shyama86

@shyama86 (73)

Age 38

Joined myLot 16 years ago

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Is anyone sick of christmas or is it just me??

lagirl1966 @lagirl1966 (709) • United States 10 Dec 08

Hi there. I am sick of all the christmas stuff already. For one, I can't afford christmas. For another, I am just sick of all the commercialism. Every two seconds there is a commercial about it, and all these xmas specials. I may...

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shyama86 HI, You are right. Today every festival has become more commercial and people conveniently forget the purpose of celebration. Festivals are meant for family get togethers - all members come together and exchange their love and regard for one another. There is...

11 Dec 08

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Are You More of a Talker Or Listener?

miraclefreebies @miraclefreebies (3043) • United States 10 Dec 08

Do you know anyone who actually tries to do both at the same time? I have a relative that claims to be listening to what you're saying but she's so busy talking loudly over other people, so she can't hear what they're...

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shyama86 Hi, I am a talker and a listener. I will listen when others talk which will help me better to share their feelings and if need be give some suggestions to solve the same. When you listen to somebody talk you will have an idea of what type of a person he/she is...

11 Dec 08

I finally Got me an apartment!

slickcut @slickcut (8141) • United States 8 Dec 08

I am so excited.I got the call that i have been waiting for,i was approved for my new apartment..It is brand new ,i will be the first to live there.It is a new building and it has a new stove, refrigerator,micro wave & a new...

refrigerator

washer

washer dryer

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shyama86 HI, It is really wonderful to have a nine home for oneself. You are lucky to have one to your satisfaction.So this year you wl be celebrating yr X'mas in yr new house. May God bless you with all happiness and prosperity in the years to come.

9 Dec 08

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Family vs friends or strangers - does family rate higher? Should it?

mommyboo @mommyboo (13174) • United States 6 Dec 08

I keep coming back to this question because I am really wondering about the logistics. We are born into a family and then STUCK with it. You don't choose your parents. You don't choose your siblings. You don't choose crazy aunt...

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shyama86 Hi, If you keep family in one side of a balance and yr friend on the other always the side of your family wl be weighty . As you said you hv no choice of yr family, yr parents, yr relatives . yes, life is that much mysterious and full of illusion. You dont...

7 Dec 08

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Daughter having school issues

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 4 Dec 08

This is very surprising for me because my daughter is extremely intelligent. She is usually also my best behaved child, but not lately. I got a note home from her teacher yesterday saying she'd been refusing to do her math work...

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shyama86 Dont know yr daughter's age. Is she in her teens. Any how be patient and try to know the reason of the sudden change in her behaviour. She might require some help in her studies . Make sure she is healthy and having her food on time. Talk to her and ask her...

5 Dec 08

Need some advice... or at least some opinions.

catgirl9 @catgirl9 (17) • United States 4 Dec 08

I have someone who I have been pretty close friends with for a few years now; lately I have been trying to figure out if I should just completely disassociate myself with her. She was recently living with my roommate, my fiance',...

friends

payday

relationships

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shyama86 HI, From yr note it is understood that you know yr fried for quite sometime now. Do you have any similar experience before? Is this the first time you loose money? You cannot say that she had taken the money since you are not sure? However please be careful...

5 Dec 08

What to do?

marzfu @marzfu (13) • Brunei Darussalam 4 Dec 08

Good listener,..... sound very nice. but sometimes when a friend come to me with their own problem and I just stood there listen to each word they say , make me think alot? why can I just say.... calm down and go to sleep rather...

problem

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shyama86 Yes, you are correct. Even though we cant help someone to solve their problem , by listening to them will give them some relief that there is some one caring . You can give them some ideas to solve their problems too.

5 Dec 08

Verbal abuse from students

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 25 Nov 08

I really cannot understand to what extent our children arrogance can be up to. Well this incident happened to me yesterday. I asked my class to separate their desks in order to give them a test. Only a couple of students obliged...

discipline

verbal abuse

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shyama86 Hi Ronaldinu, I really feel for you. But we cannot blame only the students for this kind of behavious. We elders are also to be blamed especially the parents. They give too much freedom to the kind and never bother about their manners at home as well as in...

26 Nov 08

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What does Christmas mean to you?

jewelenterprises @jewelenterprises (1996) • Australia 24 Nov 08

For each and every one of us Christmas has a meaning. Whether we view it as the celebration of the religious event of the birth of a man destined to become the saviour of mankind or as a time when all our family gathers...

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shyama86 HI, You are right. For every one X'mas has a meaning. But when we talk about X'mas the first things we remember is the Infant Jesus in a beautiful cradle who has come to earth from heaven for the sake of humanity , to give hundreds of people peace and...

25 Nov 08

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Does a country need religious people or Patriotic people

M S R S Choudhary @choudhary03 (943) • Hyderabad, India 24 Nov 08

I certainly say that a country needs patriotic people. If there are no patriotic people but religious people it may crop up a Hitler, etc. But to what extent you can define patriotism. Does religion help in stopping people...

country

patriotism

religion

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shyama86 Hi, In my opinion religion and patriotism is like parallel lines . Both have different aspects. A patriotic loves his country and has high regards for his culture, tradition, its development whereas a religious man loves the whole universe. It is aimed to...

25 Nov 08

im so upset

oscar6 @oscar6 (1938) • United States 17 Sep 08

hey mylotters, Yesterday was the worst day of my life. I am currently seeing this really great guy named andrew (my screen name is my dogs name for any of you wondering yes im a girl) Yesterday he told me that he is going to move...

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shyama86 Dear Friend, From yr note I assume that you hv not revealed your mind to your so called lover and he is also not serious about it. So you hv two choices. One is speak to him and open yr heart whether he too is interested well and good you can continue the...

18 Sep 08

why is an atheist usually smart., or a smart person usually ends up an atheist?

sutanhartanto @sutanhartanto (4122) • Indonesia 16 Sep 08

first thing first, please don't get offended i am neither an atheist nor a believer. i was born in a christian family and as a christian also. yet, as my understanding about god, life, jesus,...

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shyama86 Dear brother, from your notes I understand that you believe in your own self. If you are able to understand your self that will do. It is equalant to one who sees the God, the supreme consciousness. If you act according to your consciousness that is enough...

17 Sep 08

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Different countries but same language...

EnslinPorter @EnslinPorter (1718) • Philippines 4 Sep 08

How do you feel about that? You go to a different country but the people speak the same language. Do you feel at home or do they have a different culture? For example, isn't it that people from Spain, Argentina, and Mexico all...

accent

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shyama86 When you happen to be in a different country always makes you feel uncomfortable, the main reason being communication- that is you wont be able to talk the same language of the people of that area and when you see somebody who can speak of your own language,...

5 Sep 08

Does wearing spectacles make you smart(er)?

lordwarwizard @lordwarwizard (35747) • Singapore 2 Sep 08

When I was little, I had the impression that Smart people all wear glasses. It then followed in my tender mind that I will look

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shyama86 The main purpose of using a spectacle is to see clearly , if you are having some problem with your eye sight. And some people use cooling glasses when they go out in the sun and some others use it as a protection to the eyes while they drive their byke etc....

5 Sep 08

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