swendellshayne

@swendellshayne (71)

Philippines • Age 56

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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my teenage daughter...

jncdavao @jncdavao (115) • Philippines 19 Jul 07

i have a 15 year old daughter who spends more than an hour on a shower/bath... always. does this happen to other teenagers you know as well? i wasn't like this when i was her age. nobody in my family is like this. i think an hour...

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swendellshayne My 10 year old daughter spends more than 30 minutes(with much reprimands to move faster from the family) to take a bath during school days and almost an hour or more during weekends. I can't imagine how long she's going to spend on the shower once she becomes...

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He walked out on me & the Kids 2 years ago and now he wants to come back!

liyan97 @liyan97 (2127) • Northern Mariana Islands 24 Jul 07

Well most of you already know that I am a single mom of three children. My youngest is with my ex. When I first met him three years ago he was a great guy and accepted my other two children like as if he were the biological...

acceptance

choices

forgieness

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swendellshayne Hello there my friend! What a situation you are in right now..! I already have a response to this yesterday when I got disconnected from my server. Can it mean something perhaps--about getting disconnected? You know with the situation such as ours it is...

26 Jul 07

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Why don't people clean up thier forward???

warmweatherwoman @warmweatherwoman (2233) • Atlantic City, New Jersey 25 Jul 07

I don't mind getting forwarded emails from my friends- but they have the habit of not cleaning them up before sending them- which causes me to have to scroll to high heaven just to see what they are sending. I guess I'm different-...

email forwards

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swendellshayne This one bothers me too--though i can tolerate it. Sometimes its just interesting coz you get to see your friend's other friends. I do however, have the habit of deleting unwanted details before re-forwarding an email. This is actually necessary esp. at work...

26 Jul 07

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after work...

jncdavao @jncdavao (115) • Philippines 16 Jul 07

do you ever feel realy really tired after work? which part of your body gets really tired or aches the most? mine is my back and my feet.

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swendellshayne It seems that ever year, another part of my body starts to ache. My back however, almost always aches every day after a very tiring day at work..and also after being exposed to very cold temperature. My legs and feet are also giving me discomfort. I also get...

22 Jul 07

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wish me luck...

katied1985 @katied1985 (147) 15 Jul 07

well the day is here... i am due to go back to work tomorrow after being off for nearly 1 1/2 years with postnatal depression..Im actually looking forward to it but i have been back a few times before now and always ended up...

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swendellshayne Hi there katied1985! I guess by this time, you have gone back to work and I hope that it was okay. Well, I don't know much about CBT but I have experienced being depressed and being excited(& anxious) 'bout going back to work--after 5 yrs., in my case. You...

16 Jul 07

how to earn in mylot...

jncdavao @jncdavao (115) • Philippines 11 Jul 07

hello. i'm relatively new here and i wanted to make new friends here as well as earn from mylot. my sister invited me to this site and she said she has earned more than $30 here. as she seems to be a bit busy these days and we...

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swendellshayne Hi there! Thank you so much for posting your query on mylot earnings..I'm also new here and the responses given here are all so helpful. I really am looking forward to discover new friends here and at the same time get some bonus..Plus, the opportunity to...

16 Jul 07

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Hi Girls how you want your Boy friends to be.

mageshis @mageshis (183) • India 15 Jul 07

Hi how do you expect your boy friend to be with you. Hoe he should be.

boy friend

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swendellshayne Hi friend! I've just responded to a similar discussion a while ago and its something like this: Girls always appreciate an honest man. Boyfriends essentially, should know their true feelings for their girlfriends and the rest will just follow. Always make...

16 Jul 07

strawberry pie

sunkissed @sunkissed (4330) • United States 30 Jun 07

Do you like strawberry pie? I love it.I like the glaze that is in it, I love it with alot of whipped cream on top of it.It is so very god on a hot summers day.Anyone have a easy recipe for this pie?

pie

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swendellshayne I like fresh strawberries and lots of whipped cream..and would like to have it in my pie also. One of my favorites however, in my country, is coconut pie or better known here as "buko" pie. It is made from real coconut(not the shredded or dessicated ones)and...

16 Jul 07

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Do you still stroll through the mall arm in arm with your spouse?

alphabeata @alphabeata (106) • Philippines 11 Jul 07

Rarely do we see seasoned couples express genuine love and wholesome affection in these modern days, let alone in public places. Don't u think our world needs a few sweet reminders that true love within marriage can last a...

love

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swendellshayne Hayyy..!! I'm melting in my seat. Wish I have a man to wrap my arms with..hehe.(you know what i mean..) Never ever let go of that sweetness and love..I'm so proud of you my dear! Mwah!

