vivianyan

@vivianyan (29)

China • Age 43

Joined myLot 17 years ago

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Career or Love?Which COmes first?

anantvyas2306 @anantvyas2306 (155) • India 8 Oct 07

Recently,one of my friend who is in search of Job is planning to shift in the city where his Gf resides.The job prospects for the kind of job he's looking for,is less in that city.But still he wants to go their,as he wants to be...

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vivianyan Hi Anan,You are not wrong. Coz u are his friend, just gave him good advice. Career and love are both important, which comes first, it depends.Look, your friend thinks love is important. you should be happy for him. He loves his GF so much,he's willing for her...

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Can I learn Chinese Language on line or in any other way without going to China?

Nic @academic2 (7000) • Uganda 6 Oct 07

If I wanted to learn Chinese Language on line or by any other means without going to China, how would I go about it? You see, I believe that China is going to rule the world very soon, they are especially sparking off a modern day...

cchinese

learn chinese

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vivianyan Hi there, I'm so glad to know that you are interested in learning chinese. I think chinese is hard to learn,even though i am chinese. There is no any good way to learn a language fast. But i can give you an advice to learn it for free. You can make a friend...

6 Oct 07

Is it everything going well, for what you had been planned for your life?

leha1512 @leha1512 (81) • Brunei Darussalam 6 Oct 07

I am failure but I want to improve my life for my kids. Before I planned, to get graduate, have a good job and marry with the one love (These are our majority hope). But beside of that, when I was at college, I got pregnant. I...

plan

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vivianyan Hi Leha, You are not failure.And I think you are a great woman. So brave, so smart. You born 3 kids, you try to make your life better always, I try to make my life better than yesterday as well. So i always believe that hard working can make me rich.

6 Oct 07

~Arranged Marriage~ (What will you do if it's you?)

claire03 @claire03 (1443) • United States 27 Sep 07

An Arranged Marriage is typically a wedding arranged by someone other than the person getting married, curtailing or avoiding the process of courtship. It is known that such marriages are numerous in the Middle East, and parts of...

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vivianyan Yes, i agree with you totally. Each person has the right to choose who wants to marry and love. I don't agree with arrange marriage too. If i am arranged by my parents to marry somebody, i must be gonna crazy. I think i lose the freedome of pursuit the love.

28 Sep 07

would you consider,tricking a vegan into eating meat,more cruel or funny?

exclusively_rinku @exclusively_rinku (891) • India 26 Sep 07

hello mylotters!!!^^^it just happened with one of my friend who is a vegetarian.his friends played a prank on him and made him eat meat.and you know he is broken to such extent that he is mentally unstable.he isn't eating...

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vivianyan well. it is cruel. The vegan should be respected. They have kind heart, why those people like to play an prank on a vegan! They are friends, why don't they try to understand him? How ignorant and utterly cruel of them! Regards

27 Sep 07

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Making Hobbies as useful & interesting ones..

subathra @subathra (3519) • India 26 Sep 07

Hobbies are wonderful things because they help us to get rid of stress and stain of pressure of school , office and home works. There are I feel quite good hobbies like Writing letters to your foreign pen pals ,collecting stamps,...

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vivianyan when i get into stress , i will listen to music. classical music, or pop, or rock..then i will do some sports. especially yoga. After an hour and half, my body and sprit feel easy. So this is one of my hobbies. sometimes i will cook food to get rid of stress...

26 Sep 07

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What is one of your greatest faults?

Pose123 @Pose123 (21635) • Canada 25 Sep 07

We all have our shortcomings, and sometimes it's good to acknowledge them. I sometimes speak in anger, only to realize later that, had I taken a few moments to 'cool down', I might have said something completely different, or not...

cool down

faults

tolerance

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vivianyan me too. sometimes i speak in anger, I know i hurt someone at that moment. if i had taken a second to clam down.I think thing will change. this is my greatest faults.Control my temper, talk before think over, this is very important to me

26 Sep 07

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Internet down

caver1 @caver1 (1762) • United States 25 Sep 07

What do you do when you can't get on the internet? Our internet went out. My husband spent the week-end trying to find the problem. Seems it is with our computer. I'm on a borrowed laptop right now. It takes some getting used...

internet connection

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vivianyan of course it drives me crazy when i can't get on internet. i will scan my computer, try to find the prbolem. But if i can't not used it, o My! i can't imagine that live without computer.If I really can't get on internet, I will listen to music and read lots of...

26 Sep 07

life is boring. how i can change it.plz help?

simplyman2006 @simplyman2006 (1706) • India 25 Sep 07

hey i am living in boring life.well i have seen many peoples who lives life me. they just go to there offices and at night come back from it and sleep like. that it's this is really boring life. firstly, i am also living like a...

boring life how to change it

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vivianyan It sounds kinda boring. I have some advice, you can learn a kind of skill which you are interested. Such us, playing guitar, or other musical instrument, maybe you like paint picuters, or learn how to fixed machines, something think like that. acturally, my...

