rmacalalad68

@rmacalalad68 (97)

Age 56

Joined myLot 12 years ago

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What Do You Want To Do?

adforme @adforme (2114) 20 Feb 13

The job market is one in which people not only go to work; they also shop. What kind of job do you want? Do you consider salary, job description, or availability? Maybe a little of everything. There is a lot to consider before one...

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rmacalalad68 Job security is a thing of the past. You are only as good as your last performance. While the the statement appears to be negative, it is only to an employee who is more concerned of his Job security than his job qualifications. Most often that not, these are...

21 Feb 13

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living in extreme poverty

pomwango @pomwango (1353) • Kenya 20 Feb 13

we should thank God for what we have because there are people who live a very bad life due to poverty.there is a family living near our upcountry home.they have built a small mud hut with the roof made of thatched grass.in this...

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rmacalalad68 Yes. In fact I have seen poverty in most awful cases, thus, I have no reasons to whine. No rationale, even the most valid ones, could ever justify my tantrums in life. We must bring to a standstill the habit of counting our blessings based on the material...

21 Feb 13

Extended mall hours for the holidays

courtknee525 @courtknee525 (3742) • United States 5 Dec 12

Yesterday I found out from one of my managers that the for 2 weeks the mall will have extended holiday hours. Normally, the mall closes at 9:30 but for the holidays the mall will close at 11. I was completely shocked to find that...

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rmacalalad68 It seems to me that your extended working hours is mandatory and that you have no choice but to work. But then and again, the choice to be happy is yours to make and not anyone else's. Choosing to be happy at work doesn't mean you agree with the required...

5 Dec 12

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Online Market Place

mathewnuevo @mathewnuevo (129) • Philippines 4 Dec 12

Do you think it is better to buy products in a market place which products are owned by different people, or its better to buy to a company, because isn't it its more risky and may take long time just to verify you can have an...

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rmacalalad68 Buying from a company will reduce the chances of dealing with non-legit but this statement of mine should not discredit personally owned products sold in the market place. There are lot's of honest individuals in the market place with proper entrepreneur...

5 Dec 12

With time our relationship with our children changes...

kiran8 @kiran8 (15348) • Mangalore, India 5 Dec 12

I think this is part of life and many parents fail to realise that their children have become mature and thinking individuals and are able to make their own decisions.I know of a case where a mother is constantly complaining about...

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rmacalalad68 As parents, all we ever wanted is what's right for our children. I'm sure that the mother you mentioned here meant no harm but having said this doesn't mean that she must decide for her children when the latter are in the right ages to carry out their own...

5 Dec 12

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do you mind working on christmas ??

damanpreetsingh @damanpreetsingh (192) • India 5 Dec 12

we have received an e-mail that we would have to work even on christmas. and if we do not report to work on that day , we would be penalized , heavy deductions in salary. we work for american co. our co-workers in usa would not be...

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rmacalalad68 If everyone or at least 80%-90% of my colleagues, regardless of race, would work on Christmas then I won't mind. I guess the reason why your staff gets upset, aside from the fact that 30% in your office are Christians, is the fact that your co-workers in US...

5 Dec 12

i fall in love with a man who have married, how should i do?

xx598907296 @xx598907296 (178) • China 26 Nov 12

recently, due to the work, i make friend with one of my client. at first,everyday we have to communicate with the job,but later we can talk in personal matters. and in our free time,he invited me eating or walking or playing...

a man have married

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rmacalalad68 Not worth it. IT is best to get out of it while you can before it's too late. You will be a better person doing the right thing. Spend more time praying and learning the words of God so you will be enlightened.

26 Nov 12

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Reading some discussions I really feel Helpless and Hopeless

theSids @thesids (22180) • Bhubaneswar, India 27 Jun 11

Hi Lotters , Misery is spread all across the world and many of us suffer from something or the other sometime or the other. Now when at MyLot, I find a friend of mine, getting separated from his/her partner, on...

discussions about miseries

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rmacalalad68 Everyday we do encounter different situations. Some of them we know how to face in an instance while some would make us feel worried and sick. Some would even need the guidance of other people to make it through. I agree that in the virtual world, where...

15 Nov 12

looking for true love

kristian2012 @kristian2012 (84) 14 Nov 12

Since i was a kid. i only felt true love once. was seventeen then. unfortunately, i was to shy and timid to express my feelings to the girl i loved. until, one of my classmates became her boyfriend. now I'm 26, i saw them...

true love

waiting

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rmacalalad68 Don't look for it, it will come. Maybe you and the girl you once loved when you're 17 are really not meant to be. Think not of your age but continue to enjoy life. Go out with friends and new acquaintances. and when you meet someone, you'll know that it's true...