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boyfriends:- a girl's perspective

rohitdinho @rohitdinho (189) • India 12 Jul 07

I wonder what girls really want from their boyfriends??..and how far off it is frm wat the boys think is good to impress the girls around...is machoism the way to go or do girls prefer a much more subtle approach??..do girls lyk...

people

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swendellshayne Hi! So are you trying to hook someone? hehehe..Kidding aside, you might want to listen to Bryan Adams' "Have you ever really loved a woman?". This may be a different kind of music for your taste but it basically answers most of your concern. Also, every woman...

16 Jul 07

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Is anyone else in love with Boy George???

gwendovere @gwendovere (1279) • United States 2 Apr 07

I think he's beautiful! Have since the '80s.

boy george

culture club

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swendellshayne He is indeed a beautiful person...! To have succeeded and be accepted for what he really is--that is something to be proud of. God bless!

15 Jul 07

national treasure2: the book secrets .

chintasriharsha @chintasriharsha (52) • India 13 Mar 07

this sequel to the national treasure deals with the assasination of american president abraham lincoln and the secret of an 18 pages of a historical person whose missing 18 pages from his personal diary gives an important clue

national treasure 2 the book of secrets

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swendellshayne It's so good to know that there will be a sequel. My daughter and I totally loved the first one(& Nicolas Cage, too)! We'll be looking forward to it..God bless! =)

15 Jul 07

how many times have you thought of quitting your job???

3superkids @3superkids (446) • Philippines 11 May 07

I have been working for many many years now. I enjoyed most of my working years but right now i'm getting bored already. Many times i tried to quit but since i've no choice yet i had to stick to it for now. How many years have you...

job

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swendellshayne We're in the same boat..! I'm actually looking for a new job right now--no matter how slim the chances are. I've been working for a telecom company as a business center supervisor for almost 5 years already and I guess, the long hours and pressure of dealing...

15 Jul 07

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He wants to get married...they have only known each other 3 weeks...

tinamwhite @tinamwhite (3252) • United States 13 Jul 07

My son who is 26 years old...he is a firefighter and an EMT...he is a very responsible young man and I am very close to him.... A couple of days ago, he informed that he plans to get married to a young woman whom he has only...

emt

firefighter

getting married in a hurry

plans to wed

rushed plans for the future

son

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swendellshayne Hi tinamwhite! I'm new here and enjoying it..what more can be said when so many wonderful & honest responses have been given? Seems like your son knows what he's doing and feeling the way you do is so understandable. My heart goes out to you as losing a mother...

14 Jul 07

how will a good marriage work?

chryss @chryss (658) • Philippines 3 Jul 07

any idea there?share your experiences or suggestion,opinions etc...

marriage

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swendellshayne Marriage needs true LOVE to work . And love needs perseverance, hard work, & strong communication to make it last. Essentially, one should not marry for the wrong reasons. As long as one is not yet ready to share a good part of herself to the other half, it...

14 Jul 07

friends, please add me,

jojocgamboa @jojocgamboa (15) • Philippines 11 Jul 07

Hi, my name is jojo, i am getting interested here more and more. thanks you, please, add me as your friend... i resides in manila, philippines.. .:-) YM: jojocgamboa

friend

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swendellshayne Hi friend! I'm also new here and you're right, it's really very interesting. I'm looking forward to joining in your future discussions. God bless! =)

14 Jul 07

What are the best fillings for a pie?

bugbaby @bugbaby (1787) • Indonesia 1 May 07

Bluberry. Well thats my thought. There. I can not write anymore. Goodnight Gang. See you.

cooking

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swendellshayne Coconut. This may not be the best for me as i also love apple, strawberry, & peach mango pie. But this is my all time favorite especially when served hot from the oven. "Buko(coconut) pie" is how we call it in the Philippines.

14 Jul 07

Do you have child? How many Children do you have?

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 11 Jul 07

I have two girls they are smart and lovely. Sixteen and ten that is there age... How about you friends, Do you have a child? How many children do you have?

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swendellshayne I have two lovely daughters and one good looking son. They are my inspiration and strength.

13 Jul 07

I am so blessed. God let me have 3 children.

IL2Knit @IL2Knit (1141) • United States 8 Jul 07

As far back as I can remember I wanted to have children. I wanted 12 of them. LOL Well I didn't have 12 but God allowed me to have 3. Two daughters and one son. My children are the biggest most wonderful thing I have had in my...

blessed

children

mother

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swendellshayne God has blessed me wonderfully with 2 daughters and 1 son. =)Life for me suddenly was full of action--late nights waking to the sound of their cries while they were still babies,..back pains and sore leg muscles for trying to waltz them to sleep,..collecting...

13 Jul 07