tsolman

@tsolman (47)

Canada • Age 52

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Guess what I got today?

hoghoney @hoghoney (3747) • United States 25 Mar 07

For the last 4 days there has been little dog running lose in our neighborhood and no one seams to be claiming it so I took it in today, it was so hungry and I got her some food and water. Some of the people in town thinks that...

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tsolman I like to think that things happen for a reason. I think that you and the new dog needed each other for some reason. I have never "bought" a pet. They always seem to find me. Kudos to you for taking the step and bringing the little guy inside. Now as a person...

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WooHoo, Free Money?!?

deesamps @deesamps (653) • United States 25 Mar 07

Ok, say you are walking through the parking lot to Wal-mart and you happen to look down and see an evelope with some money sticking out. So you reach down and pick it up and wrote on the evelope is the words rent money and inside...

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tsolman This is a tough question. As a believer in the LOA money that comes to you is yours. However that being said I too have had large money lost. I do have to wonder at where my head was at when I lost it, but that's neither here nor there. I, like many others...

26 Mar 07

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SUNDAY DINNER with your FAMILY, is this a thing of the PAST??

texasclassygal @texasclassygal (5305) • United States 25 Mar 07

I remember the days when we all sat down to dinner on Sunday and had a huge Sunday dinner with the entire family, it was always a roast or something that was done especially for Sunday. Seems these days in the hussle and bustle of...

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tsolman I have Sunday dinner regularly with my family. This is actually something I cherish (even if my hubby doesn't!) It isn't always the whole family as we all do have seperate lives but it is offered every week. My hubby (who didn't have the same kind of family...

26 Mar 07

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Do You take Your Pets with You?

princeworthy @princeworthy (1909) • United States 10 Mar 07

Do you take your pets in the car with you? If yes where do you take them? If not why don't you take them? I ask this because I see alot of dogs in cars at the mall, Walmart, etc... and I wondered how many people actually take...

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tsolman Our dog loves the car. We will only take him on certain conditions. We live in an area that has both extreme temps. So if its too hot or too cold he stays home. Add to that he can only come if we know we are making a quick stop any long shopping and again he...

11 Mar 07

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friend

fantasticlady56 @fantasticlady56 (197) • Philippines 11 Mar 07

how do you help a hurting friend?

hurt

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tsolman It really depends on how they are hurting. Physical? Emotional? Because of a friend, lover, parent, boss? Really in the grand scheme of things the best way to help a hurting friend is to be there in what ever way they need you. Sometimes listening, sometimes...

11 Mar 07

Relationship splits - can you still be friends???

mummymo @mummymo (23706) 11 Mar 07

Thing is my marriage split up years ago - we have always been civil to one another (despite some bitterness on both sides) for the sake of our son if nothing else! My ex seems to appreciate the fact that I've bent over backwards...

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tsolman I always find it odd at how angry people get at one another. Especially since they had to have loved one another at one point. I have been "lucky" enough to have remianed friends with all of my long term relationships. One was such a good friend after that my...

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My anniversary present is what?!

soccermom @soccermom (3198) • United States 9 Mar 07

Our anniversary is tomorrow, the kids are at grandmas, just time for the two of us. YAY! So I asked my hubby if we are doing anything special, I know we're not, but I still ask. He says he wants me to go get a tatoo! That he'll...

anniversary

present

tatoos

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tsolman You've been married for how long? And he knows you well enough to suggest a tattoo as an aniversary gift? Wow! And I thought that my hubby and I were on different wavelengths about things! My suggestion is Under No Circumstances should you get a tattoo if...

11 Mar 07

Negative People - Do they frustrate you as much as they do me?

mrsanderson @mrsanderson (271) • United States 23 Feb 07

I try my best everyday to wake up and be positive. If I find myself feeling crabby I remind myself of the good things in my life. Granted I have bad days, but those days I try to keep to myself so as not to "infect" others with my...

crabby people

negative attitudes

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tsolman I just responded to another post about negativity and the same goes here. I find myself becomming more and more distant from people in general because of all the negativity they spew. I really try hard to see the silver lining in all situations and I have been...

10 Mar 07

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Loneliness

happylim @happylim (658) • Malaysia 6 Mar 07

Some people like to be a lone traveller in their life. Some people are scare of loneliness. How about you? Please share with us your opinion.

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tsolman I'm kind of at this weird stage in my life. I have a husband who I adore spending time with (even though we have very different interests)and I have my family and a few good friends. However as of late I find that I like spending less and less time with other...

10 Mar 07

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Which print magazines do you read regularly?

prasanta @prasanta (1948) • India 10 Mar 07

Which print magazines do you read regularly? I read Business World, Business Today, Osho Times.

business today

business world

magazines

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tsolman I will admit to having frivolous reading habits. I read US weekly (well weekly!) I also read my husbands woodturning mags and I will occationally pick up a quilting mag

10 Mar 07

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Do you like the beauty of flowers?

poom2007 @poom2007 (93) • Mauritius 8 Mar 07

I like flowers very much especially for their beautiful colours and nice smell.What about you?

flowers

plants

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tsolman I love flowers. Enough so that I went into business with my mom as a florist. We were great florists just not great business people (had to put in under at 5 yrs) I miss the beauty and the smells. I miss the creativity that the shop allowed me to have...

