wangxiaozhi

@wangxiaozhi (116)

China • Age 40

Joined myLot 17 years ago

I am sure I can succeed!

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what you will do when your relationship with your girl isn't permitted by her parents?

argetlam987 @argetlam987 (5) • Indonesia 12 Apr 09

one day,your girl say she is very confuse about her relationship with you. she say her parents are not allowing you to become her boyfriend. She love you as much as her love to her parents. and she must choose only one, you or her...

love

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wangxiaozhi This is my problem,but it's not her reasion,my parents are not allowing me to being together with her.I have qurred with my parents many times,In my opinion,I have right to decide to choose which girl to be my lover,and now,my parents and me often talk about...

13 Apr 09

If we love so much, how can we handle separation?

lloydbelleza @lloydbelleza (1227) • Philippines 6 Apr 09

Separation is a part of life. We can be separated by distance, work, and death. We know very well that someday and somehow we are going to be separated from our loved ones. If this is the case, can we still love and...

love

pain

separation

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wangxiaozhi what's true love?if you love her,you should learn how to wait and how to live alone,on the other hand,I think she desire to being with you every minutes.So we should keep clam,and give more time to think how to live happier.Love is based on money and life,not...

6 Apr 09

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Peeing at Night

acmepride @acmepride (1546) • United States 1 Apr 09

How many times do you get up at night to pee, if ever you do? What do you think is causing it?

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wangxiaozhi Drinking too much water,I think so

6 Apr 09

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My Daughter wants Pink Streaks in her Hair!

jennybianca @jennybianca (12912) • Australia 17 Mar 08

My 14 year old daughter (nearly 15) informed last week that she wants pink streaks in her hair. Just a few, she said. I was reluctant at first, thinking it would be against the school policy to have unnatural colours in one's...

hair

pink

streaks

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wangxiaozhi Hehe,I like natural colours,but if she want to change her hair colour,I suggest she should have some little pink streaks,not too deep.

17 Mar 08

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After CET-6

zlesing @zlesing (487) • China 22 Dec 07

Today is the CET's day to Chinese college students. Do you know something about the CET? Well, it is an important English test for most of the college students. It's said that if you pass the CET-4, you can find a good job...

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wangxiaozhi I have failed 3 times,CET6,I am an postgraduate student.I must pass CET6,this time I didn't do it,because I have given up,I want to pass it next time,and I will try my best.

23 Dec 07

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Do you believe that once we say something, it can never be taken back?

freeasabee @freeasabee (54) • Australia 19 Nov 07

We need to be careful what we say, because words are very powerful. Something that can be said to us 30 years ago, can still hurt us or still empower us. Being a parent I need to be aware of not saying something out of anger...

feelings

powerful words

words

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wangxiaozhi I agree with you,I remember that one night,because of my inadvertent words,my girl friend was very angry and teared for long time.Today,she has forgiven me,but she is often unhappy for that thing.So from then on ,I am very careful my words,I am afraid that I...

19 Nov 07

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which type of girl and guy , u will love and chasing??

Hawaiiblue @Hawaiiblue (422) • Malaysia 14 Sep 07

which type of girl and guy , u will love and chasing?? i think i will like the girl not too fat and ugly and cannot smoking and don't always everyday go out...how about urs?? come in to tell it...

been in love

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wangxiaozhi I like the girl not fat and too ugly,but love me is the most crucial.If she don't love me in heart,I will give up,although I love her very much.I like she is cult and solf,with a little caprice and very brave and not rely on me too much,hehe

21 Sep 07

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Would you go back to an "X"?

Sheribabe @Sheribabe (445) • United States 20 Sep 07

Even when I am having problems with my b/f, I'd never think about going back to my X. So why do my friends always bring him up when I am having problems in my current relationship? They seem to stuck on him.... But I could care...

relationships

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wangxiaozhi In my opinion,you are right,you shouldn't go back to your x.If you love your b/f,you should love him only and forget your x.If you go back to him,your x,you will hurt your b/f very seriously.Quarrel or disagreements is inevitable in lovers,maybe you should...

21 Sep 07

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Suggestions please!

wahmoftwo @wahmoftwo (1296) • United States 17 Sep 07

I enrolled a little girl that will be two in November into my daycare. She has never been away from her mother. She is having a really hard time and crying the majority of the day. She also refuses to eat. She has been here for...

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wangxiaozhi I am sorry to hear that,I think you should seek help to her mother.It's very bad to her health and psychology,and lead to pessimism.

18 Sep 07

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do you sometimes think that you're full of bad luck? a magnet of misfortunes?

