raynejasper

@raynejasper (2322)

Philippines • Age 40

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I'm married and I want your Suggestion..

sweetychandu7 @sweetychandu7 (1120) • India 9 Apr 13

Hello..Recently I got married to a beautiful and wonderful woman. We are so happy and evreything is going good as of now by GOD's grace. We are planning to shift different city which is big due to my job. so, I want your valuable...

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raynejasper hi. Just be yourself and always keep the fire burning. Never have any expectations because your partner can't be compared to anybody else. Open communication is also needed. No one is better than the other or no one is superior over another when it comes to...

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Brian Villoria lost his title belt to Juan Franciso Estrada

cobalt20 @cobalt20 (1318) • Philippines 9 Apr 13

Last saturday, Brian Villoria lost his WBO title belt to Juan Franciso Estrada. It was 12 rounds. Villoria underestimated the young Mexican. The streak was ended and he wants a rematch from Estrad. What do you think of this...

boxing sports

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raynejasper Wew! That's the problem when people become very sure of themselves and underestimate their opponents. That happened so many times and the one who's been very assuming got defeated. I hope other boxers will really learn from this so that this won't happen...

9 Apr 13

search engine bonus

kixsh101 @kixsh101 (2105) • Philippines 7 Apr 13

I never thoUGht that I'd get paid using the search engine. I really surprised me and yes I am happy for it. AMAZING! Have you guys tried it? I guess I will ne doing it more often.

bonus

reward

surprise

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raynejasper oh yeah! I tried it so many times and my highest payment was like $.20 so its very nice. We can post many threads here but we can't earn that much in discussions. So if I have researches to make, I use the mylot search engine.

9 Apr 13

med school or not?

kixsh101 @kixsh101 (2105) • Philippines 8 Apr 13

To be a physician is my dream. But now that I have a sponsor for me to get enrolled, I my determination had lessen. Maybe I am just afraid of the pressure or maybe I'm already pressured. Knowing that if I enter med school there...

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raynejasper Hi. You need to think a lot before getting yourself enrolled in the med school. It is best if you reassess yourself and list down what you really want to do for the rest of your life. Getting a course doesn't end there. After graduating, you need to look for a...

9 Apr 13

watermelon

kixsh101 @kixsh101 (2105) • Philippines 8 Apr 13

I love watermelons, specially when it's cold. I also love watermelon shakes it is so nutrious and refreshing. This is a good summer treat. A refreshing fruit and drink. Agree?

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raynejasper totally agree! I love watermelons. Every time i got a chance to eat one, I really eat as much as i can. Summer is hot and its very timely to stock up watermelon in the refrigerator. Its more refreshing when its cold.

9 Apr 13

Is carpet is good choice in place of tiles for new home?

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 6 Apr 13

On my besides my husband's cousin brother home is making but they says they want to put carpet in place of tiles. Because their budget is low and they feel after two to three years they can change it then may be put tiles. But we...

carpet

tiles

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raynejasper I'd prefer tiles because the carpet can accumulate dust which is not good especially if they will be having a baby. And its harder to clean because you will need a dry cleaner or vacuum cleaner. Carpet maybe cheaper but it doesn't last long. They will have to...

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Propensity for Goodness....

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 6 Apr 13

Through all the tyrants,dictators, bullies and hate, we all want Goodness. It's so easy to focus on the bad or evil choices, however that is not who society is. Throughout time,mankind has fought for Freedom, Rights, Justice, and...

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raynejasper you are right. What is sad in some churches is, when someone commits a mistake, they look at him/her as a sinner and sometimes, they even label them with names which is not suppose to be. In my opinion, it would be better to accommodate and embrace those whom...

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Tendency to be indolent

yengnimcdo @yengnimcdo (217) • Philippines 6 Apr 13

Do you think jose rizal is right about the indolence of filipinos? He said that filipinos has the tendency to be indolent because of the hot weather in the philippines? Is he right or wrong?

filipino

indolence

jose rizal

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raynejasper Maybe Jose Rizal has some point. We could also attest to that because when the weather goes hot, people prefer to stay indoors or better yet sleep because we become so sleepy when its hot. Although the indolence doesn't necessarily refer to all of us...

6 Apr 13

Withdraw from Paypal to Philippine bank account

whitneysquirrel @whitneysquirrel (224) • Philippines 6 Apr 13

I have only tried this with the Unionbank EON card years ago and with Banco de Oro. They withheld a bank fee of 200 pesos per transaction. They also use a lower dollar to peso exchange rate. Does anybody know a reliable way to...

paypal

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raynejasper hi. It's a rule. When you send money to any account from another currency or even if it is Peso, the band still charges service fees. I think there's no other way to get as higher amount in paypal unless you reach above $50 because as the amount goes higher,...

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…easy questions only.

jeanneyvonne @jeanneyvonne (5501) • Philippines 2 Apr 13

…easy questions only. I got invited to be one of the panelists on a high school paper. Students are the ones who get to pick on their panelists and they chose me on pure association. I was quite an experience for me since it...

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raynejasper whoah! writing a paper is really hard. When we were doing our paper, we have so many sleepless nights and fasting days. Then during the defense, we were again having doubts and we feel very nervous thinking about the possible questions the panel will be...