26 Sep 07

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October: What money making things will you focus on?

gmakesmoney @gmakesmoney (2923) • United States 25 Sep 07

For the month of October, what things are you going to focus on as far as earning money online? Are you going to focus on writing or gpts or something else all together? For me I'm going to focus on promoting 2 programs only,...

goals

making money

october

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vivianyan Well,I'm goona focus on as far as earing money in mylot. And I will discuss with more mylotters, share into of interests and adding more posts. If i'm fortunate to make friends on mylot. Good luck for your plan.

25 Sep 07

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Love Autumn? How Does The Season Really Affect The Way You Feel About Life?

peaceful202270 @peaceful (3294) • United States 20 Sep 07

The Autumnal Exquinox arrives when the Sun enters Libra (That's Me!) On Sunday, September 23rd... and already I've recieved my first invite to a beer tasting party... It's going to be incredible as always, with very good food...

life changing with seasons

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vivianyan The change season doesn't affect the way my feel. When i was a child, summer is my favorite. But now, i can find favorite things in each season. So i love the change and enjoy in my favorites in different seasons.

21 Sep 07

Help Stop The Dog Meat Trade!!

pyewacket @pyewacket (43903) • United States 19 Sep 07

I just got this email from The Humane Society of the United States, and it's all about the Dog Meat trade that is still very much alive and well in the Philippines, even though it was supposedly banned and made illegal back in...

animals

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vivianyan I'm afraid of watching such radio. I ever watched some pictures of lots of dogs killed by people. I cried, my heart is quite painful. How human beings can kill these loyal and cute dogs. They are no any faults. Cause human beings' greed and brutality, they...

20 Sep 07

Do you use a planner to plan things around???

Lifeless @Lifeless (2635) • India 19 Sep 07

Hi people... Everybody has a lot to do in a single day, and we can't rely on our brain everytime.. We need something everytime to remind us of important things to be done... So, what do u guys do to keep things in order and...

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vivianyan i don't use a planner. I can not remember everything but i only remeber things which is important. Sometimes i will remark things on calender. lol...

20 Sep 07

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do you like mixbreed puppies?

khithi17 @khithi17 (762) • Philippines 19 Sep 07

i like mix breed or crossbreed dogs or puppies, because they are so cute too. but i like purebreeds too. but crossbreeds are charming and more affordable, but have the same features as the purebreeds. only few difference, like in...

dogs

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vivianyan I totoally agree with you. I like mix dogs. They are so cute and smart. I have a mix dog for one years. it's a boy a naught boy LOL.....but he has good behaviors. His colors are mostly white, but have some shades of black and brown.

19 Sep 07

What is WRONG with some people??

Stiletto @Stiletto (4579) 19 Sep 07

In the news in the UK today is a 27 year old man who urinated on a disabled woman as she lay dying in the street. As he did it he shouted "this is YouTube material". He was with two friends, had smoked cannabis and been drinking...

crime

society

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vivianyan Thank God, he got arrested. But why only one got arrested? how about his two friends. I think three of them should be have a badly punishment. why they have such sick thoughts and actions. They should walk around the street for 3 days and every single person...

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need advise about my job

plumwish07 @plumwish07 (4057) • Indonesia 17 Sep 07

ok, i got stuck in my office at now. from the beginning, my boss never giving us the clearly structure and job description. i already asked him but he always thousand reason whenever we talking about this. something sure, he gives...

job

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vivianyan It might be a complex situation, sorry i never get stuck in such situation. but i have some opinions, u can think about it. Try ur best to deal with your work perfectly,don't care about your boss's complain. Boss always think about himself. PLS don't complain...

18 Sep 07

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Ladies do you wear Lipstick?

marciascott @marciascott (25529) • United States 17 Sep 07

I wear it, I am use to wearing it. My lips seem dry with out them. or how about Lip gloss? I was looking and the program today, and they said that lipstick has cayenne pepper in it, I was shocked, why do you suppose they put...

lipstick

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vivianyan Sometimes i wear it. but i 've never heard of it about cayenne pepper. But i don't care about. i wear it, because it makes me to look great or pretty. We are ladies, and all ladies like to be beautiful. it is ok, don't worried about it. If wear lipstick, it...

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Who will you choose, your spouse or your parent?

raulgc01 @raulgc01 (306) • Philippines 17 Sep 07

When I was young then, I've heard a story about a mother who was forced to choose by a Japanese officer during the second world war, of who she would she choose to be executed, her father or her husband, as the Japanese officer...

parents

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vivianyan Gee..it really tought choice.two men who I loved deeply. maybe I will choose my father too. If my husband love me deeply, i think he will understand me. There is no one can insteas of my father's love, For me it is more precious than husband' love. maybe i...

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has anyone else noticed this?

sephrenia @sephrenia (567) 16 Sep 07

I know I havent posted up many discussions on mylot but i do try really hard to respond to discussions i find interesting and yet i notice that mylot isnt updating my post count. I don't mind about money or anything, I just find...

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vivianyan I've noticed this. But it's ok. I am not hard to respond to discussions ,of course the pay is less. So what! i don't care about it.If you I just enjoy the dicussion, respond to discussions, not the efforts, you will not feel anyone. to respond to discussions...

16 Sep 07

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