ReshVal

@ReshVal (24)

India • Age 44

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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whats the difference between man and woman?

rienglass @rienglass (248) • Singapore 1 Mar 07

i think the difference is woman is more sensitive than man.thats all.we are primarily the same

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ReshVal I have to disagree with you that woman are more sensitive than men. If it is physically like lame issues like being tickled yes it is true. But overall its not. Men too are very sensitive but since beginning of society rules men are not allowed to express...

1 Mar 07

My daughter is leaving

angelfromtheheavens @angelfromtheheavens (5) • United States 1 Mar 07

My daughter is graduating this year and she's leaving right away. i'm having a hard time with this. She's even talking about leaving before she graduates. I keep telling her that i'll take everything a way from her if she leaves,...

parenting

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ReshVal It's difficult for any parent and especially a mother to let go of her daughter more than a son even considering differences in culture. But if she really wants to go and there is nothing you can stop her from why don't you just help her out figure out the...

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Defintion of "TRUE LOVE"??? Is there such a thing?

tanya4367 @tanya4367 (15) • Philippines 1 Mar 07

I love to read a lot since I started reading... But up until now I'm still confuse & wondering how & when will I actually know if it's already True Love that I'm experiencing or had experience4d for as far as I'm concern, I've...

emotional hazards

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ReshVal There is 'true love'. But don't confuse it with it only being towards a partner or lover. But since I know in what regard you are asking I'll tell you what my version is. I think that true love is more than just the experience lust, affection, talk, silence...

1 Mar 07

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What do u think about working in Night Shift's?

pleasant @pleasant (2) • India 26 Feb 07

Now a days in big cities due to the invading of MNC,people are made to work in nite shift. what do u think about it,how it affects the health?

all shud respond

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ReshVal If you are going to be working in a night shift for a couple of years I don't think it would screw up your health as the popular belief. One needs to plan one's sleep schedule, daily lifestyle, most importantly the diet and exercise. I do not word at an MNC...

28 Feb 07

I am the worst parent ever!!!

moonmagick @moonmagick (1458) • United States 28 Feb 07

My baby rolled off the couch while I was changing his diaper a little while ago. He didnt hurt himself, got more scared than anything. But I felt so terrible. He has recently learned to crawl and is constantly bouncing all over...

baby

fall

wiggle

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ReshVal I can certainly understand how much you must be feeling. Though I have no kids of my own, I have my nieces living with me. Though they are much older than your baby son(7 & 3) everytime they get hurt I feel so terrible as an aunt that I couldn't do anything...

28 Feb 07

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Banana and weight gain

kritipen @kritipen (4082) • United States 22 Feb 07

Some of my friends dont eat the banana because they say that people put on weight if they eat bananas. But i feel that it is a wholesome food and it is better to workout than avoid a fruit altogether. Do you eat banana or avoid...

banana

weight gain

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ReshVal I used to avoid it because many of my friends told me it increases weight. But then I consulted my physician and did some reading on the major benefits of bananas and how you can definitely avoid the weight issue. Bananas known for its wide benefits and low...

22 Feb 07

Are you looking for meditation music

mansha @mansha (6298) • India 7 Feb 07

I have actually tried one Soundtrack that is really good and its demo version can be rquested from the site so I have become its affilate because its genuine and worth it. Its availabe through my profile. its really effective and...

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ReshVal I use these: OM cd. Just the chanting of the word with some soft background music for an hour. Osho meditation series. from intuition to silence many available cheaply in the market too.

19 Feb 07

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Are they supposed to be the answer for good health?

SridharNadamuni @SridharNadamuni (7) • Canada 5 Feb 07

How many eggs a day is good, better or best for health and for what ages or weight categories and health conditions? Can you do without them?

eggs

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ReshVal try looking around the internet for sites that give your the needed amount for your body and age. spark is a good place to try at. eggs have been proven to be good. firstly they are the cheapest form of protein in the market today.leaving the yolks aside the...

19 Feb 07

Drug Abuse

lilttownmommie @lilttownmommie (1473) • United States 6 Jan 07

Do you beleive that drug abuse can be over come? Is someone who over comes their addiction always going to be a recovering addict? Do you feel that rehab is absolutey necessary for someone to over come any addiction or can some...

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ReshVal Yes it can. I have been abusing all sorts of drugs ever since 94. Therapy works best for those with poor mind control or motivation. A bit of medication for stop the craving and withdrawal symptoms does wonder too. But the best is family and friends support....

