sakurage123

@sakurage123 (77)

Philippines • Age 39

Joined myLot 12 years ago

"Keep away from people who try to belittle your ambitions, small people always do that, but the really great makes you feel that you too can become great." -Mar

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Long Distance Love Relationship

RickLynn @RickLynn (33) • Philippines 21 Dec 12

I am into long distance love relationship and my boyfriend and I faced so much hindrances and hardships. Being into a long distance love relationship is not that easy, so much to sacrifice and consider. He is from the USA and I am...

long distance love relationship

miles away relationships

overseas relationship

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sakurage123 Im into a long distance relationship.We've been chatting for almost a year and half.Sometimes we fought .But its part of love.One way to maintain long distance relationship is communication and trust with each other.

24 Dec 12

Are parents best teachers?

ardhidoank @ardhidoank (136) • Indonesia 1 Dec 12

Nowadays, some may hold the opinion that parents are the best teachers ever. but others have a negative attitude. As far as I am concerned, I agree with this statement because, obviously, the first teachers we have in our lives in...

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sakurage123 I completely agree that parents are the best teachers.Because they are the first teacher of their children.They give their children lessons at home to know the basics of life.

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Have you ever thought about prepared for the disaster

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 29 Nov 12

A friend of mine told me, her cousin was a paranoid, he would bought a bunch of stuff, like canned foods, and bag of rice in case of disaster. Sometimes, she would call him crazy, or paranoia. But when I thought about it, he might...

disaster

preparation

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sakurage123 I haven't experience preparing anything but its better to be prepared than not.It's not only that we have to prepare material things but we have to prepare ourselves to avoid panic.

30 Nov 12

How Can We Show God that We Don't Hate God?

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 29 Nov 12

I learned why G*d thinks we hate him last night. I enjoy Karaoke---getting up on a (little) stage and singing words displayed on a screen while backup-music plays. Duets especially. I go to one Karaoke-bar, and last night I...

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sakurage123 Every good action can glorify God.And following his commandments is a good example of not hating him.

30 Nov 12

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IS is ok accept clothes from which the owner is already dead

fearlessgara @fearlessgara (1113) • Philippines 30 Nov 12

My family member found a new job. And they required to wear jeans and shoes. and He don't have any jeans.Now one of my neighbor which is widow give him jeans,shirt and shoes from her late husband( just died almost 1 yr now). Is it...

clothes from the dead

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sakurage123 My father also has many clothes left after he died because its not allowed to let them bring too many clothes.My brothers used all his clothes because its still in good condition.For me, Its okay to wear those clothes because its a waste if we will just throw...

30 Nov 12

Learning english

lldrwin @lldrwin (187) • China 30 Nov 12

Hi friends, i am new comer from china. I want to improve ma english skills so that i can communicate with people freely.But , i suffer three major problems : First ,although i am able to read daily english ,it's difficult to me...

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sakurage123 I am really sorry to hear about your problem.I understand,Learning English is not an Easy task for non English speaker and also if your grammar structure is different from the standard English.I doubt if in your place your school use English as a medium of...

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Failure is not the end

GandharD @GandharD (148) • India 30 Nov 12

Many people, when they fail, just lose hopes after trying hard to achieve something . Failure is mans worst enemy. I too have failed tremendously , in my academic life. I lost all the hopes of my future and i thought that I should...

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sakurage123 When I was in college I failed in my class,I thought that was the end of my life.I did my best but its not enough.I cant really accept my failure that time.I was so nervous for my family because I knew they will get angry if they know.But when I told them...

30 Nov 12

Investing for our future together

cgicale @cgicale (137) • Philippines 29 Nov 12

Me and my boyfriend are already investing for out future. We are on our 4th year of our relationship now. We are both young, he's 24, I'm turning 23. Even if we are still young we are already investing for our future. We are...

business

future

relationship

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sakurage123 Really great to hear this from you.It's not easy to invest money nowadays especially for young people.It's really nice to save something for our future because not all the time that we are in good health .Me and my partner haven't start investing but were...

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Why does love have to be so hard on you?

cpan516 @cpan516 (2) 28 Nov 12

I really need some help with this. I'm really in a spot where I don't know which way to go.I love him but somedays he can be so mean. He's never physically hurt me but some of the things that are said just kills me. I don't know...

love is hard

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sakurage123 Maybe you misunderstood his words.Try to relax and ponder on everything that he say.I think if he really loves you ,he is willing to accept everything that you have. Dont get upset easily on some thing.It's not a good move.Focus more on your job and son.Always...

28 Nov 12

Will you judge an opinion by the speaker?

HuaZhao @HuaZhao (457) • China 27 Nov 12

I found that many people's words became very popular and were regarded as wisdom because the speakers were successful. Sometimes,the words may be said by other common people. But if we hear that from the ordinary people, we would...

judge words

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sakurage123 We are not perfect and Its hard to be judgmental. I usually pay attention to the topic and not judge easily by what the speakers said.I have to see to it that everything is good and I did not offend people.