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is employing a realtive ever easy?

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 3 Apr 13

i was talking with my aunt and she is very upset that she is now being bad mouthed because a relative she employed went around telling people she exploits him and all that because he wanted to be favoured more than the other...

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raynejasper What? So bad. That is the disadvantage of employing a relative who did not undergo the due process of selecting employees. Anyway, let your aunt talk to that relative of yours to stop bad mouthing her or else, she will fire him or maybe she can give him more...

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which religion for my kid?

bryanwmc @bryanwmc (1051) • Malaysia 3 Apr 13

here is a dilemma .. my wife is a free thinker , no religion not spirituality , as for me , i am on the fence still although leaning more on towards christianity except i still have some issues. but mainly ,my worry is my 12 year...

religion

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raynejasper hi. My dad started to bring me to church when I was 4 so I think that 12 is not really too early. It's fine because your kid is starting to understand things. Maybe, for now, you can just let her tag along with you and you can also let her go with your bro or...

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Do you believe love means sacrify?

sonusd @sonusd (1547) • India 31 Mar 13

Some people says love means sacrifice, but I do not believe in this phrase. If I sacrifice then what I got ? Although we should not expect but practically if we do not get love in return then why should we love some one? is it...

sacrify in love

true love

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raynejasper hi! for me, yes. There are times when you need to sacrifice the one you love. Like for instance, you fell in love with someone who is already committed to somebody else, it would be best to love the person without expecting something in return, because you...

3 Apr 13

bravest people

irahness @irahness (25) • Philippines 18 Mar 13

I had a sleepless night yesterday, because once again a member of my family, a brother actually is going abroad, for the reason that has been time and again the reason of every overseas worker, "to find a greener pasture." We were...

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raynejasper True. Right now, I've also decided to apply for overseas. It wouldn't be easy because I'll be leaving my daughter. It takes a lot of courage and emotional strength to take another journey.

18 Mar 13

We had a terrible fight this evening

scorpiobabes @scorpiobabes (7225) • United States 14 Mar 13

It started over the electric bill. We got a really high bill-and the electric company is threatening us. The bill climbed to over $800 (the new supplier was even higher than the last one!), so the electric company demanded $310.31...

depressed over being unemployed

depressed over high bills

feeling taking advantage of

fights over money

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raynejasper That's awful. How did you incur such very high bills? I think your responsibility and his were not defined. I mean, you did not really talk about who will pay this and who will pay that. In a relationship, things can really happen that way but a calm mind and...

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My 2 year old son is a spongebob addict

Jemwel @jembizz21 (71) • Philippines 14 Mar 13

Good Day everyone, i have a 2 year old boy and it seems that he is addicted to spongebob movies. When he wake up in the morning he sat on the couch and asking me to turn the tv and the DVD player. He spends almost 2-3 hours just...

spongebob squarepants

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raynejasper Hi. We share the same sentiments. My 4 year old daughter also is very fond of spongebob and she always demands to watch whenever she has no class. If possible, I like her to watch other children films but she really chooses spongebob. The good thing is, there...

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what can't you accept in a relationship ?

Mintlin @Mintlin (322) • China 11 Mar 13

Hello, recently my friend asked me the question about what can't you accept in a relationship,here is a list: 1. bad temper 2. his/ her appearance is not pretty enough 3.we have nothing in common to talk 4.huge...

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raynejasper Hi. For me, I'd also chose the temper. That's one of the worst quality that's hard to manage or change. For the others in the list, there could be a remedy and they are not so much contributory to the relationship. You just need to accept the person as he/she...

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hurting the ones we love

cherigucchi @cherigucchi (14876) • Philippines 12 Mar 13

Have you ever hurt those people you love? How did they take it and how did you go about it? Many times whether it is intentional or not we cannot help taking the chance of hurting people around us and sometimes these people are...

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raynejasper Yeah, you are right. For me, I know I've hurt my father's feelings for the wrong decisions I made. Of course, I didn't do it intentionally because it was my personal decision. The thing is, I wasn't wise enough to see both sides of the coin before I made my...

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Addict chatters

Lhadycarra @Lhadycarra (54) • Philippines 11 Mar 13

Hmfft.. Yeah I'm kinda addict chatting with my friends, You don't believe that I am chatting 10 friends on FB while posting articles on bubblews. Why ? because chatting with them helps me to find a good topic. aha' you heard...

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raynejasper wow! you can really do that? how flexible. Maybe I can try that too but my connection isn't that good. It hungs so I have to off one. I could also make articles when I'm chatting with somebody because ideas can just pop up and I can write them. When its...

12 Mar 13

Working Hard When It Is Hard To Work

adforme @adforme (2114) 11 Mar 13

I have always thought that working is something to be done right. I know that people have good days and bad days at work. But, when the bad ones always outnumber the good ones, what do you do? The economy does not allow for people...

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raynejasper HI. I agree. When times are not good, our minds and heart doesn't go together. I mean, we lost our focus. What I usually do is read or just continue what I'm doing until I'm done. The thing is, I don't perform well when I am overcome with bad emotions although...

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