silverjam

@silverjam (969)

United States • Age 57

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My best Motto for friendship

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 21 Apr 09

I consider myself as one friendly person and yes I have a lot of friends and also people I consider acquaintances. However, I honestly would say I only have very few people I really consider best and real friends; they are those...

friendships

motto

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how did you feel about wearing your first glasses?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 8 Apr 09

I admit I find it very uneasy and inadequate. I had mine last year, my husband bought me one after a constant fight due to the fact that I really don't like wearing one. I know it's good for the eyes, in fact I'd been advise a...

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When did you had your first eye glasses?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 8 Apr 09

I had mine last year when I turned 41. I was advised to wear one when I turned 40 when I had my check up because I started to feel something glaring at times. I just ignored it until I came here last year and my husband told me to...

eye glasses

eye sight

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2 people

listening to music

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 19 Mar 09

Did you ever had some songs that has an impact of your life? Like for instance a song that reminds you of certain individual, place or any significant event in your life. I realy like the song THE SEARCH IS OVER by the...

love songs

memories

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What's your favorite house chores and why?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 24 Feb 09

If there is one thing I like to do among the house chores, it's doing the laundry. I prefer it than the rest of the list because I find it easier than cooking, cleaning and dish washing, although I like dish washing too as it's...

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Which do you prefer to use in the bathroom, toilet paper or water?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 2 Feb 09

I guess there are different practices of people in cleaning their butts after using the toilet bowl. In the Philippines most people uses water to do their thing while here in the USA it's mostly toilet papers. What about you (and...

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2 people

Exclusively for women: when did you have your first period?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 27 Jan 09

I had mine when I was about thirteen and was in second year high school. Although am quite aware about it as it was being taught at school still felt quite nervous then as I wasn't been expecting it that soon. I felt a little...

felt

high school

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How often do you have hair cuts?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 26 Jan 09

My hair now is quite long (almost up to waistline) and I still didn't cut nor trimmed it because it's winter time and I guess i still need to have a longer hair because of the cold. Am planning to cut it this spring but if it's...

winter

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Have you tried any traditional meds for some illness and wounds?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 21 Jan 09

Am sure for this era traditional medications sounds premitive and seemed to be a "thing-of-the-past as there are various medications and over-the-counter-meds available in pharmacies and drug stores nowadays. But there are people...

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What's the silliest thing you have done today?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 6 Jan 09

I guess I was doing one of the silliest thing today.....and that was going out (in the cold) with my thin and sleeveless shirt. I was really doing it in purpose although am quite aware what might people be thinking of me wearing...

exercise

silly

winter

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Do you think reconciliation is possible during christmas gatherings?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 31 Dec 08

I have seen many families who tries to fix or mend blasted relationships among friends and families itself during x'mas gatherings as most people believed that Christmas holidays are time for forgiving misdeeds; forgetting the...

broken hearts

hearts

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Can you help me about some Indian epics?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 15 Dec 08

I know there are a lot of people here from India and I hope you guys can help me in this. My nephew asked me something about Ramayana, Mahabharata and Bagavad Ghita in w/ I guess are Indian epics (correct me if am wrong). I've...

epics

literature

3 responses

Is it rightful to send your partner back to your unlaws?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 11 Dec 08

My friend had been the sole bread winner of her family for quite a long time beacause her husband was ill and cannot earn a living. By the time he was well and has the job as taxi driver, she was expecting to have some relief in...

taxi 3

taxi driver

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2 people

what can you do to beat the "christmas blues"?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 11 Dec 08

As we all knew, christmas is seemingly the perfect time for all the nice things in the year. Ideally, it is in this season where families and loved ones are expected to bound and gathered together specially in christmas eve; the...

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1 person

What do you prefer for a spouse; single, divorced or widow/er?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 3 Dec 08

This is a question preferably for single people and those who are planning to get married. When I was single everybody seemed to be amazed w/ my choice of guy for a partner; I simply want a widower (rather than single men). Of...

single man

single men

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how can you tell if your spouse is a gay?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 29 Nov 08

My friend's husband is a gay and was also one of my bosses at work. Rumors about the issue have been spreading all over the workplace but I dared not telling her for fear of ruining their relationship and his status in the...

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What's the best Christmas symbol for you and why?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 23 Nov 08

In my senior year in high school we were asked to make a composition in our leteriture class to write what we consider as the best christmas symbol and why? Most of my classmates chose christmas cards, christmas carol/songs,...

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who do you think is more blessed, the single or the married ones?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 19 Nov 08

As a single woman I used to make it a little defenssive the "blessed singleness" when people tries to tease me being still single in my late 30's. But I found it accurate when I have to look at some asspects in life like the...

single woman

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what do you usually do when you have nothing to do?

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 18 Nov 08

People have different and sometimes unique ways of doing things in entertaining themselves when they find themselves in the shelf of boredom. Others find it more relaxing to go to malls and does window shopping, some burries their...

malls

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staying for the sake of kids in a stormy relationship

silverjam @silverjam (969) • United States 17 Nov 08

I just get married barely 6 months ago and still in our honneymoon stage. I have been reading articles and heard stories about stormy relationships in marraige mostly due to cheating, a common cause for broken families. I have...

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3 people