shengcruz

@shengcruz (221)

Philippines • Age 42

Joined myLot 13 years ago

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I Feel Downhearted with my Husband

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 18 Jul 11

Last night, my husband and i talked about where we will gonna have dinner on our 21st wedding anniversary on the 20th. It was previously agreed that he will take an early dismissal, for us to have dinner after work and maybe some...

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shengcruz Congratulations SIMPLYD! What's your secret in your lasting marriage? I hope my hubby and I can also celebrate our silver and golden wedding anniversaries in the future. hehehe I think women are very sentimental and we do love to celebrate occasions...

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I´m back from the hospital.

marguicha @marguicha (223776) • Chile 9 Jul 11

Dear friends, Thank you all for your good wishes and prayers. I have been moved beyond words and they did help. The stay at the hospital was not a bad experience at all. I was all the time with a nice lady at a room for 2...

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shengcruz Glad to hear from you again, Marguicha... You need to be back because you have 101 reasons to get back here. lol I think you have all the support from your government and you have all the love in the world, from your immediate family and relatives down to...

16 Jul 11

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Love Begets Love, Hate Begets Hate

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 14 Jul 11

To this, i can say it is very true. When my husband and i, were still in out early years of marriage, we always have our quarrels over trivial things. We do love each other, but maybe because of our pride and younger outlook...

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shengcruz Hello SIMPLYD! A very common saying but rarely applied in daily life. Actually, this saying is so common that we have neglected its real value. I think this cliche is so simple. It is as simple as the golden rule; yet it is so difficult to put into...

16 Jul 11

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. i was wondering .. .

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 7 Jul 11

For those who have read my discussions on AUTHORIZED TRIP , I WAS PROVOKED and I ASKED FOR APOLOGY, I would like to inform you that since then, my involved office mates have been very kind to me already. I don’t know, it’s as...

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shengcruz Hello SIMPLYD! Things have the habit of getting back to its order. And I am glad that yours is back into order again. I do admire your frankness and your forgiving attitude in this incident. I think it's very important that we learn to admit our...

8 Jul 11

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So tomorrow I´m off to the hospital.

marguicha @marguicha (223776) • Chile 4 Jul 11

It seems that finally my treatment is going to start. I have had to do a lot of paperwork because in my country chemo is covered mostly by the government. But Tomorrow I will finally go maybe for 1 or 2 days so they do a biopsy of...

exams

hospital

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shengcruz Hello marguicha! Women have strong tolerance for pain. We can withstand the pains of giving birth and can bravely face the challenges of raising our children... Hence, I do believe that you can deal with that "torture" thing. I hope everything will...

5 Jul 11

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Filipino Mylotters Reunion

ip5217 @ip5217 (1655) • Philippines 1 Jul 11

Hi everyone! I'm thinking of organizing an acquaintance party for all filipino mylotters. This will surely be a great chance for all of us to get to know each other in person, know the interests of one another. We can then talk...

filipino mylotters

mylot reunion

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shengcruz Hello there! What an excellent idea! (lol) But before you organize this kind of event, I think it's better if you conduct a survey first. Let's see how many Pinoy mylotters are really interested to join this gathering. Then maybe we can do some voting for...

2 Jul 11

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Finally I have my diagnosis: lymphoma.

marguicha @marguicha (223776) • Chile 29 Jun 11

So, after months of tests, doctors, administrative stupidities, I went to the right doctor who saw all my tests. I have a lymphoma or lymphomas. It is yet to check after a bone marrow biopsy. S***!!! To begin with, it seems I will...

cancer

lymphoma

possitive thought

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shengcruz Hello marguicha! How are you today? I've researched about lymphoma and it's only now that I understood what kind of disease it is... Anyway, I am not here to give you some advices because I am in no position to do that for an obvious reason-you're about...

30 Jun 11

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COUNTRY that is most active here in MyLot!

rhejans @rhejans (191) • Philippines 16 Jun 11

I was just browsing some discussions post, then i was quite curious who are these people then i finally found out that most of them are FILIPINO's! or it was just a coincidence. what do you think? Have you ever think of it?

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shengcruz Hello rhejans... I don't really have any idea which country has the most number of active mylotters. All I know is there are many active members here who are Filipinos and that's not surprising at all! Filipinos can be found all over the world. They are very...

17 Jun 11

Mother-in-law Problem

LilacFaye @LilacFaye (204) • Philippines 16 Jun 11

Darn it! I'm so irritated! My husband and I already told our parents-in-law that we will give them only a specific amount every single month. They agreed. Then they asked my husband that instead of cash this month of June, just...

problem

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shengcruz Hello LilacFaye! Oh, too bad you're facing such problem. I think it's good to confront your in-law, or I think it's best if your husband would be the one to do it, after all, they are his own parents. I think some parents think that after they have raised...

16 Jun 11

Have you ever wondered what is still manufactured in the United States?

