vickylao

@vickylao (46)

Philippines • Age 40

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life is beautiful!

tinker_bel @tinker_bel (297) • Philippines 21 Sep 11

just this morning as i walking towards my work, i saw this beautiful bird singing on a lamp post. it seems like he doesnt have any problems and just staring at the passersby. this made me thinking, what is this bird thinking?...

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vickylao yes life is like a bowl of cherries.Though there are hardships in life but still life is beautiful.

21 Sep 11

Can you forgive then forget? Why?

bessyjanmayi @bessyjanmayi (278) • Philippines 20 Sep 11

The word forgiveness is just an easy word but very hard to do. Sometimes you may think that you can never forgive that person especially if he/she shames you or did a very cruel thing to you. It is even hard to forget. But we...

forgive and forget

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vickylao Yes the word forgiveness is just an easy word but it's easier said than done. Actually time can heal all the wound in our heart and it's really hard to forgive especially if the wound is too fresh but give more time to heal you can forgive but you can't...

20 Sep 11

The Joys of Living Alone

artistic_temper @artistic_temper (83) • Philippines 19 Sep 11

I'm currently living by myself. I used to have a roommate but he was so much trouble so I decided to boot him out. At first, it was kinda lonely being alone. But I realized it was also very liberating. No one to bother me, I got...

living alone

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vickylao Hi artistic_temper, You got a good decision to live alone anyway you can choose your own roommates and though it's a little bit lonely but you'll be used to.I would rather live alone than to live with someone whom doesn't care to care. Yes, it's true that...

20 Sep 11

Countdown to Christmas

astreadido @astreadido (608) • Philippines 19 Sep 11

It's only 96 days to go before Christmas (I know I should have posted when it was still 100 days, but I have limited internet access particularly on weekends). Here in the Philippines, Christmas season begins with the coming of...

christmas

holidays

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vickylao Yes, it's true that Christmas is just in the corner. Then you can really feel the breeze of December but I don't think most of the Filipinos are happy because of their bonuses.I beg to disagree that this is for the future use, most of the bonuses are consumed...

20 Sep 11

What's the best way to fall asleep?

stuckonu @stuckonu (726) • Philippines 19 Sep 11

Sometimes I woke up at around 1AM and i can no longer sleep. I've tried drinking hot milk, listening to a relaxing music and even counting sheeps, but none of them works. Do you know an effective way of falling back asleep, as...

effective

music

sleep

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vickylao I think it would be better if you gotta ask the doctor and have an advice on how to go back to sleep in a natural way.But I think it would be better if you take vitamins.

20 Sep 11

The Tutor in Me

dorisday1971 @dorisday1971 (5657) • Philippines 18 Sep 11

Teaching is my passion. I love to teach, literally teaching inside the classroom. I feel so happy when I see students understand what I say and it is an additional bonus when I see them graduate and pass the board exam. Now...

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vickylao Hello dorisday1971, Yes teaching is fun but teachers aren't paid well especially in private sector. For example English tutorial, the teachers aren't compensated well and they're exploited their knowledge but the compensation isn't enough.In addition most of...

19 Sep 11

do you make sure a work assigned to you is done before the dealine?

churchill1980 @churchill1980 (764) • Philippines 15 Sep 11

it's 1:00am here in the Philippines and i am not asleep yet. i am completing the work i bring home from the office because i want to make sure that it is done and complete before it will be asked from me. i was tasked to take the...

work

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vickylao it's actually good to do that as long as you're compensated in doing that but if not I'm not sure if I have the guts to do that. There are times that I'm also running out of time doing my tasks.You're such a good employee. Keep up the great job..

16 Sep 11

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Is Life Unfair?

bessyjanmayi @bessyjanmayi (278) • Philippines 15 Sep 11

I could hear some people who would say that Life is so unfair especially if they are in the verge of trials and problems. But life is really unfair? For me, Life became fair when I allowed Jesus to come to my heart and He promise...

life is fair

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vickylao Life is unfair sometimes especially if you don't know how to solve some adversities in your life. But let Jesus be in the center of your life,everything is all to Jesus. Anyhow, life is like a bowl of cherries and it's balance. Since we are just human that is...