10 Mar 07

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It's My Birthday ho hum

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 6 Mar 07

Yep it is after midnight so it is March 6 my birthday. I don't think it will be very eventful. The new year has not been very good for me. I am trying my hardest to find a job, and I cannot find one anywhere. I can't pay my bills....

birthday blues

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tsolman I do hope that your birthday ended up better than you made it sound like it was gonna be. Only you have the choice on how things will be. I do wish you the best for the next year, happy belated!

10 Mar 07

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Should you take the husbands' last name when you get married???

Starline @Starline (681) • United States 9 Mar 07

When I got married to my husband I wanted to be connected with him so I added his last name to my last name so now I have two. I felt bad to my parents if I would give up the name that connects me with them, and so I ended up...

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tsolman I have no real issue either way. In my case I didn't take his name because my credit is better than his and it was better for us for me to keep my own. Later I'll change it but for now it doesn't make sense. I've already had to change my last name, when I got...

10 Mar 07

When your dog/cat dies will you get another or do you feel like I do?

jbrowsin66 @jbrowsin66 (1321) • United States 9 Mar 07

As much as I love my pets (and the rewards have been plentiful), when my three pets die, I want to finally have a home free of pet hair, no litter boxes to clean daily, no getting up at 6 am to let the dog out, no making the...

finished with pets

teeth cleaning

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tsolman I've had pets my whole life and the one short time when I was petless was awful. I don't believe in replacing a pet but certainly opening your heart to another furchild when the time is right is definately not a bad thing. I can relate to the bad side of...

10 Mar 07

Watching TV - is it a waste of time?

whyaskq @whyaskq (7523) • Singapore 10 Mar 07

I used to stay glued to the TV screen daily from 9pm to 1am. Many tell me I am wasting my time. A friend even tell me that if I want to succeed, don't watch tv. Successful people do not watch TV. I have also read reports...

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tsolman I admit to being addicted to TV. However I can't justify not doing anything but watching TV for the amount of time that I watch, so I've taken to doing crafts.. knitting, quilting or something else that actually accomplishes something So therefore when I watch...

10 Mar 07

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Do you sleep with your pets?

littlemoo @littlemoo (317) • Australia 10 Mar 07

Personally, I could never sleep with an animal in my bed. I just couldn't handle the thought of having a dog or cat sharing my bed, with all their germs, licking my face and waking me up, etc. I think I could handle sleeping with...

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tsolman During the actual night when I share my bed with my husband the dog is relocated to his own bed (on the floor) the cat however tends to sleep at my feet (my hubby moves lots and kicks her off, whereas I am like the dead and barely move) Now come morning its a...

10 Mar 07

Listen - do you want to know a secret? Do you promise not to tell........?

rosie_123 @rosie_123 (6113) 9 Mar 07

So - come on - be honest. How are you at keeping secrets? If someone confides in you, or you hear some rumour, gossip, or scandal at work, or in school, - are you the strong, silent type, or do you burst until you tell someone...

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tsolman I will admit to passing gossip but I strongly adhere to the not telling when someone has told me in confidence. If I absolutely have to share what I've heard I may tell my mom because it's never gonna get back to the person involved.

10 Mar 07

Vampire Books

emeraldisle @emeraldisle (13139) • United States 21 Feb 07

I happen to love reading books about vampires. I've read many different ones over the years. They all seem to take from different legends and then add to them or diverge totally from the legends. I'm always on the look out for new...

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tsolman I have recently come across a new writer named J R Ward, her take on vamps is great and we get introdcued to a new breed of evil. The books are (for all purposes) romance novels but the vamps are awesome! She only has a few books written in the series so far...

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do you think pitbulls should be put down?

jasonsaunt922 @jasonsaunt922 (2) • United States 31 Jan 07

there is a law that they are trying to pass in cal. that all pits should be put down.do you agree with this? why do you and why dont you?

dogs

pitbulls

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tsolman I live in a city where these dogs have been banned. So because I've had my dog longer than the bylaw I get to keep him...but... I now have to muzzle him. Now my dog is the biggest suck around (all about the love!) and has never been forced to wear one. I think...

10 Mar 07

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Who would have guessed!!!

rachelzwo @rachelzwo (310) • United States 5 Mar 07

Ok, I'm totally obsessed with Heros. I think it's a great show. Who would have guessed that the Petrelli mom new the whole time about everything? I would have never guessed!

heros

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tsolman LOVE THIS SHOW! Or I guess I love the concept of people have powers outside the norm. I think we are still in the dark about alot including the Mom. I'm currently more interested in Hiro's character. His dad is one of the head guys and yet doesn't know his own...

10 Mar 07