urbandekay

@urbandekay (18278)

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i was offended by this remark of a vegetarian...

dagami @dagami (1158) • Rome, Italy 25 Apr 13

we attended a dinner party some time ago and there were plenty of people there. it turned out that one of the guests was a vegetarian but there was no problem since the hostess knew about it beforehand and special food for that...

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urbandekay It appears to be just a statement of truth, where in lies the offence? all the best, urban

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What is the best age to marry?

marsh1elle @marsh1elle (48) 22 Apr 13

Love is everywhere, they say. People, nowadays, are very practical to their lives. They highly prioritize their career than their marriage. How good and how bad is it? What are your perspectives regarding to marriage? What are the...

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urbandekay 98 all the best, urban

22 Apr 13

Seriously Mother? Serioulsy? That is so Sad! And then he Laughed!

cynthiann @cynthiann (18602) • Jamaica 22 Apr 13

I mentioned before that I am going through boxes of personal papers and letters and hundreds of photos. I am making a collage of family photos to frame. So I picked out one and took it to my son to show him. Look at this I...

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urbandekay When my clothes get old I either wear them for working in till they drop to pieces or sell them all the best, urban

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Painted my daughters fingernails today...

kemak28 @kemak28 (724) • United States 22 Apr 13

I painted my daughter's fingernails today. She's almost 2 years old. Didn't think I'd be painting her nails already but she saw me doing mine and got so excited about the colors of all my nailpolish bottles and wanted hers done. I...

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nailpolish

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urbandekay Sick, sick, sick all the best, urban

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Diet Tips

lologirl2021 (Holly) @lologirl2021 (5542) • United States 22 Apr 13

Of Course everyone has diet tips and what to do to loose weight. Instead of excersising and still being yourself throughout the day what is your way of eating healthy and deiting to loose weight without exercising. Diets are a big...

dieting

eating healthy

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urbandekay Alternate day fasting, not only helps you maintain a healthy weight but has significant health benefits reducing the incidence of cardio-vascular disease, diabetes and cancer by reducing the level of ILGF all the best, urban

22 Apr 13

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Can you really cook a healthy meal in 10 minutes

lologirl2021 (Holly) @lologirl2021 (5542) • United States 22 Apr 13

I read all the time that you can make a healthy meal in 10 minutes but i feel at times it takes me 10 minutes jsut to cut up and make a salad for dinner well alone now cooking something with the salad. Tell me how you make a meal...

cooking

healthy meals

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urbandekay In 10 minute I can cook the following most excellently healthy meals. 1. Porridge 2. Sardine on vegimite toast 3. Smoked mackerel with broad beans and probably some others all the best, urban

22 Apr 13

Romans 7: No Sin without Law, but Law Is 'Only the Messenger'?

Uncle Jay, Finding More Value in Your Machine @mythociate (21432) • Oklahoma City, Oklahoma 20 Apr 13

I've 'meditated on this Scripture' (i.e. rehd it, slept &/or distracted-myself for a while, then remembered it), and I see that it's kinda saying "we wouldn't know sin except for the law, but the law doesn't MAKE the sins but only...

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urbandekay "Lucifer---the former-archangel whose name means 'light-bringer,' who probably mostly got demoted for showing us too much of the truth" Were do you get that from? all the best, urban

21 Apr 13

Shouldnt rapists' family also be held responsible for their wrongs?

vanny @vandana7 (100249) • India 21 Apr 13

Recently a five year old has been raped in India, and some horrendous stuff has been done. I am inclined to encourage people to start denying the family of such a rapist any social respect, and go to the length of turning them...

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urbandekay Your argument is flawed here "Family always knows the nature of its family member..." This is not true all the best, urban

21 Apr 13

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People who speaks tactlessly...how to handle them....

airasheila @airasheila (5454) • Philippines 21 Apr 13

Good day Fellow Mylotters, I can't really explain why for some reason, people will just speak tactlessly. As in they will not really think first the words that they going to say. Thus, I wonder what if they are the ones who...

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urbandekay Plain speaking is a virtue, let your aye be aye and your nay be nay. Fine words butter no parsnips all the best, urban

21 Apr 13

Compromise

debrakcarey @debrakcarey (19887) • United States 8 Apr 13

What are your thoghts on compromise? Listen to this short video Ayn Rand's ideas, then let me know what you think. Should we compromise by giving in to what we morally see as wrong? Thanks....

