sgshetti

@sgshetti (30)

India • Age 51

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Work on your typing and earn more....How is your typing?

ironstruck @ironstruck (2298) • Canada 12 Mar 07

People wonder how some on mylot can do so many posts and yet they cannot do it themselves. I think one of the keys is being able to type better. Practice learning the keys on the keyboard without looking at them and type by...

earnings

money

typing

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sgshetti very rightly said,earning in mylot totaly depends on the typing speed.simply because for most of us our thought is faster than our typing speed.once we try to bridge this gap than our earning in mylot increases dramtically.then we will not mind spending the...

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Relationship splits - can you still be friends???

mummymo @mummymo (23706) 11 Mar 07

Thing is my marriage split up years ago - we have always been civil to one another (despite some bitterness on both sides) for the sake of our son if nothing else! My ex seems to appreciate the fact that I've bent over backwards...

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sgshetti i think you are absolutely right.once you are split then its very tough to maintain the realationship even in terms of friendship.because the thought of the earlier misdeeds do keep coming back to you.moreover we as humans have the uncanny nack of remembering...

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When you choose a gift for someone

sweetlady10 @sweetlady10 (3611) • United States 26 Feb 07

When you have to buy a gift for someone, do you think about the preferance of that particular person to whom you are going to give that. Or you just buy something nice without thinking of it's use? I alwasy think about the...

gift

holiday gift

people

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sgshetti in fact if you are choosing the gift for some one its always better to know if the gift is going to be usefull the person or not.genarally the gift which you may thing is great from your angle might be a scrap for that person.so always buy as per the persons...

27 Feb 07

Making money is not easy....

capriage @capriage (29) • United States 25 Feb 07

i always thought this is the easiest way of making money on the net ... just by answering a discussion .. since i m actually here .. i think its not .. u actually have to pay attention to what you are writing while u are posting...

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sgshetti rightly said,even i thought it would be easy to earn 10 dollars a day,but once you are into it.thats when you know its only possible to earn say about 10 cents easily but that too with lots of thoughts going into your writing and comments.any way know i am...

25 Feb 07

what is your opinion on giving money as gifts?

Sasselle @Sasselle (698) • Australia 25 Feb 07

I went to a lovely wedding yesterday and I guess it made me think about this. So I have two questions ... Do you find it rude if you are asked to give money as a gift? and Have you ever felt ripped off if you have given money...

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sgshetti in fact if it was my wedding i certainly would have preferred gifts in cash not kind.but,yes there is a way to put it across your wedding card in such away that the persons reading it would not get offended.you get what you want by explaining them clearly in a...

25 Feb 07

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is their such a thing as true love?

green_lightning @green_lightning (130) • United States 20 Feb 07

hello everyone now on question is, is their really true love? now unfortunately i am coming out of a year+ long relationship =( and it really sucks now i have the hope that we will get back together b/c we did it once when we...

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sgshetti let me ask all you guys one simple quetion.if you had many lovers in the past,there will be only one which you can call your true love,right?.similarly friend there is always a true love,totally out of the world with no...

25 Feb 07

how will you feel when the person you love ,ignores you???

schummi @schummi (924) • India 25 Feb 07

this is kind of the bitterest feeling the life has to offer.becouse it feels like to just die when some one you love with a true heart ignores.i do think that everybody here,at one time or the other in their lives has felt this...

heartbreak

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sgshetti let me tell you my dear friend,this feeling of your love ignoring you,kills you from inside out.everytime you are with the same feeling of being in no man's land.your loved one's thought kills you further deep inside.there is a perfect saying for this,love me...

25 Feb 07

Are you closer to your dad or to your mom?

myworld_and_you @myworld_and_you (1223) • Philippines 25 Feb 07

I have a wonderful bond with both of my parents. But when it comes to interests, my Dad and I belong to the same field. In one way or another, that made us closer enough compared to my mom. Both my Dad and I are into music. He's a...

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sgshetti well to begin with let me say that as a general rule.boy is closer to his mother and the girl is closer to her dad.even in my case i am much closer to my mom than my dad.when it comes to parents its the question of whom we associate overself with, and love to...

25 Feb 07

Do you think children need discipline

tammytwo @tammytwo (4298) • United States 22 Oct 06

I'm not saying that they need to be beat but do you think that a child needs discipline to grow up to be a respectful adult. I beleive that too many parents have gotten lazy and don't want to deal with their children after having...

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sgshetti yes certainly.may be not to extent of military discipline.but yes in terms of having some discipline in terms of day to day activities and basic responsibility.becase what they are taught in the initial years stay with them till the very end.

