virtual44

@virtual44 (26)

United States • Age 53

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Not sure how to react to this

trusko @trusko (198) 18 Apr 08

Im currently at home looking after my baby daughter. So obviously I do all the cooking, cleaning etc. My hubby used to do his share, but that is a history. The other day I said to him jokingly, when was the last time you have...

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virtual44 Hello trusko, I am a mother of 4 and I once took 2 years off from work for the children's sake while my husband took care of the bills on his own. Now I hope I don't sound too harsh but your husband needs to realize that he is not paying the mortgage as...

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Should I Kill Him ?

sincere4frdship @sincere4frdship (2228) • India 18 Apr 08

Hello there , I am a 23 year guy. I was in relationship with a girl for two years. we were clas mate when we met. last year we both were trying to get admission in P.G. but I coudn't make it due to my family problem ....but...

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virtual44 Hello sincere4frdship, You should definitely not kill anyone. By doing so you are putting an end to your own life as well. You want to be free to pursue your dreams and eventually meet the person of your dreams who will truly love and respect you. You also...

19 Apr 08

What do you think about men with many wives?

littlefranciscan @littlefranciscan (18327) • United States 8 Apr 08

After seeing the news of the Polygamist.. I want to know your opinion of men taking many wives..even taking 2 wives? Do you think women can feel loved equally by one man? Don't you think that the love would be less for all but...

marriage

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virtual44 kezabelle, I completely agree with you. There is just no way someone could split themselves emotionally between 2 or more sets of wives and children. It is difficult enough splitting oneself between work and family, let alone more than one wife. Someone in...

8 Apr 08

Is it mental illnesswhen a mother wont allow son to grow up?

deepti15 @deepti15 (1190) • India 25 Mar 08

She activelly tries to control her son w/ food, overfeeding while young. She tries to control who he dates when he ignores her she calls the women he dates "s**lut**s" . Constantly treats him as a child. Constantly asks when he is...

mother forcing son

mother ruling son

mother son

mother son realtionship

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virtual44 hey_baby I am a mother of 4 and I just do not agree with what you said. This mother obviously has issues. She is suffocating her son and not allowing him to grow into a man. I understand that a mother loves her children and wants to protect them but...

5 Apr 08

Are you listener or talker?

shedii @shedii (1486) • India 1 Apr 08

What kind of person are you? Listener or talker? Do you like listnening or talking?

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virtual44 I am definitely a listener. I love to listen to people. That is how you really get to know them. People really interest me. I like to know what the love, dislike, how they feel, what their favorite things are, about their culture and family. I'm not much of a...

5 Apr 08

reading healthy

tezovhemo @tezovhemo (360) 5 Apr 08

is reading good for your brain??

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virtual44 Reading is definitely good for the brain. It helps keep memory intact as you age and it also helps to increase your vocabulary. When my children were younger, I hardly read because I was too busy keeping up with them and their activities. Once I got time...

5 Apr 08

Would you allow your child to open a MySpace account?

virtual44 @virtual44 (26) • United States 5 Apr 08

My son wants to open a MySpace account. He is 13 and I feel that is too young. My husband thinks I am being overprotective. I know I can monitor him while he is online but I still worry. Would you let your child open a MySpace...

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Friends

adysal @adysal (1) 4 Apr 08

How long is the longest you have had one friend for?

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virtual44 My best friend is my sister, so I would have to say 35 years. If family does not count, then I would say 20 years which is how long I've known my next closest friend.

5 Apr 08

birthday present

bimal10p @bimal10p (1218) • India 5 Apr 08

my brothers birthday is coming by the end of this month..he is in high school..i just can't figure out what should i gift him this time..last time i bout him a jeans..b4 that i gave a watch..but what now

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virtual44 Does your brother have a game console? I have a teenager and his favorite gifts would definitely be a video game for his console, a new pair of sneakers or concert tickets to one of his favorite artists. If all else fails, a gift card to the mall would do him...