16 Sep 11

I don't dare to have kid because I'm not sure that I'll feed him/her well

Polang @tkonlinevn (6438) • Vietnam 15 Sep 11

After getting married, I and my husband have a little difficult about finance. So, we don't dare to have kid right. We want to save some amount to guarantee that we can care our kid with the best conditions. My friends...

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vickylao hello tkonlinevn,, I also don't have kids now, you got a good decision. You don't need to be pressured by your environment.If you feel that you have can't feed them well, then would have them? You me be hurt one day looking at them that they're at rick...

16 Sep 11

I am just frustrated

LetranKnight25 @LetranKnight25 (33121) • Philippines 14 Sep 11

But not to the point of being hysterical When ever distraction comes along i would stop or hesitate to do exercise, i don't understand it anymore. having discipline in loosing weight and diet is HARD. i still have...

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vickylao Hello,, Try to accept the blessing that you have.Diet isn't that bad but it can't do nothing if you're not really willing to go on diet.In my opinion, it must also go with self-discipline and willingness. Exercise is just a routine task to do for our health...

15 Sep 11

How do we handle FAILURE..??

bond027 @bond027 (107) • India 15 Sep 11

Hello Friends! Life I think is full of surprises.So there is not only success which you achieve, sometimes you also go through failure...!!I have also seen failure and I must say they are really come as surprise and occur when...

life

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vickylao hello bondo27, Life is full of surprises as you've said and part of it is to fail sometimes. Life is nothing without trials and challenges then failure is part of life's trial. Well, handling trials depending upon how strong you are to face it.It doesn't...

15 Sep 11

Long Distance Relationship

jissecacalado @jissecacalado (2) 15 Sep 11

I experienced long distance relationship.My boyfriend live in Caloocan while me live in Quezon city.It's hard to have a long distance relationship it is different if he is here with me,you can hug and kisses in real,but now we are...

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vickylao hello there, I do understand how you feel maybe because you're still young enough to handle this kind of relationship. But it'll help you a lot to be more mature in handling a long distance relationship like this. As a teenager, that is a normal feelings but...

15 Sep 11

trust: can you get trust back?

mommytam @mommytam (17) 15 Sep 11

I went threw divorce and with my ex husband i trusted him but was betrayed.now i have a wonderful guy but its hard for me to trust he wont do the same things. he desvers it but its hard to give it.

love

reationships

trust

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vickylao Hello mommytam, Speaking of TRUST, this is really hard to give and I do understand you now but I guess you have to gauge first the time that you've been with that person because once you've given your trust and you trusted to someone, you might be...

15 Sep 11

What comes to your mind when you hear the word "Muslim"?

marzhanas @marzhanas (1) 15 Sep 11

Last night as we were watching a news program on television, my cousin suddenly told me that when she hears the word Muslim the first thing that pops into her mind is terrorists. I cannot blame my cousin for having a...

stereotypes for muslims

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vickylao Hello marzhanas, For me, when I hear the word Muslim, there is a part of mind that says negative perception for them. But as you've said in your blog that you went to Middle East and they treated you fairly, therefore I can say that Muslim are just like...

15 Sep 11

Shocking news? 50th Birthday of conjoined twins

smilywomen @surekharathi (14146) • India 14 Sep 11

I read this latest news the world's oldest conjoined twins are completed their 50 years of age and now will celebrate their 50th birthday on sunday and really this is horrible and how God gift..When I see I shocked and I know you...

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vickylao hello surekharathi, This is really an incredible news. God is really good all the time and this news make me think how lucky we are to be born normal in this world.50 years life longevity is quite long for conjugal twins.But they deserved it to let s...

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