sexymeela

@sexymeela (14)

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Help!! My sister left her baby with me? what should I do?

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 16 Oct 10

Oh my God!! My sister just ran away home and left her baby with me!! We have been living together since she was pregnant until she bear the baby and now she ran away leaving her baby with me! I can't sleep well at night because i...

parenting

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sexymeela Calm down! And take a deep breath! Ok. Sometimes blessings come in unusual ways. It is unfortunate for you, the baby and even you sister that she abandoned her child that way but please always look at the positive side of things. I know that you didn't bargain...

17 Oct 10

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Given a difficult choice

3SnuggleBunnies @3SnuggleBunnies (16374) • United States 16 Oct 10

I was overhearing some ladies at the girl scout meeting a few days ago. I do not know the women very well so I did not comment on their discussion. But I did find one of them yesterday and inquired on their conversation. A local...

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sexymeela I think that everything happens for a reason. For those who want to go into that career field, go for it! For those who have been in that career for years, great! But sooner or later all things will come to an end. No need to stress. When one door closes...

16 Oct 10

Is it clever idea to bring your new born baby in public places?

insulin @insulin (2479) • Philippines 15 Oct 10

My mom told me that when I was still 1 month old,she never let me exposed to public places since she is scared that I maybe will get sick since baby still have not that strong protection for any viruses around because the immune...

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sexymeela It is not recommended by many to bring a newborn baby out of the house because of the newborn's weak immune system. It is at your own risk that you bring your newborn around a group of people but typically nothing happens. If you give birth the conventional...

15 Oct 10

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Your Honest Opinion, PLEASE.

ANTIQUELADY @ANTIQUELADY (36440) • United States 15 Oct 10

mANY OF U KNOW HOW MUCH I LOVE MY GRANDSON. I have made my son mad again about my never getting to keep him. I bet he is the only six year old ever that has never spent one night at his grandparents house.. my...

grandson

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sexymeela Of course, you have every right to be upset with your grandson being kept from you. Any proud grandparent would be but as a young and new parent you have to consider the reasons why your son may be keeping your grandchild from you. A lot of times the...

15 Oct 10

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If you would choose a partner what do you consider most BEAUTY or BRAIN ?

fhems2010 @fhems2010 (70) • Philippines 15 Oct 10

Please help me to decide on this very complicated on my mind. If what is the most important thing you are going to choose for a partner is it beauty or brain? I have been searching and asking to that to all my friends out there...

relationship

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sexymeela Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. What may be beautiful on the outside may not be beautiful on the inside. This is not something that is always important but in most cases it does count. Having beauty will take you far but having brains will take you even...

15 Oct 10

To tell or not to tell

sexymeela @sexymeela (14) 4 Sep 10

I am just wondering something for all you people out there in a serious relationship. If you had a secret, such as you cheating on your significant other, would you one day let them know? Let's say that you cheated on your...

secrets

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sexymeela I think you did the right thing but what would you have done if your relationship wasn't on the verge of break up? Would you still confess then or would you take it to the grave? What if your relationship was going well but you made a mistake by cheating on...

7 Sep 10

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To tell or not to tell

sexymeela @sexymeela (14) 4 Sep 10

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Money is precious no doubt but which one you prefer..!!!

earnnings @earnnings (1325) • India 4 Sep 10

Money is precious and has too much importance in ones life and ofcourse on every damn thing in this universe. Many agree to this but how far are you cable to make it online and offline. Ok you make good amount fine no doubt about...

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sexymeela I believe that no matter whether you have a lot of money or a little bit of money you will always have problems in ya life. There's no getting around it. It will just be a different set of problems. I personally don't care too much for money. I understand that...

4 Sep 10

What do you regret in this lifetime?

jamed28 @jamed28 (1903) • Philippines 4 Sep 10

I'd been asking, what if I was born from a rich family? Will I never suffer? Well since I am a poor guy, I do suffer poverty. But do I have to regret my parents being poor? If my parents were rich, will I never encounter any...

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sexymeela I actually don't regret anything about my life. I have learned over the years that everything has purpose and meaning. Even if we don't know what that purpose or meaning is. Everything happens for a reason so there is no need to regret anything that has...

4 Sep 10

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Is 24hrs a day enough for you? Or is it too much?

dream_ozn @dream_ozn (1752) • Singapore 4 Sep 10

Each and everyone of us have 24 hours a day. I really admire some people who seems to be able to accomplish so much. At times, I do feel that 24hrs a day is too little, but most of the time, I do find that 24 hours a day is not...

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sexymeela I definitely don't feel like 24 hours in a day is enough. I have three children and I'm a home mom, running my own home business. I home school my children also. I feel like I don't get enough sleep as I know most parents do. Sometimes I get so busy that I...

4 Sep 10

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I need some serious help/advice...

phoenix1344 @phoenix1344 (698) • United States 25 Aug 10

Ok, so I've been with my boyfriend now for 4 1/2 years. About 4 months ago we broke up and have just recently gotten back together. I saw him in the beginning of the month before we got back together and I realized how much I...

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sexymeela Well it sounds like to me that you have been over him a long time ago but you just feel sorry for him. Just because you love a person doesn't mean that you have to be with them. I'm sure you have had some guy friends that you have loved but didn't have the...

25 Aug 10

What do you think about people giving their children away for adoption?

m_perez @m_perez (506) • United States 23 Aug 10

I have heard of people who have kids and give away their children for adoption without a second thought. I really think these kind of people don't deserve to bear children. I have also heard of people who give away their...

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sexymeela I don't see anything wrong with giving a child up for adoption. Life has many obstacles and unexpectencies. But when life throws you a challenge you have to make the right choices on how you are gonna deal with those challenges. It's not always about taking...

23 Aug 10

Do you have drinks (alcohol) everyday?

daliaj @daliaj (5674) • India 23 Aug 10

I don't know why I tend to have alcohol everyday these days. I was not like this before. I go for a walk everyday at 5 pm. When I come back after the walk I like to have some margarita or wine. I don't want to be addicted to...

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sexymeela I can understand how you feel. It sounds a lot like myself. I've been finding myself drinking a lot more lately also. But I believe it's from the stress that I got going on in my life right now. I try not to drink too much because I don't want to become an...

23 Aug 10