5 Apr 08

what is the oldest video game that you have played and remember?

johndur @johndur (3052) • Pasig, Philippines 4 Apr 08

for me i think the oldest i can remember that i have played is an atari game called GAlaga,it is the one of the pioneers in space games wherein you will have to shoot down all UFO in sight and you only have three lives for the...

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virtual44 OK. I'm really going to show my age with this one... The oldest video game I have played is PONG. I believe it was by Atari. I'm not sure if anyone here ever heard of it but it was simply just two lines on opposite sides of the screen. There was a ball that...

5 Apr 08

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Did you see all the sequel of lord of the Rings???

mnsrwt123 @mnsrwt123 (2057) • India 8 Mar 08

Well i didn't see any part of the LORD OF THE RINGS... But i am downloading this movie from torrents. And i am pretty excited about this movie. Do you ever seen any part of the LOTR. And which part you like the most and...

lord of the rings

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virtual44 I've watched the entire trilogy several times and each time I love them more and more. Peter Jackson did an awesome job transferring the books to the big screen. I don't believe anyone else would have done better. The books are truly wonderful as well. Once...

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which character do you like most in LORD OF THE RINGS

samsense @samsense (55) • India 22 Feb 08

i love the character of frodo.....becouse though he is not that strong and powerful ...he has this self esteem of his and to think good about others... which one is urs???

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virtual44 My favorite character is Gollum. What would Lord of the Rings be without "my precious". Andy Serkis portrays the character so well. You could almost feel his pain. Gandalf is my next favorite. Ian McKellen is an incredible actor.

3 Apr 08

What were your first thoughts/words when you first saw your child after labour?

kiran1978 @kiran1978 (4134) • Australia 22 Feb 08

I am about to have my third child, due in just 3 days time. Looking for motivation to pull me through the fear of labour again. I can remember how wonderful it was to finally see my beautiful girls that I have for the first time....

after seeing your baby

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virtual44 Seeing my first child after labor, the first thought that came to my head was "He is sooo beautiful". It was love at first site. I had never experienced so much love and so much emotion all in such a short moment as the moment I first lay eyes on him. I even...

3 Apr 08

Did you have your baby by regular delivery or C-Section

winterose @winterose (39887) • Canada 2 Apr 08

Our finding confirms that from other studies; that women who give birth to their first child by Caesarean section less frequently have child number two and three than women who give birth in the normal way. We have looked further...

caesarians

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virtual44 I had all four of my children through regular delivery. No epidural. My cousin, though, had all five of her girls through c-section. The study may be true since the recovery for a c-section takes longer and is supposedly more painful. Maybe that deters some...

3 Apr 08

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Does anyone suffer from shyness in public and if so, how do you deal with it.

virtual44 @virtual44 (26) • United States 3 Apr 08

I am extremely shy in public settings do not like to be the center of attention, ever. Recently, I was given a surprise party at work and just could not deal with the attention. How do you cope?

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The Secret Book... by Rhonda Byrne

thuynhu @thuynhu (661) • United States 2 Apr 08

Has anyone read this book or even watched the film? I read the book first and then I watched the film. I believe it to be so amazing. I'm not even sure how to explain how great this book is. It can truly help you get any and...

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virtual44 Sorry if I did not explain myself properly. I really enjoyed The Secret and do believe in the Law of Attraction. What The Bleep Do We Know was also a good film. I did not find anything wrong with The Secret. What I did not like was the way people would put it...

3 Apr 08

Love vs Money? Which would you choose?

deepti15 @deepti15 (1190) • India 3 Apr 08

I asked same question to my husband and he says.... It depends on what kind of "love" and how much money. I don't think the bottom line is love or money. The bottom line is how much you love. One should find most...

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virtual44 Definitely love. I've known people with lots of money who are very lonely. Plus I can deal with loving someone who has no money and we work together towards getting it, than with being with someone who lots of money but grosses me out whenever I even think...

3 Apr 08