tendaheart2002

@tendaheart2002 (495)

United States • Age 47

Joined myLot 18 years ago

If I wasn't serious I wouldn't say it

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Can you find out what a person has been texting?

ravinskye @ravinskye (8237) • United States 7 Apr 10

Recently a friend told me that a girls husband accessed her cell phone records somehow. She said he was able to get all her text messages and what they said. Can you really do that? I've heard another person did that too. I know...

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tendaheart2002 that would be a really interesting thing to find out, I personally don't know if I would want to see all the text that were sent to or from my sweeties phone, but I guess everyone is diffrent. Makes you think you must not be able to trust someone if you have...

24 May 10

how many people can the earth sustain?

gabrifvg @gabrifvg (167) • Italy 20 Jun 08

there are now about 6 billion people on the planet, and it's calculated that by 2025 there will be 8 billion of us. and i suppose if nothing changes it will keep going up. how many people do you think the planed can...

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tendaheart2002 wow, that is actually something that I had not given much thought to, but is a very good question. When you think about it, it seems like though the population will increase there will still be deaths etc, that kind of counter balance everything. however if we...

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would you rather be the only child or have a sibling?

zhoushuzhen @zhoushuzhen (284) • China 20 Jun 08

i grew up with a brother four years younger than me.it was hard a lot of the time because we fought constantly,but it was cool when one or both of us get in trouble because we always had someone with whom we could complain about...

family

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tendaheart2002 i would rather have a sibling! I was an only child for fifteen years, and I thought life was great and good, that is until I got my little brother. I enjoyed spending time with him and having a reason to do things I wouldn't normally do anymore; like watch...

20 Jun 08

What REALLY works?

lbinkley @lbinkley (1075) • United States 5 Jan 08

I am tired of seeing all of the infomercials for miracle diets, or workout videos that everyone is promoting. Even funny looking gadgets that are supposed to have you slim in no time. I REALLY want to lose weight this year, and I...

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tendaheart2002 I must first state that I have tried a lot of these weight loss products,gadgets,tapes etc. And some have been effective in their own way. The first thing you have to decide is your will power and how much you are willing to invest in your weight loss i.e....

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What is the best way to loose weight?

berlay @berlay (40) • Philippines 5 Jan 08

My friend want to drop 20 lbs. What does he needs to do?

weight

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tendaheart2002 The best thing to do to lose the weight is: Watch your portions. It is possible to have foods that we love we just can't have as much as we often consume in a meal. Second, increase your activity level, you don't have to do full blown workouts to make a...

6 Jan 08

Being happy

sunshine17340 @sunshine17340 (1) • United States 26 Nov 07

Hi I am a 44 year old mother of 2 .I have been out of work for almost 4 months so things are very .very tight. In this home there will be no christmas. Everything is behind in my bills.And we can't even buy food.How do you get the...

xmas

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tendaheart2002 The holidays can be stressful even for those with money. But let me say that I see where you are coming from. I had a Xmas not to long ago where the only gifts under the tree came from the dollar store. I cried day and night, wondering if things would get...

26 Nov 07

When you feel lonely,what will you do?

anniewangyin @anniewangyin (27) • China 26 Oct 07

Recently I always feel lonely.It seems that everything around me has nothing to do with me.Althtough I really want to care whatever happening around me!I want to be a friend of everybody's,but it is impossible.I know that no one...

what will you do

when you feel lonely

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tendaheart2002 The way you feel is normal. Sometimes it is really hard to relate to something that doesn't involve you and that is okay. The best thing to do is stay positive and know that you do make a difference no matter how big or small. And that there is always someone...

26 Oct 07

What's the most hurtful thing your spouse could do to you?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 23 Aug 07

As for me, the most hurtful thing that my spouse could do to me, would be to lie. And, I know you might think that cheating would be more painful. But, I see infidelity and cheating under the same heading as lies. You have to lie...

cheating husband

investigate your spouse

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tendaheart2002 lying is the most hurtful thing. Trust and honesty is so important to me, and thinking that it is not valued by the other person is too much for me. I was in a relationship for 3 and 1/2 years and found out at the end that he had been lying the whole time...

23 Aug 07

If you thing while you're in the bath, what kind of song you sing? do you rap?

queen_bites @queen_bites (46) • United States 12 Aug 07

I have made an earlier discussion wondering how many people do that, then I was thinking... what kind of song would you sing in the bath? just that opera thing as we see in the movies? or maybe you can even rap and it would make...

people

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tendaheart2002 I usually sing my own music that I am working on. Other times it depends on the mood. But I can't say that I have ever done rap though.

12 Aug 07

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where is your best friend now?

jainaewen @jainaewen (170) • Philippines 12 Aug 07

are they still close to you

best friend

bestfriend

friend

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tendaheart2002 i have one best friend that I have not talked to in over a year :( . My other best friend and I are as close as the day that we met. I guess over time things change, regardless of how much time passes she will always be close to my heart.

