leaders in India speak openly women should get everything men get in this world. But it appears its in the mouth and in black and white. Practically speaking women are unfortunate crowd because even they are not permitted to enter...

equality for women

womens right

worshipping places

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ranji2008 I think it has nothing to do with faith.It was a temple in the midst of thick forest in old days.Young women going there would face problems. also even today, the crowding at the temple is so suffocating that I my self, a male is apprehensive to undertake the...

5 Mar 08

In Mylot Land...Does Age Matter to You?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 25 Feb 08

Hi to all...have been busy with work and home projects...and am doing my best to catch up on responses as I go. Anyway, I am signing off shortly and will be back tomorrow when I question popped into my mind...and it prompted this...

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ranji2008 when you become older, age barriers become thinner. However I will feel a little uneasy if i come to know that a friend is not giving correct information about age.The feeling has nothing to do with age but about altering or supressing a fact .

26 Feb 08

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Joy---what is it...do you have it?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 19 Feb 08

It is rather amazing to me that many notable thinkers have focused only on the transience of joy...and how difficult it can be to find...and even harder to hold on to. With that in mind I wondered how many of you define joy...and...

mother daughter

richard wagner

wagner

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ranji2008 Hi Raia, You r right as far as I understood. I would like to add that I am joyful when I have a sense of freedom .It does not matter whether I am in office or at home or alone or with dear ones.I should feel free and breathe easily. ranji

20 Feb 08

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What do you do to show/tell others you love them?

Coralie Raia Darsey-Malloy @Perspectives (7131) • Canada 17 Jan 08

Love is one of my favorite topics and after recently having to put a beloved pet down I have been thinking a lot about it these days and that led me to pondering about how Mylotters show their love to others...because I sure feel...

love

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ranji2008 Hi Perspectives, I think one can learn a lot from the way dogs express their love for us without saying a word ! ranji

8 Feb 08

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