Vivianh

@Vivianh (331)

China • Age 38

Joined myLot 18 years ago

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Can friends actually be good lovers?

inkyuboz @inkyuboz (1392) • Mandaluyong City, Philippines 5 Sep 12

I don't really know where the boundaries go. Sometimes, there are people who set a "friend zone" so to speak and you should never cross that thin line between friend and lover. I'm asking, if ever you cross that line, do...

friends

friendzone

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Vivianh Hi!Maybe it's great that make friends be lovers.But for me,I won't let the things happen 'cause friends and lovers are different zones for me.I have to wonder that if we won't work it well ,so can we still be good friends and I don't want to lose friends.It's...

5 Sep 12

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My son's first smile

stardustw83 @stardustw83 (435) • United States 26 Jan 09

You know what they all say that newborns don't really smile because they are happy but because they are passing gass or something tickles their belly. Well i find that hard to believe for the last several days my 2 week old son...

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Vivianh Hi,my daughter is 3months old and she always smiles when u talk to her or play with her.It's amazing to see the baby smiling,it's wonderful!

1 Sep 12

sexy to your baby

C @ShyBear88 (59347) • Sterling, Virginia 27 May 12

Would you ever use the word sexy to describe your baby/young children? For me no, I would never use the word sexy to describe my kids. Cute, adorable, cuddle or loveable those are the worlds that I would use to describe my...

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Vivianh Hi,I agree with you too.And I don't know why people use this word to describe the babies.

28 May 12

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Working Hard to Earn More Money Online

jaderamirez @jaderamirez (1029) • Philippines 23 May 12

I am working hard now to make money because I need it by this time of my life. I resign from my work and the only source of income I know now is online. I work hard by writing articles, blogging, PTC and doing task online. I made...

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Vivianh Hi there!Good luck for you and everyone here.The one thing we need to do is consist on it.

24 May 12

Quit Smoking

prashant0706194 @prashant0706194 (31) 21 Nov 09

I am smoking for last 2-3 years and now I am feeling very much problems while breathing. I tried a variety of things to keep me away from it, but I couldn't up to the mark. So I want to ask all you guys at here that is there any...

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Vivianh Hi!I think there is no easy way to it but presevere in.

24 May 12

take care of your health before it's too late

tess_quinain @tess_quinain (1149) • Philippines 23 May 12

Some people don't realize how important health is until they get sick regret everything. Some people work so hard for money not giving much importance on health. As a result, lots of money is being spent. And there comes the...

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Vivianh Yes,it's so true.There are many people have this situation.I think we can't live without money but how can we live without health.Most of the people know the meaning,however,it's so hard to achieve it 'cause the society is so crule.

24 May 12

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New to Mylot

ambergage3690 @ambergage3690 (11) 21 May 12

I have spent the last 2 days trying to find ways to make money onnline and have found out it isnt that easy. Fingers crossed I may be able to make something off this site. Would love to know if anyone has found a successful way to...

earn an income

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Vivianh Hi!Welcome here .Yes,it's not so easy and u need more patience

22 May 12

Do you think you can find part time online job?

joinusnow @joinusnow (33) 1 Apr 12

I think there are many people want to work as part time job for their life to get extra money. Why we don't try to get part time jobs?. I believe that people can make extra money with idea for example, affiliates links, sell stuff...

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Vivianh Hi,joinusnow.I was just thinking about the same thing with u.I'm trying to find a way to get extra money.Maybe I can get more chances online and I'll try actully.

21 May 12

Travel the Philippines

chan2zexy @chan2zexy (508) • Philippines 20 May 12

I get so excited whenever I hear the word "travel". I don't get a lot of it but I enjoy each of my travels every time I get to have one. Given the chance, I'd love to visit every city of the country and take lots of pictures. I...

favorite places

travel philippines

visited cities

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Vivianh Hi!I love travelling too.But most of the time we can't do everything what we want to.There're always so many things happen,like working,faamily,study and so on.So,I was always exciting on my way of travelling.For me ,it is just a chance to get out of the...

21 May 12

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It's hard to post a good discussion.

jhustinian @jhustinian (612) • Philippines 15 May 12

Yeah, I find it hard. It's not everyday that I'll think of something that would pique the interests of even a few myLotters and make them participate in the discussion. And I don't actually feel good posting a discussion just so I...

mylot discussion interesting participation

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Vivianh Hi,JHUS.Yeah,I start a discussion when I just think about it.And if you ask me to make one just right now ,I would say sorry.