28 Nov 12

children should be allowed to make mistakes

roshigo58 @roshigo58 (4859) • Pune, India 27 Nov 12

Parents and teachers are always expect perfection from the children.But very few children do the things perfectly. Children can not play,study or do anything without mistakes.They learn from the mistakes. Scolding,threshing or...

children should allowed to make mistakes

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sakurage123 As a teacher, I discipline children with love.I don't get angry easily if they got mistakes but I help them to correct it.Because , the more we get angry to them ,the more they will not learn.So, its better to give them good advice rather than scolding...

28 Nov 12

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Co - worker birthday, we give them a party at work

kingparker @kingparker (9673) • United States 27 Nov 12

A co - worker is birthday today, actually we are not so sure, since another co - worker kind of remember that is his birthday either yesterday or today. Anyway, a female co - worker made a cake for him, it was tiramisu, Italian...

birthday

party

workplace

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sakurage123 Hi Kingparker! hen I was working in school before we also give parties to our co workers and its really a fulfillment to make them happy.What you did is a great job...

28 Nov 12

I am ready for the Christmas...how about you?

betty1989 @betty1989 (751) • China 27 Nov 12

Chiristmas is coming. Every one will busy on decorating Christmas tree and prepare gifts for friends.I can feel that Christmas is really near. what a pity, I live in China and never have the chance to experience the real...

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sakurage123 Hello Betty! Christmas is a time for sharing and loving.You can do a lot of things aside from just decorating.You can share your blessings and love to other people.This is the best way to be happy.Have an Advance Merry Christmas..

28 Nov 12

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Small family vs large family

ctryhnny @ctryhnny (3460) • United States 27 Nov 12

I have a very small family just 3 kids and 4 grandkids. One of my daughters lives in California with her son, I have a daughter with 2 kids who lives about 4 towns over and I seldom see, and my son and his wife and baby live about...

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sakurage123 I belong in a big Family.We are 8 and I am the youngest.I am so blessed that I have a big Family.And I think its really good to have a big family bacause you can share many things and you can enjoy together .If you have a small family you have limited people...

28 Nov 12

Money, Money... all about money

mrsuniega @mrsuniega (786) • Philippines 28 Nov 12

Robert Kiyosaki has a point. "Money does not make you happy. But lack of money can cause you unhappiness." I say... Those who think that money is not important are in delusion. It is one of the best excuses cleverly created...

financial freedom

robert kiyosaki

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sakurage123 Not all the times that money can make us happy.But we need money in order to survive.And if we don't have money we can't be happy because we can't get our wants.I often heard of that word also many times and I think its a hearsay for many people because of...

28 Nov 12

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Bullying, good or bad?

TomDawg24 @TomDawg24 (79) • Philippines 28 Nov 12

People do experience this so called "bullying". Growing up in a community where people do notice a lot of things about you. Even the tiniest dirt, the smallest bad thing you said or do. But do their actions such as scolding you,...

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sakurage123 Hi! .In my case, I don't really care what people say as long as I know that I am right.It's really bad if its not true .and if that will happen to me I will not react as long as I'm sure of what I'm doing. because I know things happen for a reason.

28 Nov 12

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Do we have free will?

zstang777 @zstang777 (37) • United States 27 Nov 12

I have done some thinking lately about free will and I just want to hear other people's opinion. What do you think about free will? Do we have it or are we just stuck in an infinite chain of causation based on the events that...

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sakurage123 Everybody has a free will.We don't have to live each others expectation.we must stand in our own so that we will be happy.

28 Nov 12

Teacher Complained that my Grandson is Aggressive

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 27 Nov 12

I have really had a rough time with the twins since their mother left almost two weeks ago. She has phoned a few times and spoke to them and I hear them asking her when she is returning but she is evasive just saying 'soon'. Plus...

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sakurage123 I am a teacher for seven years.I knew how hard it is to teach children especially they are very impulsive.I understand the situation.I hope some teachers can understand also these kind of students.To deal with defiance and disobedience we must give more love...

28 Nov 12

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Going to bed early....

ctryhnny @ctryhnny (3460) • United States 27 Nov 12

I basically do nothing all day every day but spend time on my pc on mylot, fb or playing games. But the thing is I'm a smoker and if I stay up late I will chain smoke so I usually go to bed very early around 7 or 8 the latest. I...

bed

early

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sakurage123 Hi! I never go to bed early because I have many things to do plus I have to participate discussions here.I think going to bed early is very important to have good health.

28 Nov 12

She would loose her head if it wasnt attached

911Ricki @911Ricki (13588) • Canada 27 Nov 12

My sister is the most unorganized person, she tries to be perfect at everything, and to do multiple things such as jobs. She said the other day well if you can handle it, so can I (obviously not). She has been working 2 jobs...

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sakurage123 Hi! I hope you try to help your sister about being organize.And you try to find ways that he will change.It;s better to give good advice than criticisms.

28 Nov 12

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