viewpoint

@viewpoint (137)

Philippines • Age 55

Joined myLot 17 years ago

“You never really understand a person until you consider things from his point of view"

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How do I say I love you without saying it?

shanshyne9 @shanshyne9 (49) • Philippines 20 May 08

Do you have any suggestions? Thanks in advance!:)

love

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viewpoint Actions speak louder than words. You can show your love by showing how much you care. The mere "How are you today?" would show that you care about how this person is. Constant smiles, phone calls, text messages are other ways to show that you love the person.

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If you were to be granted one wish, what would it be?

hanirose @hanirose (307) • Philippines 21 May 08

If I was to be granted one wish, I'd wish that I'd be a kid again. I miss being a kid. Being a kid means you don't have to worry a lot because you can't understand things. You know less of what's happening to the world. The only...

life

perspective

wish

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viewpoint Just one wish? Thats to have our own home, complete with everything the family needs. And if there were a second wish, I wish that wish would come true real soon!

21 May 08

Would you stay in a relationship if you were unhappy all the time?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 21 May 08

I don't think I could stand being in a loveless relationship of marriage. I'm not sure that I would have the heart to leave either. Sometimes other people, like spouses come to rely on you for many other things than love. So,...

my life

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viewpoint Nope, I can't stay in a relationship if it were loveless. Life would be terribly miserable. It is difficult to live under the same roof with someone you cannot feel love for.

21 May 08

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Do you avoid your spouse when he's in an argumentative mood?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 21 May 08

Yesterday was particularly bad for us. It rained all day. And, noone was in a good mood. Honestly, I should have gone outside and sat on the porch and avoided everyone all day. But, being a mom, that wasn't a realistic option. I...

arguments with you spouse you would love to avoid

my life

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viewpoint Most of the time I am like you. I try not to engage in arguments, but when he says something that isn't true, I have that urge to correct it right away. That makes the issue longer. I would also prefer to just keep away and keep my mouth shut so that we don't...

21 May 08

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are you close?

roanne05 @roanne05 (1290) • Oman 21 May 08

are you close to your cousin??well i have 1 cousin that is close to me...

cousins

relationship

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viewpoint I have many cousins, but only 1 is close to me. However, we don't see each other much because she lives far away from us, except when she comes to visit us. She would send me messages often and that keeps us in constant communication with each other.

21 May 08

What do you think about this?

lorelai @lorelai (1558) • Italy 20 May 08

I went out tonight with my friend and her boyfriend. They are both very interesting and nice people with a wide knowledge so we were talking about everything literature, politics, tourism, travelling, money and the evening was...

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viewpoint I respect and love my spouse very much that I can't make him feel any kind of insecurity. He is naturally a jealous man, and I don't like to make him feel upset by deliberately making him jealous at all. I am happy that he feels the same way for me.

21 May 08

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Moving On And Saying Farewell To The Past...

twoey68 @twoey68 (13627) • United States 20 May 08

Most of us have an ex or two in the closet…sometimes a whole flock of them LoL After the breakup we move on with our lives. Sometimes we never see them again and other times we run into them now and then. Inevitably sometimes they...

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viewpoint I would be very happy for my ex if he fell in love and got married again. Moving on is a very healthy thing. I would also prefer not to have any kind of contact or communication with anyone of them.

21 May 08

^^My birthday is coming,one hour later!!!

liuqian @liuqian (476) • China 21 May 08

In less than an hour,My age will add a year!Life is so great by now.Tomorrow though i have two classes,after that i will spend time together with my friends,eat cakes,sing and dance!^^I am so excited to waiting tomorrow's coming!...

birthday

day night

happy

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viewpoint Happy Birthday to you! May you have many more birthdays to come. Thank you for sharing your happiness with all of us!

21 May 08

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Do you talk/listen on your cell phone while you drive? Do you think it is safe?

Yestheypayme2dothis @Yestheypayme2dothis (7874) • United States 6 May 08

Do you talk/listen on your cell phone while you drive? Do you think it is safe? I think a lot of people do this without thinking, and the mind can't concentrate on driving and talking at the same time.

phone

talk

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viewpoint I don't use my cellphone when I'm driving. I can't concentrate. So if anyone ever calls while I'm driving, I would ask them to call back later, or if it's really important, i would stop and park at the side for a few minutes to take the call.

