serenity34

@serenity34 (26)

United States • Age 41

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Will you choose partners that are somewhat like your parents?

catcai @catcai (1056) • Philippines 30 Mar 07

I hope you guys don't find this post incestuous- i just wanted to know who among would like to have or not have realtionships with people who has the same qualities as your parents. For women, do you tend to choose to have...

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serenity34 To me I think whether you try to avoid it or not it's bound to happen in some way. They may not be exactly like your parentals but they may carry somewhat of the same characteristics. Like for me when I got with my husband I wasn't trying to match him up with...

30 Mar 07

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What Motivates You In Being a Wife

sebs89 @sebs89 (56) • Australia 28 Mar 07

Sometimes I feel so demotivated as a wife and then other times I feel on top of the world about being a wife. What motivates you being a wife?

being a wife how does that motivate you

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serenity34 I am like you sometimes I really enjoy while other times I think what did I get myself into lol. The thing that keeps me focus is God and that I made a vow to him to help this man out and to help him grow and mature as one. Sometimes you do get your moment's...

29 Mar 07

Which part of the year did you get married.

Evacuee @Evacuee (1147) 29 Mar 07

We got married in September because it was, in those days, the best time to get an income tax rebate...!! And did you know that in the very old days two centuries ago most people got married in June because they took their...

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serenity34 I couldn't even imagine taking a bath twice a year let alone living with someone with that B.O. Lol. My husband and I got married in May. I was still in school and I didn't want it to be extremely hot like in June or July. So we figured that May was a neautral...

29 Mar 07

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what child do u want to be born to you..?a girl or a boy..?

vivekasokan @vivekasokan (416) • India 28 Mar 07

if you r married and a child is to be born to you ..what will u expect a boy or a girl..?

bog

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serenity34 I want a girl first. For some reason for the last three years that's all my husband and I have dreams about is girls. Now my husband in the last few months has stated that he wants to be a boy first. I really want a girl and as long as they are healthy I would...

28 Mar 07

newly wedd

onlyourbunny @onlyourbunny (94) • United States 27 Mar 07

I just got married in october and my husband is so differnt now is that normal, he was so nice to me before we got married now all he likes to do is make me mad and laugh about he drives me crazy

my husband

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serenity34 Well you are newly weds and this marriage thing is still new to you. It's a life long journey that helps you both discover you and to help each other grow. It is statisticallly proven that women are mature then men and they normally don't peak until 27. So him...

28 Mar 07

Why is it so hard for some people to apologise?

saralee1 @saralee1 (1983) • United States 28 Mar 07

There are just certain people out there in the world, that can't admit they were wrong, even if they were, and when they DO realize it, they buy gifts to make up for it, yet still say nothing. why is this? Is being perfect...

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serenity34 It's simply pride. Some people are so ignorant and selfish to themselves that they think nothing is wrong with them. It's also lack of maturity. When you get to the point when you can step on toes, and only point the fingers at everyone else. Then you live on...

28 Mar 07

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How old were you when you went on your first date?

reaperz @reaperz (1266) • United States 15 Mar 07

How old were you when you went on your first date? Anything go wrong?

first dates

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serenity34 I was 17 when I went on my first dat that I would count. I had been to movie dates with my boyfriend when I was 15 and 16. But he was so cheap we always paid separately and we always resided at his house. But when I was 17 I went on a date with this guy who is...

28 Mar 07

Was your FIRST LOVE a success???When did it happen???

devildinesh @devildinesh (183) • India 26 Mar 07

My first love is at my school.I loved her sincerely but then i did not know she was in love with someone else.I bought her gifts and other stuffs (You know) and one day when i called her out she refused but she did not tell about...

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serenity34 I first fell in love in highscool when I was 15 to this young man. I guess I fell hard for him because I thought that he was way out of my league. I use to think that it was infactuation but I realized that I really loved him. We dated for about a year and...

28 Mar 07

Tell about your wedding plans? if you are already married tell about your day

CaroleeKaufold @CaroleeKaufold (1853) • United States 17 Mar 07

I love to listen to stories about Wedding days. Was it fun? Did everything go as planned? Did something happen to ruin it?

wedding plans

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serenity34 We got married almost 3 years ago. It was a big wedding. I loved making the plans and getting all dressed up. I wore a halter top dress and we got married on May 15th of 2004. I had 9 bridesmaids, 9 groom, 2 best men, and 2 maid of honors. The service was...