12 Aug 07

Would you plant a spy-cam in your house to spy on your boyfriend or husband?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 12 Aug 07

On the show Cheaters, people are always planting secret spy-cams in their homes to catch cheating spouses in the act. Of course all of the people they show are completely guilty. And, while it does produce some rather entertaining...

cams

catch a cheating spouse

cheating husbands

hidden video

is he cheating

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tendaheart2002 no, I would not do that. There are a few reasons why I would not do it. First, trust us very important to me. If you can't trust him why be with him? I never quite understood that. Plus you know whatthey say seek and ye shall find. Sometimes I think you might...

12 Aug 07

What do you think about Pre-nups?

nikkiwith @nikkiwith (1074) • Australia 12 Aug 07

If i met a guy and he had a lot more money than me or vice-versa then i'd have no problems in signing a "pre-nup" A lot of people see it as a sign of mistrust, i don't, i see it as a sign of "better being safe than sorry". If you...

relationships

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tendaheart2002 I personaly don't have a problem with them. I actually think there is a time and a place for them. And honestly what is the problem if you are married for love? I can't see how someone would have an issue unless they are in the relationship solely for money....

12 Aug 07

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How often do you ask people to check out your My Lot profile?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 12 Aug 07

For the past few weeks I've heard lots of members requesting that others check out their My Lot profile. And, that's not really my style. I figure if someone wants to know which businesses that I'm associated with, they'll just...

chat with friends

check out my profile page

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tendaheart2002 I actually don't ever ask anyone to check mine out. Maybe I would get more responses lol if I did. I guess I fell that people that are really interested in the site or the topics I write about will check it out. Neber really gave it that much thought, but I do...

12 Aug 07

What movies make you cry?

breepeace @breepeace (3014) • Canada 11 Aug 07

What are the movies that send you over the edge when it comes to turning you into a weeping heap, where you end up totally finished and unable to breathe? Mine are "Pay it Forward", "Legends of the Fall", "The Green Mile"...

chick flicks

legends of the fall

movies

movies that make you cry

tearjerkers

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tendaheart2002 I cry when I watch older movies like "beaches", they touch my heart. Any movie wher you have a mother that gets really ill, or a child is abandoned The flood gates open, it probably sounds crazy but so true. Ever since I had my son, I have been like that even...

11 Aug 07

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How often do you buy underwear?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 23 Jun 07

Going through my lingerie drawer today, I realized it's been awhile since I've purchased under-garmets. Not that there's anything wrong with the stuff I already have. But, occasionally a gal likes to have something new to...

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tendaheart2002 I buy them as often as I can. It allows me to feel feminine under my clothes, even if I am wearing jeans and a tee shirt.

23 Jun 07

Looking for some advice on "being too nice".

hockeygal4ever @hockeygal4ever (10021) • United States 23 Jun 07

Ok, here's my situation. I am a nice person. I am nice to EVERYONE. Being nice to you does NOT mean I'm in love with you. It does not mean I want to date you. It means I am a kind hearted person and I prefer to be kind and...

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tendaheart2002 you have your self in quite the situation. It is never easy when you are known for being so nice. I have had that in the past. Unfortunantely you will have to be blunt and a little crass to get your point across if your nicer methods have not worked. Just let...

23 Jun 07

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What are you thoughts on Polygamy?

warmweatherwoman @warmweatherwoman (2233) • Atlantic City, New Jersey 23 Jun 07

I recently had a discussion with a friend about polygamy. He questioned whether men are really made to be with only one woman- maybe that is the answer to cheating husbands. I disagreed with him. Not that I am against polygamy, I...

polygamy

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tendaheart2002 I agree with you. It seems like it would be an easy copout. However there are people that believe in this way of life, and I don't judge them, but for me that would never work.

23 Jun 07

Did you have your wedding in your back yard or a church?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 23 Jun 07

The other day I was watching an episode of Friends where Phoebe got married in a New York city alley. And, it made wonder if people in real life actually get married outdoors. Honestly, I've only ever been to one outdoor...

have a wedding in the backyard

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tendaheart2002 Everyone I know has been rather traditional and done it in a church. That is until recently, a friend of mine was married on the beach, it was amazing. I would like mine to be in a beautiful garden, surrounded by flowers and the people I know and love.

23 Jun 07

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She's mad at me for listening in on her phone conversation...

foxyfire33 @foxyfire33 (10005) • United States 23 Jun 07

No, this isn't something that I normally do. My oldest daughter's father called the other day and I picked up the other phone to listen. I don't trust him at all because he's lied to her and said so many horrible things to her in...

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tendaheart2002 Well I understand your point as well as that of your daughter. I think that as long as you have a trusting and open relationship with your daughter there is no need to listen to the phone conversations. I know when my son talks to his father I cring at the...

23 Jun 07

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