15 May 12

i will still be happy

jazel_juan @jazel_juan (15746) • Philippines 15 May 12

oh yes i will still be happy.. be happy be happy i will smile i will smile oh yes i will smile i will laugh and be happy.. i am chanting this now as i do not want negative vibes, somehow i will still smile.and i would...

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Vivianh Hi,jazel-juan.Ya,we have to always be happy.Because the life is suck and we have to keep ourselves out of the negative influence,so,keep the life more laughter and more dreams.

15 May 12

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You are my everything

hotsummer @hotsummer (13837) • Philippines 3 May 12

I just wonder if all people feels the same way when they are in love. But it is hard to believe that everyone feels the same way. Because I know a lot of people who could easily get in and out of relationship like they were never...

life

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Vivianh I will say that you r my everything in the world.You know you can't believe one day you are alone in the world without that guy.Actually ,not everyone feels the same way of course .I think maybe they have not met the specil .

3 May 12

Best way to reduce stress

musicluv4life @musicluv4life (1867) • United States 30 Apr 12

Everyone has stress in their lives some more then others. What do you do to get rid of your stress. I either listen to music or work in my art journal.

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Vivianh Hello,Musicluv4life.FOr me,maybe I will listen to the music or take a good movie .And I also want to have a long trip but most of the time we always don't have enough free time to do that.What a pity.

1 May 12

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Can you sleep with the music on?

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 30 Apr 12

I love listening to a music but I can't sleep when it's playing. I know there are people who loves to listen even when there about to sleep. I remember my friend she used to sleep with the TV or radio on and she will wake up when...

music

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Vivianh Hi,lynboobsy11!I can sleep with the music playing.Recently I always sleep with the TV playing,and maybe I'm tired enough.But sometimes when I'm reading,I like the music on too,and i know some friends of mine they hate this habit.

30 Apr 12

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Do you plan what will you do in a day?

vycess @vycess (1588) • Saudi Arabia 28 Nov 10

I observe that when I plan things to do I ended up not accomplishing them and sometimes get disappointed. It's really hard to manage time, how about you are having difficulty managing your time or just do what you want and not...

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Vivianh just sometimes,i will think about what is the most important thing and plan how to do that.

29 Nov 10

Do you believe in 2nd chances?

chiyochan @chiyosan (30183) • Philippines 24 Sep 10

So when it comes to relationships, do you believe that second chances are still possible?? How about you? would you give your ex a second chance if she/he asks for it? and what won't make you give him/her another chance?

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Vivianh It depends on the reason and how much I loved the person.I think most of the people hate being cheated,so do I.And I think it's complicated.

24 Sep 10

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felt bore

ainur_rooney @ainur_rooney (261) • Indonesia 18 Jan 10

have you ever felt bore about your daily activity with just so so? usually what do you do to make today was different than yesterday?

enjoy life

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Vivianh Yes ,recently I felt bored about my job,my daily activity with job.I want more free time ,and i start to think about some new job with myself.Yes ,it's very hard and now i have no ideas...

18 Jan 10

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Do you go shopping every day or just once a week ?

greenline @greenline (14838) • Canada 11 Aug 09

The full time job I have takes hours and hours of my time each day. I just have no chance to go around doing any shopping on the week days, except just to drop by at convenience store. So, I do shopping just once a week on...

shopping

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Vivianh You know,if the there is enough time and money,I love to go shopping everyday,I think every girl love that.But the problem is,I have to work for money and I havn't go shopping for weeks.You are not always have that emotion ,just like some sundays,I jus want to...

11 Aug 09

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Would you choose to live near the beach or on the top of the mountains?

Azaerus @Azaerus (820) • Philippines 4 Aug 09

I know many of us dream of having a house near the beach,where we could spend our summer everytime or just relax whenever we want to..I know describing it is the ultimate lifestyle a person could ever dream of.Though living near...

beach

houses

mountains

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Vivianh Well,I prefer to live on the mountains.That feel more comfortable and I hope there is a quiet place and without too many building.Mountain is better for me.

4 Aug 09

will u respond to a discussion which has already got a best response..??

shravandone @shravandone (555) • India 4 Aug 09

i find that once BR is awarded i get no posts on my discussion...is it so that people find a dead end on discussions already with BR...??what do u do??do BR markings dampen your interest in discussion topic???well..please dont...

br markings

dampen interest

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Vivianh It's not a big deal.If I met adiscussion that I want to saysomething i don't care if there's a BR.

4 Aug 09

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