28 Mar 07

would you have married your partners if you knew all their qualities earlier?

eshaan @eshaan (6188) • India 28 Mar 07

Friends, Life goes on, u and ur partner living with each other, making adjustments accepting each other's good and bad qualities. But be truthful, would u have married him/her if u knew them as you know them today.

life partners

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serenity34 Honestly, when I got married I was 21. My husband and I had a long distance relationship for almost 4 years before we got married due to me being in school. So are relatioship consisted of lots of phone conversations, weekend visit as well as vacations in the...

28 Mar 07

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Husband talking to a Thirteen year old girl

princeworthy @princeworthy (1909) • United States 27 Mar 07

Please Don't Judge me because of this: Okay I can't keep this in any longer! Some of you may already know of this if you have visited my blog. My husband has been talking to a thirteen year old girl. She thinks and seems older...

cell phone number

husband

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serenity34 I agree with majority people that have responded. Not to say that your husband is doing something now but it just doesn't look like a good situation. At this point it can look innocence but later on turn into something that may or may not have been planned. It...

28 Mar 07

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Is it possible to have a happy relationship without arguments and fighting?

ESKARENA1 @ESKARENA1 (18261) 24 Mar 07

OK, lets face it we all fight, but is it possible to live together in a long-term committed relationship without fighting?

arguments

relations

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serenity34 I think that it's impossible to not have a argument. I think that it's unhealthy if it's on a day to day basis. Then I would question that potentional mate. I think that argumenets are merely caused when two people are stuck in there ways and both feel there...

27 Mar 07

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Proposed..?

koolraj_inlove @koolraj_inlove (842) • India 26 Mar 07

Had any one ever proposed you? or Have you ever proposed any one?

been in love

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serenity34 My husband proposed to me about 5 years ago. He made me mad first and I started crying and was taking all of his pictures down. Then he got me to go with him to this casino event that my school was having at this time. Some type of way he talked to security...

27 Mar 07

What are your spousal nicknames

Modestah @Modestah (11179) • United States 17 Mar 07

What are your spousal nicknames? That you are free to share? How long have you had the nicknames for each other. How did they come about? --------------------------------------------------- Bip or dear for dh I don't...

marriage

nicknames

terms of endearment

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serenity34 My husband calls me Meda. He has been calling me that for about 6 years now. My sister in law is puerto rican. So he asked her for a cute nickname and that's what she told him and he has been calling me that ever since. I call him Baba because when he was...

27 Mar 07

Was your wedding a affair to remember?

Connie1013 @Connie1013 (1098) • United States 24 Mar 07

Did you have the wedding of dreams or just get married? If you didn't have the wedding of your dreams, would you want to repeat your vows? Thanks to all who answer!

bride

groom

marriage

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serenity34 I had the weddings of my dreams. The only thing I didn't have was a honeymoon and that was because my in-laws were being difficult and failed to tell us a the last minute. That they would not be giving us a honeymoon and my husband was convince they would....

27 Mar 07

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Why do most people feel that marriage is a waste of time?

Justme2007 @Justme2007 (1848) • United States 26 Mar 07

Ok some people believe that if they are living with someone and have been doing so for 20-30 years and have had children with this person there is no need to get married, a lot of stars do this. Then if the woman has no job...

marriage

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serenity34 I think society has presented this image of high rate divorce and that it can simply be a waste of time. I know for some that I know it's just the convience of one day waking up and deciding if you dont want to be together all you have to do is change places....

26 Mar 07

do you LIKE YOUR RELATIVES??? what do you think about them??

nengs10 @nengs10 (3180) • Philippines 26 Mar 07

I like some of my relatives. Of course, you can't please everybody. I don't like those who have no interest either in going to school or let's say, looking for a job or even working perhaps. I think they're just wasting their...

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serenity34 I love my relatives! Even the ones that are very unique and special. I believe that family is a gift. Even when you are through unwrapping them. You might have to tear off some papers before you actually get to the gift that makes you happy! My family comes...

26 Mar 07

How old were you when you first got married?

bluemestizo @bluemestizo (429) • United States 22 Mar 07

I first got married very young at the age of 23. It didn't work out and I divorced last year. My ex-wife was prejudice to filipinos and physically abusive -- What are the odds of that? Therefore I've met a beautiful person in my...

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serenity34 When I got married I was 21. I got engaged when I was 19. If I had to do it all over again I would've totally wait and finish school at least and then get married. Plus we were so young and society's picture of "marriage" ist not what we expected. I tell all...

23 Mar 07