ParaTed2k @ParaTed2k (22940) • Sheboygan, Wisconsin 16 Jun 11

It comes as a surprise to a lot of Americans to learn that we are still the #1 manufacturer in the world. Some people challenge that statistic by pointing out all the "made in..." tags in US stores. Yes, a lot of what we buy is...

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shengcruz I think that title should be given to China. Don't you see that almost all the products in the world are made in China?

16 Jun 11

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are you a good child to your parents

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 15 Jun 11

When I was younger, I did some things that made my parents mad at me. I guess, during that time , I was just young and carefree but not innately bad. But all of us outgrows some bad acts in us and as we grow , we mellow and...

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shengcruz Yes, of course! hehehe I want to believe that I've always been a very good daughter to them. Wherever they maybe now, I am confident that I am still much loved by them and that they still patiently look after me. I think there was never a single moment in...

16 Jun 11

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. journalizing

rebel_woman06 @SIMPLYD (90721) • Philippines 15 Jun 11

I have read in my daily devotional a few days ago, that for us to be able to reflect on what has been the day before, we should keep a journal. Then, we should also put in it the things we have to be thankful to God for the day....

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shengcruz Hello SIMPLYD! Oh, I thought you're referring to "accounting task" when you mentioned journalizing! (lol) Seriously, very few people will take time to jot down notes and reflect on their lives. I think people have become so occupied with worldly things and...

16 Jun 11

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No to Animal Cruelty.

totallyundecided @totallyundecided (3190) • Philippines 14 Jun 11

"Nobody can fully understand the meaning of love unless he's owned a dog. A dog can show you more honest affection with a flick of his tail than a man can gather through a lifetime of handshakes." Jerzon Senador has earned a...

dogs

philippines

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shengcruz Hello totallyundecided! Yes, my heart hurts for that poor puppy. But I think the lad did not really intend to hurt his puppy. He just gave him a bath and that only proved that he cares for his li'l dog! Sometimes, we all do have this "wild imagination" and...

15 Jun 11

Some newbies have no patience.

marguicha @marguicha (223776) • Chile 13 Jun 11

I just finished answering a post that stated that all PTC sites were scams. Considering that I travel with the money they gave me, I felt I had to say that there were also legit sites. Then, while I was scrolling at the...

mylot

newbies

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shengcruz Hello there marguicha! Hmmm, maybe some of us have forgotten the cliche "Patience is a Virtue" I guess my grandma is the only one now who's still using that saying.(lol) Kidding aside, I think the younger generation,"my generation?" has outgrown...

15 Jun 11

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What you want to know about CHINA? I`m a Chinese college student .

Mskyline @Mskyline (14) • China 10 Jun 11

HI,dear everyone~~~ I`m a student in henan CHINA.I`m not good at English,please excuse. I`m here on one hand is learning English.on the other hand is make some friend? at the same time to introduce henan.China.

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shengcruz Hello Mskyline! It' so nice to meet you. I teach English to Korean and Japanese students but I haven't tried teaching Chinese students. So, I have a lot of questions about your culture and your country. Anyway, I will just narrow down my questions in these...

11 Jun 11

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Will You Marry Me?

Toni @toniganzon (72533) • Philippines 26 May 11

I'm not asking anybody from here nor anybody at all since i am already married. But somebody popped this question to me today in my twitter account. Actually that person used to be my bbm friend but i deleted him long time ago and...

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shengcruz Hello tonigazon! I think that guy was just thrilled of knowing how you'd respond to him. I think he's just a waste of time. Ignore him. But I kinda like your reply. You made him a fool of himself. Let him eat his heart out! (lol) Anyway, things like this...

3 Jun 11

my father slap and trow glass mug to my sister!what you think!

xoxshuo @xoxshuo (47) • Malaysia 2 Jun 11

IF its you,what would you do and what do you feel???

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shengcruz Oh, your sister must have made your father so furious. But I think throwing a mug towards a child is uncalled for. A parent can have his own way or method of discipline but there must also be a limitation to it. Discipline is different from physical...

3 Jun 11

Love is not fair

6928961 @6928961 (111) • China 2 Jun 11

I don't know whether you have such a feeling.When you love a person more than yourself,you will lost yourself.You will unprincipled to tolerate him, slowly he used to condoning,ignoring what you do for him.He will get used to...

love

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shengcruz I think we should first differentiate love from falling in love. According to a Philosopher named Scott Peck, these two things are entirely different and most people often get confused with it. According to his definition, love is an action,an activity; it is...

3 Jun 11

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What is a good tag line for a travel site?

iwrite @iwrite (5034) • Singapore 2 Jun 11

As you know I am doing a new travel site, I am thinking what would be a good tag line for it. I thinking creating something easy for people to understand. Something like (Travel made simple), (Travel planning starts...

tag line

travel site

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shengcruz The Traveler's Ushers The Pilot of Your Dream Destination...

3 Jun 11

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