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lilmrsarata @lilmrsarata (240) • United States 11 Jun 07

Today my husband and i have been together for 3 years...2 of which we have been married for......lately we have been arguing and bickering A LOT!! we have found all the ways to make eachother angry and do it in spite of...

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tippy1124 You're very welcome. I know how it feels. I was completelt devastated when they found it, so if you ever want to talk about it, just let me know. They're are also a lot of great websites out there dedicated solely to PCOD.

12 Jun 07

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 12 Jun 07

Most women don't choose to be single parents, it just happens. Marriages and relationships end, and then you're stuck raising the kids by yourself. And, there's no easy way to prepare for it. Guys don't think about the...

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tippy1124 I do feel that I could have provided better for my son financially had his father and I stayed together, but that's about it. I wonder sometimes how things would differ if we hadn't split, but I don't think he's being deprived of anything. He visits his father...

12 Jun 07

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 11 Jun 07

I am concerned that I'm not doing enough to help my daughter prepare for kindergarten. It's been easier getting her ready for preschool since we got her a computer. The computer games have made all the difference in the world...

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tippy1124 Well, I know I felt the same way when I was trying to prepare my son for kindergarten. I was always doing stuff with him to try to help, but then I realized one day that he wasn't picking anything up. He'd go through the alphabet perfectly one day and not...

12 Jun 07

brendakaya @brendakaya (2332) • United States 11 Jun 07

Is there any right way to deal with an alcoholic husband? I have been married for almost 33 years to one, and no matter what I do, it's the wrong thing. I honestly don't feel like I love this man anymore, and I feel I would be...

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tippy1124 When you find out, let me know please. I have the same problem except for the fact that I do love him very much. About 90% of the time, he's the most sensitive, romantic, loving man I've ever met. Then you have the binges. When he gets depressed, worried about...

12 Jun 07

lilmrsarata @lilmrsarata (240) • United States 11 Jun 07

Today my husband and i have been together for 3 years...2 of which we have been married for......lately we have been arguing and bickering A LOT!! we have found all the ways to make eachother angry and do it in spite of...

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tippy1124 The responses suggesting that you talk to your doctor are correct. I just wanted to let you know that I was also diagnosed with Polycystic Ovary Disease a few years ago. I have one child, but I can't have anymore. Don't think that your depression is coming...

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ktroth @ktroth (378) • United States 8 Feb 07

OMG--my 8-year-old went crazy on me tonight. I swear I have never met this kid in my life! He is normally so sweet and easy going. He's not perfect, by any means, but has never spoken to me the way he did tonight. I took away...

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tippy1124 If he's never been disrespectful to you before, it kind of sounds to me like he may just be testing his "boundaries" with you. He saw the child in his class do it and he may have been curious as tho see what the reaction would be if he did it also.

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slickcut @slickcut (8141) • United States 4 Feb 07

Hi, i have a friend that I feel is abused ,but not pysically,she is a sad woman but claims to love her husband,she is a friend of mine and I don,t think she realizes this...I say not physically because her husband don,t hit her...

is this abuse of some kind spousel abuse you tel

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tippy1124 I really do wish you the best of luck with that. You're right though, she may not know. I didn't until someone else pointed it out.

8 Feb 07

limosonia1 @limosonia1 (1559) • United States 5 Feb 07

Ok my stepdaughter is turning 16 her mom is throwing her a party of course we aren't invite no big deal. My problems is we asked what she wanted for her birthday and she stated she wants her (DAD)to take her out to dinner and...

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tippy1124 I'm really sorry to hear that you're having to go through all that. From your first discussion, I didn't realize that she was being so intolerable. I do think that he needs to have a serious talk with her. For God's sake, she's 16? She's acting like I did...

8 Feb 07

funundersun @funundersun (118) • Malaysia 4 Feb 07

Sometimes i see kids of my friends are very indisciplined and stubborn. They do not listen to anyone if the parents are not around. Is it okay to spank kids at that time to control them? If you are a parent then would you allow...

