sofmap

@sofmap (25)

Japan • Age 44

Joined myLot 14 years ago

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it is in pardoning that we are pardoned...

kenchiprincess @kenchiprincess (5296) • Philippines 28 Apr 10

I have heard a lot of people saying an eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth. in our world today that everyone who have been hurt, persecuted, and injustice would cry out revenge and would always think of ways on how to get even....

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sofmap It's sometimes tempting to get even. It's easier to cut other people a little slack when we recognise our own slip ups.

29 Apr 10

How to test pearls?

Chaitra Vasanth @chaitra001 (3278) • Bangalore, India 5 Nov 09

Hi Friends.. Is it good to buy pearls online? Where Can I get good quality pearls? And how to test whether its original pearl or not? Please share your knowledge with me..

pearls

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sofmap Not sure but be careful, a few tricksters are online. Can't you find a registered jeweller who sells pearls online?

2 Feb 10

How successful are you in earning here?

abhaijith @abhaijith (2963) • India 1 Feb 10

Dear friends, as an online earner here what all have you done to make a decent income from Mylot? Have you referred lots of people to Mylot? Or trying to refer maximum people to here? Trying to post good posts here? Or are...

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sofmap I'm just starting out so I can't give any fair feedback yet. I can however say that the discussions I have participated in so far have been stimulating. I have found good posts.

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A hundred mylotters complaining mylot is so boring?

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 26 Jan 10

I just do not get this, really. I know there are good, bad, and indifferent discussions here but to complain all the time of being bored. How can you be bored when there are so many topics and discussions to choose from? Are we so...

all are inane

i am so bored

nothing to respond to

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sofmap I agree with JB. If people can't find a topic that fits their interests they can start one. Maybe there are other people that are interested in the same thing.

2 Feb 10

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My arm is broken, I am bored, Too long,cannot read TOS

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 1 Feb 10

over and over I have read pages now what happened to my earnings? I had almost ten dollars towards payout, or I had twenty dollars, and was just gone a short while? What happened? Yet these same complainers have never bothered to...

gonna read it one day soon

too busy

too bored

too long

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sofmap Hatley, what, your arm isn't broken! lol

2 Feb 10

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Do you have a driver's license?

dloveli @dloveli (4366) • United States 24 Jan 10

I am almost 40 years old and I still dont have my driver's license. The reason being is that I was pregnant with my daughter when I first applied at 17. She was born premature, 29 weeks. She had a ton of medical problems. So by...

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sofmap Go for it! I am happy for you. I don't have mine yet either. Am making a commitment to get over all the problems I see and get it.

27 Jan 10

How to overcome prejudice and stereotypes in making relation?

riani2009 @riani2009 (581) • Indonesia 25 Oct 09

I married with my husband whose value and culture different from mine. Our relationship is fine but sometimes unconciously I can't stop feeling a kind of prejudice or stereotypes about his behaviour relating to his belief. I know...

culture

prejudice

stereotype

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sofmap You could try to focus on understanding where his beliefs are coming from and why they make him the person he is. That way, even if you don't agree with them, you will still appreciate them for the understanding they help you to have of your husband. You could...

27 Jan 10

Just want to tell you a true news

youless @youless (112586) • Guangzhou, China 25 Jan 10

I just read a discussion to say that China banned the movie Avatar. Now I have to post a new discussion because this is not true. This movie has been crazy popular in China, especially the 3D version. Although the tickets are very...

avatar

movie

news

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sofmap Glad to hear this. I had heard that rumour too.

26 Jan 10

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Why you like Matrix as movie although is total friction.

vjypathania @vjypathania (312) • India 25 Jan 10

i like this movie for its action , acting direction and visual effect it provide. Can you share your thaught why you like this movie.

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sofmap I like the outfits and I like the special effects in the fight scenes. I also like the concept of the movie.

26 Jan 10

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What would you do if you caught your husband with another girl?

SydneyHazelton @SydneyHazelton (4586) • Singapore 25 Jan 10

My husband was cheating on me and I knew about it. Recently he promised to get back to the family and I could see the changes that came over him. He text me more often, calls me and tells me his whereabouts. At the end of the day,...

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sofmap I think you did the right thing. That was quick thinking on your part too, with the trains. You let him see that you had seen. If you plan to fix a problem, the first step is facing it and you forced him to face it. You behaved like a lady. Shouting and...

26 Jan 10

Who changed whom?

pengyachu @pengyachu (296) • China 26 Jan 10

It is inevitable for a couple to have conflict and undergo adjustment.Who changed more in the relationship?Are you willing to change yourself for love or do you have to make some confession and change because you have to during...

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sofmap In a good relationship, both people benefit from each other's nurturing. In that way, they become better people because of each other's influence, just like iron sharpening iron.

26 Jan 10

I have just discovered that my husband has a jealous side to him,

jugsjugs @jugsjugs (12967) 24 Jan 10

i do not mind that there is that side to my husband,but i do draw the line at him not trusting me.They do say that where there is no trust there is no love.I am 38 and i have been married to him now for over 13 years i think from...

love

trust

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sofmap Hi Jugs, I think something has happened recently on your husband's side that is not allowing him to see clearly. It may be that there is someone who is feeding him garbage and helping him to look for things that don't exist for their own benefit. Also,...

26 Jan 10

She was in tears, and I almost cried too.

Patsie Hatley @Hatley (163776) • Garden Grove, California 19 Jan 10

I had thought that predjudices were a thing of the past. But my sweet filipino tablemate came to me today at lunch in tears.Seems her roommate doesn't want her to even be in the room with her, and calls her really awful names....

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sofmap This is a shame.

23 Jan 10

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why do people treat others in a very rude way?

Shatila90 @Shatila90 (80) 6 Jan 10

I hate it when someone treats me or my friends and family different from everybody else because of our religion or political or just or plain views, we dont treat them the same so they treat us like that? i remember once we were...

fgh

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sofmap Is it the first time you are meeting people who are rude? I am sure you have met people with similar attitiudes in your own coutry, it's just that maybe you had nothing to offer them, so they showed you a different face. Sometimes when people travel, the...

23 Jan 10

Rude? Or is it a plot?

TheRealDawn @dawnald (85146) • Shingle Springs, California 21 Jan 10

You apply for a job and the recruiter sets you up for a phone interview on Tuesday at 11:30 AM. You not only received this information by phone, but in an e-mail, so you are sure of the date and the time. The interviewer calls...

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sofmap Some employers are like that. They are manipulative and think it's smart of them to test other people that way. They are also the ones who like to leave people waiting to test them too. If this is not the type of environment your friend would be willing ot...

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