14 Nov 12

Will you accept to work in the holiday if the paid is better?

youless @youless (112586) • Guangzhou, China 13 Nov 12

Here the official companies will offer triple paid for the employees who have to work during the official holidays. Supposed you can get better paid during the holidays, will you accept to work in the holidays? I am reluctant to...

work

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rmacalalad68 It all depends on what the holiday means for you. Is it an opportunity to earn or an opportunity for family bonding. I myself won't. I would rather spend quality time with my family. we have 365 1/4 days every year and most of it is spent on working. Triple...

14 Nov 12

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Would you throw in the towel after many failure?

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 23 Sep 12

I am feeling to throw in the towel after many failures that I had gone through. I felt like that I am hopeless, and embarrassed after many tries and maybe I am not smart enough, or I was too afraid to try new things on my own....

failures

tries

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rmacalalad68 Don't throw in the white flag. Just retreat and plan a new. It would best help having a back-up plan B, C and even up to D. Always remember that no person ever succeeded by means of throwing in the towel. Colonel Sanders, sell his products to restaurants and...

14 Nov 12

How do you cope up with stress

grace147 @grace147 (223) • Philippines 13 Nov 12

We face variety of stressors everyday in our life. At times, stressors are external while most of it are internal. In my opinion, external stressors are avoidable and perhaps manageable but what makes it a "stressor" is how we...

stress

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rmacalalad68 Learn how to love stress so you can cope up with it. It's all about maintaining composure under pressure. If things don't turn out to be the way you want it to be, then why let yourself get bothered by it? Smile. At the end of the day if it really doesn't work...

13 Nov 12

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Did You Ever Use MyLot To Divert Your Attention To Something or to Someone?

rberon1985 @rberon1985 (5359) • Philippines 11 Nov 12

MyLot has always been my saviour especially when I am down and in trouble. In this place, I feel the existence of true and sincere people. When ever I am tired doing my daily job, I visit mylot and try to check some new post from...

divert

members

mylot

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rmacalalad68 It is really surprising how writing let go of your emotional sentiments. MyLot is indeed a good venue to let it all out.. I imagine MyLot as one true and sincere person because it embodies the experiences and emotions of every individual who is a member, thus,...

11 Nov 12

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Career move or stay with your current job? High pay or the people around you?

ferdsie @ferdsie (12) • Philippines 8 Nov 12

I am contemplating about changing job. I just want to know different opinion on this. Let's say you are in my situation. I am currently in job that has a low pay, but the people are around me are good, even the bosses. Been...

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rmacalalad68 Weight the benefits your are getting aside from the pay you are getting. There are companies who give lower salaries and wages but with unmatched benefits. What is your company's practice? If both your pay and benefits don't pay for your needs, then it's time...

9 Nov 12

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love

passion4fassion @passion4fassion (996) • Philippines 8 Nov 12

how to love? do you really know how to love? how can you tell that you know how to love? im just one of the other who got hurt by love but still know how to love loving is giving loving is accepting who the person you love is...

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rmacalalad68 Loving a person more than the love he or she can give you can turn out to a perfect love. Why? When you love a person more than the love he or she is capable of giving you, it is easier to forgive and forget when they are at fault. It requires a lot of love...

8 Nov 12

Long distance love affair...

iMamom @iMamom (321) • Philippines 7 Nov 12

I a filipina 26 years of age is in a relationship and currently engaged to a australian guy whos age 47. We have a 23 months old daughter (barely 2 yo). Before, i never thought of having a long distance relationship, it never...

longdistance relationship

love

loyalty

patience

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rmacalalad68 What an inspiring story. It takes two to Tango but it takes one to lead at a time. I myself believe that long distance love affairs do have chances of ending in a fairy tail mood after some rough starts. Keeping the lines of communication open brought your...

8 Nov 12

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what you think old music are better that new

passion4fassion @passion4fassion (996) • Philippines 7 Nov 12

now a days we only hears lots of heavy metals rocks n rap and few of them really cant understand what they trying to say just wondering what you think is better the old or the new music?

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rmacalalad68 I would rather say that most of the old musics are better than the new ones. They have better meanings and you can feel the emotions behind the lyrics and melodies. These are the reasons why old musics stay and continue to compete with the ballads of today....

7 Nov 12