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tippy1124 I agree with mrslitz. Besides, if you have the time to sit there and explain to the child why they're being spanked, then you have the time to sit there and explain to them what they've done wrong and why it was wrong. I never want my son to feel the way...

5 Feb 07

kris2080 @kris2080 (157) • Philippines 5 Feb 07

Does it really affect your kids when a couple separates? Or it really depends how you explain t to your children why you are separating?

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tippy1124 It really depends on how old the child(ren) is. My son's father and I separated when he was 2 years old, so I never saw any kind of behavioral or emotional change. Not to say that it doesn't affect him. He is 6 now and his father lives in Maryland and I in...

5 Feb 07

limosonia1 @limosonia1 (1559) • United States 5 Feb 07

Ok my stepdaughter is turning 16 her mom is throwing her a party of course we aren't invite no big deal. My problems is we asked what she wanted for her birthday and she stated she wants her (DAD)to take her out to dinner and...

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tippy1124 As a step-mom myself, I think I know how you're feeling. You said that she "took advantage" of him last time? How so? I'm assuming she was buying things that her mother dissaproved of. If that's the case, I would tell him to sit her down and talk to her...

5 Feb 07

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apky12 @apky12 (769) • United States 5 Feb 07

My children aren't in daycare b/c I'm a SAHM but I know a lot of people who send their kids to daycare. A lot of times they still send their kids to daycare if they have the day off. It's a good time to get errands done and all...

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tippy1124 Really I think it has more to do with what kind of daycare you're taking them to. My best friend does this on her days off and it's not because she wants the free time. The daycare they attend is a sort of pre-school type daycare. Since they started going...

5 Feb 07

dragonstar1 @dragonstar1 (330) 5 Aug 08

I'm not sure how many people will have heard of this alternative health concept. I spent many months looking in to these substances and could only find good feedback regarding them. There was even info advising that these...

tippy1124 I'm not sure how many people will have heard of this alternative health concept. I spent many months looking in to these substances and could only find good feedback regarding them. There was even info advising that these were being used in cancer care...

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rurandi @rurandi (5) • Canada 5 Feb 07

I have a 2 and a half year old son, who will not potty train! My son will go as for as asking to go and then sitting on the potty, but NOTHING ever...err... comes out! I have tried bribbing him with candy and making sticker...

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tippy1124 I also tried bribing my son with candy, to no avail. We have a store in my town that sells nothing but things to aide in the raising of children and I had been there many times, so the next time I went in I asked the cashier if they had anything to aide in...

5 Feb 07

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all4ucnc @all4ucnc (861) • United States 5 Feb 07

It doesn't matter if its over a toy, Him getting in trouble, He cries when his sister is hurt, He cries over everything!! Now I know that women always say that they wish their man was more sensitive, and not afraid to show some...

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tippy1124 I just wanted to let you know that you're not alone. My son is 6 and he's the exact same way. In fact, he's been that way since he started talking. I was really worried about it, so I took him to see the pediatrician. She said that sometimes small children...

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slickcut @slickcut (8141) • United States 4 Feb 07

Hi, i have a friend that I feel is abused ,but not pysically,she is a sad woman but claims to love her husband,she is a friend of mine and I don,t think she realizes this...I say not physically because her husband don,t hit her...

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tippy1124 I noticed that you said she has 5 children with him. Sometimes women are more apt to put up with emotional abuse when there are children involved. I know this from my own experience. Everything you said about her, was me. I know you don't want her to know...

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queenajasmina @queenajasmina (449) • United States 4 Feb 07

so its 4 am and I can't sleep. Maybe because I have so many things going on in my mind. I just need a release of some of these feelings that i have. i really do not know what is wrong with me. I feel really lazy, I do not want to...

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tippy1124 One question first. Do you know what happened to cause these "feelings" that you're having? I've read a few of the other responses and I agree that it sounds like you're depressed. I had my own bout with depression and it eventually got so bad that I was...

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