ron0540

@ron0540 (30)

United States • Age 77

Joined myLot 16 years ago

Sometimes You Just Have to Stop, & Remember Whats Important

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Truth or a LIE?

daiweian06 @daiweian06 (1405) 10 Jul 11

When your partner can't stop lying on you. What does it mean? I thought that I'm wrong and must have to believe on what he is saying. But I discover that its a whole lie from the very beginning. I knew it that when he is...

relationship

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ron0540 For a relationship to exist, there must be TRUST. With what you have said about your "BOYfriend" I don't understand why you continue to believe you are in a relationship. If you are with someone who makes you so unhappy, Move on. If he does not care about the...

11 Jul 11

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I Need Some Women's Opinions

jambi462 @jambi462 (4576) • United States 23 Dec 08

How would you feel if your boyfriend asked you your opinion on having a threesome with one of your close friends? If you were sexually attracted to women and thought that your friend was attractive would you do it? I want to ask...

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ron0540 Are you really serious. The reason that you hesitate is not because you are afraid you will offend her, it is because you know that it is a stupid request. How about if she ask you to bring over your big stud male friend. You know, the one that is hung like a...

23 Dec 08

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If you have your own biological children, would you still adopt children?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 10 Dec 08

Not many people would want to adopt children if they have their own biological children but certainly there are reasons why some people does that. For me I love children and would want more children but was not able to get a green...

adopting

queen

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ron0540 Zandi458, How could it be wrong, at any level, to give a child, who otherwise has nothing or very little, a stable home and the love of a mother and the love shared within a family. You are an amazing person. I have learned just by reading your opinions and...

10 Dec 08

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Missing in Action Again

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 21 Nov 08

Time off. Take it from me. Being a house bound homemaker, my exposure to the world outside is almost nil at this point of time. From morning till dawn I am confine to the perimeters of my house compound, creating my own little...

cells

holiday

inactivity

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ron0540 Zandi458, You will be missed. I have come to respect your perspective on a wide variety of subjects. I hope you realize how smart you really are. You have a gift in your ability to communicate at several different levels. You have stimulated my brain several...

23 Nov 08

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Where to get a PS3?

celestos @celestos (814) • United States 19 Nov 08

I was looking into buying a PS3 and was wondering where would be the best place to get one. Financially I can only afford so much and I just cannot afford a $500.00 console. Any ideals,besides EBay. I have noticed on EBay there is...

console

ps3

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ron0540 In the USofA, the 80gig PS3 is selling everywhere for $399.00. That is with the blue-ray player which is really great, plays regular DVD's, plays PS3 games as well as PS2 games. I have had mine for about 6 months and its a really good game system.

19 Nov 08

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It is time to free ourselves from the shackles of racism

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 9 Nov 08

What happened in the US early last week where Senator Barack Obama rode a wave of voter discontent to win the race of the white house, defying all conventional pessimisms and hiccups is something we all can learn from. Obama tore...

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ron0540 Zandi458, You again impress me with your perception of life beyond your borders. The United States is a Nation much larger than most people realize. The white population is about 55% of the total population, while the balance is made up of about 14 Black, 15%...

11 Nov 08

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How Much or Less Time Do You Have for Yourself Everyday

mjmlagat @mjmlagat (3170) • Philippines 9 Oct 08

It's an awful reality for me to miss even an hour for myself everyday. It's all for work and its all for people around me. I'm not ranting or what but it's just ridiculously amazing to evaluate such kind of discovery!...

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ron0540 We are all different, but for me, I have always set time aside for myself. Not always the same time every day, but over the course of a week, I had to have enough time for just me. There were times that I was very selfish, and I did not give the time I should...

9 Oct 08

Where has all the milk of human kindness gone?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 9 Oct 08

What comes to my mind, and in truth what has been on my mind for quite a long time is this question of class and class distinction. The question of classes in public transport was emphasized even more than before. In planes, first...

treatment and payment

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ron0540 You bring up the most difficult subjects. And the subjects that must be discussed among the people of all communities, all corners of the world. Hospitals are reflective of society in general. There is so much that is wrong with the way we deal with the under...

9 Oct 08

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Why do people lie online?

celestos @celestos (814) • United States 8 Oct 08

I have noticed as I am sure other people have,how many people lie online when meeting people. Women are funny when they upload a magazine vixens picture and swear it is them, I have known people to do it lol. Men are funny doing...

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ron0540 Ya, you gotta think that these people are really unhappy with who they are. On the internet, people have gotten used to the 'avatar' life. Be what ever you think you want to be, when the best thing is to just be yourself. If your not happy with who you are,...

8 Oct 08

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My Student is 20 - Minute Late Again...For 3X Already!

mjmlagat @mjmlagat (3170) • Philippines 7 Oct 08

She is my only student in the subject, she did this before, twice already. I guess I have the right to be annoyed. The first time she did this, her excuse was the teacher in her previous subject was late in dismissing her class so...

student

tardiness

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ron0540 As a teacher, you have the right to expect your students give your class offering the same consideration and priority as any other of her classes. You gave the amount of consideration any student should expect. If she does not need your class, well, bye bye,...

7 Oct 08

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The favoured or the least favoured?

zandi458 @zandi458 (28102) • Malaysia 4 Oct 08

Growing up in a big family is not impossible to have favoured and unfavoured kids, and I was the latter all my life. When I was seven years old I was send away to a convent where they housed children from underpreviledged families...

childhood memory

unfavoured kid

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ron0540 Zandi458, you are an extremely interesting person. If the pic by your name is a pic of you, then like most of us, your self image is not the way most other people see you. Your pic is attractive, but your heart is being worn on your sleeve. When you say "most...

5 Oct 08

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Have people borrowed money from you and never payed you back?

pinkytabor @pinkytabor (818) • Philippines 4 Oct 08

How much was it? How do you feel when you think about it? Are you still trying to collect from them? I remember about two years ago someone borrowed about 2thousand dollars from us. It was actually not in bulk because it was for...

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ron0540 A couple of simple rules. Never lend money that you can't afford to never get back, ie. lending money is like gambling, don't gamble what you can't afford to loose. Friends that borrow money will probably not be friends for long.

5 Oct 08

ABORTION: Would you tell?!?

Avi_Gan @Avi_Gan (191) • Philippines 3 Oct 08

If you had an abortion when you were younger, would you tell the person, your currently with, say your fiance', even knowing that he is really conservative and totally against it? For the men, if you are totally against abortion,...

abortion

relationship

women

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ron0540 By the number of responses, we can see how important this discussion is. Speaking from a mans perspective, I would have to respect the wishes of the woman I'm with. I would hope that if she needed to talk to me about anything, I would be smart enough to...

5 Oct 08

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