6 May 08

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Do You Fight With Your Lover? If Yes Then Who Say Sorry First?

betmaster007 @betmaster007 (36) • Pakistan 5 May 08

I fight with me girlfriend and she always says sorry to me. She cannot live without me so she always says sorry to me. Do you also fight with your girlfriend/boyfriend? If yes then who says sorry first? If she says sorry first...

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viewpoint We do argue sometimes. If I'm wrong, I apologize, and he forgives me. If he's wrong, he apologizes too, and I love him too much not to forgive him!

6 May 08

Parenting: By what age should a woman give birth?

Yestheypayme2dothis @Yestheypayme2dothis (7874) • United States 6 May 08

Parenting: By what age should a woman give birth? Today more and more women are giving birth later in age. We hear about women giving birth to healthy babies at 60! What do you think? I am 47 and thinking about it.

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viewpoint Well, I think a woman should give birth when she is mature and responsible enough to be a parent. I became a mother when I was 23. You are 47, and I believe you can already be a good parent if you want to.

6 May 08

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I don't want to pretend

gxnfly @gxnfly (1147) • China 6 May 08

All my friend at myLot,I don't want to pretend anymore,at least not here. Now I really want to cry out.I feel lonely,nobody understand me,even my boyfriend.Sometimes I could be quite sensitive about certain things.I can ignore...

be yourself

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viewpoint That's one thing I like about being able to write. I can express my thoughts and feelings freely when I want to. So whatever is on your mind right now, go ahead and write what you want. Everyone here is ready to read your thoughts!

6 May 08

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Being catagorized

suspenseful @suspenseful (40192) • Canada 6 May 08

A friend of mine had a birthday party and she invited me and others to come over. Now my friend is a little confused as to where I fit in the scheme of things. You see, she is the type of lady who thinks one you reach a certain...

being catagorized

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viewpoint I like to be with friends of different ages. But I really don't mind being categorized at all. I also like being with friends whom I can exchange my thoughts and ideas with, it really doesn't matter what age they are.

6 May 08

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Does a powerful man appeal to you girls?..

ruby222 @ruby222 (4847) 6 May 08

Im wondering how many of us here would like ..or maybe have..a powerful man for a partner.A high flying,confident male. Do you feel attracted to that sort of guy?? or would you feel more so intimidated by him??

men

power

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viewpoint Well yes, a powerful man appeals to me. His confidence would make me feel secure. I'd like my man to make me feel like I can trust my life to him.

6 May 08

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How do you store your digital photos on CD/DVD?

coffeebreak @coffeebreak (17798) • United States 20 Apr 08

I am just starting this new 21st century way of doing things ... I am still a negative person! (that's as in negatives from pictures!) But, knowing those are probably on their way out like 8-tracks, and cassettes, I try to learn...

back up digital photos

camera pictures

digital photos

photo storage

save digital photos to cd

storing digital photos on hard drive

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viewpoint When you copy one folder, all its contents, including the subfolders are copied into the disc

20 Apr 08

When you where pregnant when did you first feel the baby move?

MrsFrizzle @MrsFrizzle (1963) • United States 25 Sep 07

While you where pregnant when did you fist feel the baby move and what did it feel like? I think I felt my baby move but I am not very far along and everyone thinks it is gas but I know what gas feels like. Your personal...

pregnant

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viewpoint When I was pregnant, I felt my baby's first move when I was on the 4th month. It was a wonderful feeling. I was so overwhelmed to feel that life inside of me!

20 Apr 08

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Should mothers interfere in their children's married lives...?

tuhpaul @tuhpaul (475) • India 17 Jul 07

As a mother do you feel you should advice ,guide ,interfere in the lives of your married son's/daughter's life?True parents are like an umbrella but too much say in the lives of their married children turns out to be rather...

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viewpoint If the child asks for help or advise, the mother can give them. But interference is really not proper, unless the child is already in deep trouble because of the spouse. I think a parent should always respect the decision of their child when they chose to be...

20 Apr 08