seriousmiss

@seriousmiss (39)

Canada • Age 47

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A 'free' slap in the face .. !!

patootie @patootie (3592) 17 Jan 07

I got a 'free' slap in the face this afternoon ... I'd decided to pop up to the local corner shop on my disability scooter .. there I was minding my own business choosing a loaf of bread .. I turned round and .. WHAMMO A...

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seriousmiss You are a very nice and humorous lady. Some people would not be so pleasant about the entire episode and it is nice to know that our next generation is still mannerly. But did he get the girl after all she should surely see what a wonderful young man he is...

18 Jan 07

what do they mean when they say it is "unconditional love"?

nishanity @nishanity (1650) • India 17 Jan 07

i always hear people saying that the love that our parents and relations have for us is unconditional love... i have never got their point till now... in what sense is their love unconditional? i mean they wont love if we werent...

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seriousmiss Unconditional love is simply the ability to love a person not just a family member, and that love does not stop or die and does not change depending on the mood the giver is in. The person receiving it will always have that love whether they are good or bad,...

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how do you get rid of stretchmarks?

joshdale08 @joshdale08 (2320) • Philippines 14 Jan 07

i mean, really erase them, once and for all? is surgery the only answer? i have an ugly one in my tummy left from my 3 pregnancies and i'd like to get rid of them.

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seriousmiss Lol get rid of stretch marks. The only way is very expensive laser surgery done in a dermatologist''s office. The procedures have to be done a number of times to work but then they are risks involved as well. If I may offer a little advice I treat mine as my...

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Can a Man and Women be Friends

Bytemi @Bytemi (1553) • United States 17 Jan 07

Can a man and women be friends and not have an expectation of anything else? Lets take this one step further, if the women is marriage and the friend is not, is the friendship allowed? I am one of the those weird women, I get...

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seriousmiss Platonic relationships are as important as intimate ones. There are things I would say or ask my male friends that I would not say to my husband. I too have more male friends than female because I hate drama and probably because I have two sisters and no...

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which hurts worse a hit in the face or the verbal and or mental abuse

sweetaspie52 @sweetaspie52 (2359) • United States 17 Jan 07

my x and I always fought over my kids he would always put them down and call the some real bad name while we were married...he never laid a hand on me ..but I find that the verbal abuse is worse than the physicalbecause a hit in...

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seriousmiss It is strange that you can see a difference in abuse as in which is worse. To me they are all equally bad because they all leave emotional scars that won't go away. They may retreat but if that trigger ever rears its head they come back like the drop of a...

18 Jan 07

I wish I knew how to help my sister.

AndreaM76 @AndreaM76 (1164) • United States 17 Jan 07

All I know to do is pray. She has been going back and forth between hr husband and one other man for the last year. She orignally left her husband after being together for years and she claimed he would be physcial with her. I...

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seriousmiss This may be tough to hear for you but the only person who can help your sister is herself. When she has reached rock bottom where she finally sees how low her life has become, then and only then will she make the concious decision to get up and ask for help...

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Different punisment ideas...time outs etc.

candygurl24 @candygurl24 (1880) • Canada 17 Jan 07

Hello all. I have a 4 year old and a 7 year old. My oldest isn't mouthy but HATES to clean up. I find myself repeating that I want the room cleaned sometimes 30 times. I've even tried to have a race..EG. Let's see who can clean...

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seriousmiss I have found with my seven year old son who like yours is not mouthy responds really well to earning his television, computer or games times after his usual half hour daily limit. This is not of all three but he chooses which one he wants to do each day If he...

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Donald, are you quite sure you've got this Thanksgiving thing right?

John Welford @indexer (4852) • Leicester, England 23 Nov 18

According to Donald Trump, the thing that most Americans have to be thankful about is the fact that he's the President! He has "made a tremendous difference" to the United States, apparently, which means that every mouthful of...

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seriousmiss According to Donald Trump, the thing that most Americans have to be thankful about is the fact that he's the President! He has "made a tremendous difference" to the United States, apparently, which means that every mouthful of turkey should be consumed with...

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am I being unfair??

mbs730 @mbs730 (2147) • Canada 6 Dec 06

Here is the situation. I HATE my mother in law. She is a horrible woman, very self centered and couldn't care less whether I live or die. She isn't even that devoted to my kids. She is the type that wants to impress others and...

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seriousmiss I am sorry to hear that you are unwell, then having to deal with the mother-in-law from hell as well. From personal experience mother in-laws can be a trip but the key in dealing with them is a strong partner that not only understands their committment to...

7 Dec 06

should parenting be 'licenced' - are some people unfit to have children?

rhinoboy @rhinoboy (2129) 6 Dec 06

There is a huge problem in my country (UK) with teenage pregnancies. Beyond that, there are thousands of people who live off state benefits and continue to have many many children. Many of these children ignore their education and...

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seriousmiss If you watch the news local or international the answer is yes. There are way too many people out there who are unfit to be parents but yet they are. How can you stop people from having children legally? That is a violation of their human rights. However...

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Teaching children RESPECT!!!

Stephanie5 @Stephanie5 (2946) • United States 5 Dec 06

Ever noticed that now-a-days children are SOOOOOOO disrespectful???? And I'm not very old either, but when I was a child if I would of spoke to my mother the way my kids speak to me, I would of gotten a couple teeth knocked...

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seriousmiss I am a mother of two small boys, believe me I understand how trying it can be to raise children in this time. I was raised in a very strict environment and because of that I know the pros and cons of that type of parenting. There are many ways to parent...

6 Dec 06