19 Feb 07

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who's suffering from insomnia here?

angeleyez6 @angeleyez6 (75) • Philippines 10 Feb 07

I do. I hate it when I can't sleep at night. It just make my eyebags and dark circles more visible huhuhuhu..any advice what to do?

insomnia

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ReshVal I do too. Here's what you could do: drink a glass of warm milk either with honey or some grated nutmeg. Be careful with the amount of nutmeg though. Try half a teaspoon of it at first. Since it depends on how much your body can take. It has health benefits...

19 Feb 07

god

sam456 @sam456 (519) • Romania 19 Feb 07

do you belive in god?

do you belive in god

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ReshVal Everyone has their own view of what or who god is right? Since it is all based on their beliefs. But to me it is just a word. What is god for me might not be god for you. My belief is that god is just another universal word for energy. Everything is related...

19 Feb 07

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what should be better for my mom?

Summer1987 @Summer1987 (97) • China 18 Feb 07

I'm going to buy a gift for my mom. I'm going back to school at this end of month and will can't see my mom for 5 months,and she's very upset on this. I love my mom,but dont know what to buy for her to comfort her, please, give me...

gift

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ReshVal The fact that she is upset because she won't be seeing you for the next 5 months, get her something that reminds her of you. Or better still treat your mom like how you would treat a long distance partner. Write her notes every night you spend away and mail...

19 Feb 07

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Something Special for My Mom

777330975 @777330975 (331) • Sri Lanka 19 Feb 07

My Mom will turn 52 next month. She even looks after my kids most of the time. I want to get/ gift something special to her... Any ideas people????

daughter

mother

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ReshVal you could try getting her a day just to relax by herself. do her own thing. a voucher at a spa, health club you know something of that sort. a body massage maybe.pamper her the way she pampered you and your kids. maybe you could give her a good massage, take...

19 Feb 07

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i m worried

manjrekar @manjrekar (25) • India 19 Feb 07

I love my parents alot..but since my childhood I had a problem..I am never able to share any of my problems with them.And now when I am going through a bad phase of my life I am really feeling very lonely and insecure..I want to...

daughter

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ReshVal Same has been the case with me. Till date I am not close to anyone and have never cried in anyone's arms. What you could do is when you reach the peak moment when you know you are going to burst out just get into their room for something. Maybe like using...

19 Feb 07

What kind of brand do you prefer for notebook?

ekwits @ekwits (510) • Thailand 19 Feb 07

HP, Toshiba, Sony, or MAC? I'm using Compaq notebook which is same brand as HP. And you guys? Thanks for response my discussion. =)

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ReshVal I just got myself a Toshiba Satellite L100 for a good deal. Toshiba is known for its quality and customer service around the world. Apple and Sony being the best in the market from service to features to looks leads Toshiba. But apple uses mac which doesn't...

19 Feb 07

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Suggestions needed..

enchantedleppard @enchantedleppard (1541) • United States 18 Feb 07

I'm running out of books to read and I know there are tons of new ones out. I love historical romance and true life stuff.. Luanne Rice, Janet Evanovich, loved the 2 books by James Frey about drug addiction. Me & Emma, Don Piper,...

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ReshVal Some books based on true life stories: Mister god this is anna based in Ireland about a small girl who gets adopted in a family and teaches more to them than what they could teach her. Zen and the art of motorcycle maintenance(philosophy) Good book in the...

19 Feb 07

Are newspapers and magazines a dying medium?

lena2000 @lena2000 (2392) • Belgium 19 Feb 07

This day and age, the internet is able to deliver information far faster than any newspaper or magazine. Have these forms of print media lost their appeal? Are they a waste of paper and resources that contribute negatively to the...

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ReshVal They might have lost their appeal if you compare it to the internet. But how many people around the world actually have access to the internet or even a computer? There is still alot of time (maybe) before the paper world dies off. But I doubt many of us...

19 Feb 07

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No time to read...

vivasuzi @vivasuzi (4127) • United States 18 Feb 07

Have you ever started a book, then completely lost interest in reading it half way through? I'm reading this book, which is just OK, and I do want to finish it... but I just don't even feel like picking it up anymore! I can't...

reading

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ReshVal Though I love reading as it is my greatest hobby I still manage to not read half the books I already have and yet buy more. I sometimes only manage to get done with the cover of the book! But here's the deal: Why don't you give yourself a time frame? Depending...

19 Feb 07