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urbandekay Why would anyone want to listen to such a poor psuedo-philosopher as Rand, who has been thoroughly discredited all the best, urban

19 Apr 13

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Grammarand sentence recommendation from a minister a letter ,,

RUBESH @Manasha (2735) • Pondicherry, India 19 Apr 13

An individual wants me to write a letter to a minister(high position in our state) requesting him to recommend for my daughter's entry into a new school ,first standard. My daughter has finished UKG in different school and now she...

letters

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urbandekay Dear Sir, (Unless you know his name in which case begin, Dear Mr NAME) I write in the hope that you may be willing to recommend my daughter (Her name) for... Yours, Your signature Your name Dear Madam (If you know her name begin Dear Ms...

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Why don’t you just ignore them?

Frederick42 @Frederick42 (2024) • Canada 18 Apr 13

Often we come across fanatics who say that we will go to hell if we do not believe in Jesus Christ as lord and savior. Some of us become angry or irritated with such people. We start debating with them. Why don’t we just ignore...

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urbandekay What was that, did I hear something? Can't see anyone (Stares vacantly into the distance) all the best, urban

19 Apr 13

Do you think jealousy among couples is healthy for a relation?

urvisimba @urvisimba (31) • India 15 Apr 13

I have seen loads and loads of couples fight for the most petty reasons and then they end up suspecting each other getting jealous and breaking off the beautiful relationship. I wonder if getting jealous of your partner all the...

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urbandekay No, it is the enemy of love; love is trusting, is not easily provoked and thinks no evil, If you abandon suspicion you may get hurt or you may not but if you don't you will ruin every relationship all the best, urban

15 Apr 13

British accent is terrible

LegalAlien @LegalAlien (641) • Serbia 6 Apr 13

Okey i consider myself as a very good English speaker. I have grown up in a multicultural country and the one language that was always used for all the people to communicate was English. Foreigners and natives alike. So i can...

british accent

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urbandekay Which British accent, there are probably more here than the total of other English accents elsewhere. Contrary to popular opinion, English was the official language first, not in England but in Scotland. For me, English spoken in a Polish accent, all in the...

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The Enforcer!!!!

bird123 @bird123 (10643) • United States 12 Apr 13

Holy books have their rules. People think their holy book comes directly from God. Do people feel they should be the Enforcers of these holy books and rules?? Does God really need Enforcers?? Does God really want...

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urbandekay The rules are practical guidance to promote human flourishing all the best, urban

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I'm tired of seeing fat bellies all over the place!!

katsmeow1213 @katsmeow1213 (28716) • United States 10 Apr 13

I'm getting tired of seeing all the same ads all over the place. Seems every site has a bunch of the same ads up. One of the popular ads I see on sites like Mylot and Gather is the weight loss one where they're showing a fat...

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internet

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urbandekay I agree about fat ads, what is the matter with these people that cannot control what they eat? Being a person means taking control of yourself, not just indulging your desires, that is just being an animal. all the best, urban

11 Apr 13

Another Question LOL

debrakcarey @debrakcarey (19887) • United States 10 Apr 13

Ever wonder why in the sixties the younger generation on the left were pushing for radicalism, questioning the status quo, rebelling against the government and colleges and the over thirty crowd was mistrusted, and we were told...

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urbandekay The dove it will be bought again, bought and sold and bought again, the dove is never free all the best, urban

11 Apr 13

Ashamed To Be British....

robspeakman @robspeakman (1700) 10 Apr 13

I have always thought that being British, made us different from the rest of the World. Granted we can come across as a little odd and it can seem as though we are laughing at a private joke. We have always had so much to be...

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urbandekay I am no fan of that most destructive of politicians but would not wish to celebrate the death of anyone and am a little appalled by those that did all the best, urban

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Do you like to talk with strangers on the road or street?

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 10 Apr 13

Today I feel embarrassing or occward when a person was talking me about computer class. Suddenly she called me Madam one minute I stop the vehicle but he start the inquiry about Computer class I say him please came on Institute...

talking on road

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urbandekay What a sorry kind of life when we are afeared of our fellow man all the best, urban

10 Apr 13

no meat during holy week

asliah @asliah (11137) • Philippines 2 Apr 13

do you still believe in this and why?because many people in my country still believe in this kind of Filipino belief,no meat during holy week so people especially in province never sell any pork and meat in the market and the...

meat

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urbandekay I don't eat meat but practice partial fasting for lent all the best, urban

10 Apr 13