24 Feb 07

How many kids would you like to have?

wifey4life @wifey4life (58) • United States 24 Feb 07

My hubby and I have been discussing for some time (even before the marriage) starting a family within two years and are discussing how many children we want. I think two would be fine. He thinks three or four. What about a happy...

kids

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sgshetti i also agree with you that every married couple should havetwo kids.i certainly would not recommend more than two.mainly because if a cople has two kids they can amnageb to look after then very well.and give proper attention and care to them when they are...

24 Feb 07

If and why we fear death

tacoman25 @tacoman25 (233) • United States 23 Feb 07

Some people won't admit it, but almost everyone is afraid of dying. It's not an easy subject to talk about, in fact most people shy away from it, even if they think about it a lot. I believe the main reason we fear death is...

death

fear

phobias

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sgshetti very rightly put,in fact every person has this fear of death.simply because all of us have some some unfullfilled wishes some where in the back of our mind.this is what makes us fear for death.maybe if you can recollect that some elderly people wish for death...

24 Feb 07

Are you the oldest, youngest or middle child?

smints8985 @smints8985 (1594) • United States 23 Feb 07

What are the pros and cons of your position in your family? There's only 2 of us, and I am the younger one, I don't know what the good or bad thing is because when it comes to chores, my mom would say it is more of a...

age

family

position

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sgshetti i am the eldest of the three siblings.i always feel being in this position,demands a lot of responsibility.of you looked up as a role model compared to the other siblings.but as per me the person who enjoys the most among the siblings are the youngest ones.so...

24 Feb 07

Love at first sight.

sincere @sincere (178) • India 24 Feb 07

Do you believe in love at first sight?I have a girl friend since last one year before it we had been friend for 1.5 year.She told me that she likes me since she saw me.But she proposed me after one year.So is it called love at...

love

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sgshetti as per me, i think its attraction at the first instance.after some time this attraction turns up into love.even that depends on your comptibility.

24 Feb 07

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Arguing over matters or misunderstandings...and talking it over helps...

007Bond1974 @007Bond1974 (881) • Philippines 23 Feb 07

My dad once said when we notice him an mom argue over something that...argument between spouse is natural and essential in a relationship(a part of communication)...its like spice or salt on ones food.I believed my dad for...

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sgshetti infact your dad was very right.there is a popular saying also that,in partnership if one of the person doesn't argue,he is not required.rightly so because when you argue you let out everything and hear everything.once the argument is over,you will recall all...

24 Feb 07

To all those intellectuals..

raijin @raijin (10345) • Philippines 23 Feb 07

This is an open invitation to all.. If you think you are intelligent, smart, correct at most times, then why are you here? Is this the place you think you should be? Do you think this is place is where you deserve you should be?...

keep the discussion smooth flowing

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sgshetti its simple.we are here because we are intelligent.we are the people who know that all other things are not to our level.we think so high that we find fault in everything and every job.we think its too low for us.moreover we manage our lives well without them.

24 Feb 07

My Friends girlfriend discusses her personal life with me, do you think thats OK

coolsid2007 @coolsid2007 (1030) • India 23 Feb 07

I have this wierd feeling and uneasiness when this happens to me... i really dont know how to react or how to respond,,, i have tried letting her know that i am not in the best position to decide who's right or wrong.... she...

awkard positions

wierd relationship

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sgshetti i think its ok if your girlfriend discusses her personal life with you.look at this way,your girlfriend trusts you.moreover anybody in distress would love to talk it out someone who they can trust and confide with.don't worry she may not require your...

24 Feb 07

Replying to comments

rosaflorence @rosaflorence (1924) • United States 23 Feb 07

Do you reply to all of the comments left on a topic that you started? I try to but find it sometimes difficult to do this especially if I have a lot of comments at one time.

comment

topic

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sgshetti well i am new to my lot but i can tell you one thing for sure that you can't possibly respond to all the comments.ya,may be you can go through all the answers and respond to some.i am telling you this out of my own personal experience.

24 Feb 07

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can india win world cup under rahul dravid captaincy

sandeep_2991984 @sandeep_2991984 (675) • India 23 Feb 07

rahul dravid is regarded as the wall, mr. consistent, mr. dependable in internaatinal cricket. i love him for his sheer dedication to the game and towards indian cricket and indian cricket team. he is the toughest crickter in the...

can india win

world cup 2003

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sgshetti yes,why not.more over a captain is only as good as his team.as excepted by many big names in cricket,we are the best team on papers,when it comes to individual performance.its just that any given day two bowler and two batsman out perform and we will the world...

23 Feb 07

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