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 15 Sep 07

i was just imagining how a great weekend this will be for me.. a comfy room in our house, a quiet place with only the sound of tv downstairs and maybe a little bickering between my nieces.. the comfort of my bed while writing...

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wangxiaozhi We learned the article "You Are What You Think!" not long ago.I think everyone should keep opitimistic and positive.They said"opitimism can help you to be happier,healthier and more sucessful.Pessimism leads,by contrast,to hopeless,sickness and failure,and is...

15 Sep 07

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Do you ever love him/her because of something? other than love, not a true love?

leha1512 @leha1512 (81) • Brunei Darussalam 14 Sep 07

Other than love? Do you ever experienced love someone because of something, examples he/she is sick (doesnt want to hurt her/him - nearly die :( , or you like him because of money, revenge or what so ever. This discussion not...

reason

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wangxiaozhi I think you should tell to him your thinking,love is love,not sympathize.You shouldn't deceice him and yourself.

14 Sep 07

DO you just socialise online or also earn a living making money online?

yanjiaren @yanjiaren (9031) 13 Sep 07

I am happy to do both, grow my online earningas as I have a weak back and with traveling backwards and forwards it is hard to get a regular job and socialise and make friends. I have made some great friends and business buddies in...

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wangxiaozhi I am a new mylot member,at first,I really want to earn money from it,but now,I am aware that I only earn little money,but I can improve my English a lot.I am a graduate student,I must have academic ability and better Enlish reading, speaking,writing,and...

14 Sep 07

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ever wish to have another love to forget a broken relationship?

lonely_f16 @lonely_f16 (2146) • Philippines 13 Sep 07

have you tried loving someone then when your relationship didn't work and you feel so depressed about it, you look for another person to replace him/her in your heart? how were you able to overcome it? was it a wise decision for...

love

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wangxiaozhi Yes,I have.When she(my first girl-friend)decided to leave me,I had no words.Looking at her going,I was tearing.In those time,I said to myself:"I must forget her as soon as possible.I should study harder and harder."I know that if you want to forget whom you...

13 Sep 07

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what will you do if you fallen in love with your bestfriend?

sweetlady207 @sweetlady207 (60) • Philippines 10 Sep 07

what will you do if you fallen inlove with your bestfreind and you know it is not right thing because he/she is in love with someone else are you going to aviod your friend or just keep your feelings yourself, pretend to be...

love

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wangxiaozhi In my opinion,if you love him truely,and he loves another one,just be your best friend,you should keep the friendship,and wish he happy everyday.You shouldn't tell he you are falling in love with him.But if he have no girlfriend,I think you would tell him...

11 Sep 07

Say "I Love You" in your own way.

lynpreety @lynboobsy11 (11343) • Philippines 11 Sep 07

Hey friends around the world.... How can you say the word "I Love You" in your own language or in your own way? Here in my country we say it "Mahal Kita". How about yours???

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wangxiaozhi I am Chinese," wo ai ni" is means "I love you".I often say "I love you" to my girl friend.We are 1500 kilometres apart.She work in xi'an,but I study in Qingdao,shandong province.We love each other very much,although we have little times to see,to being...

11 Sep 07

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What makes you cry?

beautyqueen26 @beautyqueen26 (16030) • United States 9 Sep 07

Are you more likely to cry when you hear bad news or good news? Do you think tears should be saved for sad moments of grief? Do you ever find yourself crying when you are extremely happy? When my daughter was born, I cried like...

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wangxiaozhi When I heard that my grandpa died,I can't help tearing.I was very sorrow,but I couldn't cry out.Maybe if you are much too sorrow,you will not cry but only tearing.

9 Sep 07

Quited Smoking?

wondericequeen @wondericequeen (7876) • Hong Kong 4 Sep 07

Oh my! I think I finally did it! It's been a whole week and I haven't had a single cigarette. I wouldn't say that I haven't been tempted for the whole time, but I don't let myself to have one! So have you quited smoking already?...

a week without smoking

cigarette

quit smoking

smoking

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wangxiaozhi I am a smoker,beforetime,I tried to quit smoking,but I found that I didn't do it.Because sometimes there was very bad mood to me,I couldn't help smoking.Smoking will give some comfortable and let me keep calmness.So I don't want to quit it,although I know...

5 Sep 07

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can you still study/work while watching television?

secretbear @secretbear (19448) • Philippines 21 Aug 07

I was writing something last night and at the same time I was watching my favorite shows on tv. ^__^ House, M.D. was on tv last night and dr. house made me glued to my seat. LOL it reminded me of my old days when I was still a...

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wangxiaozhi Haha,I can't do it like you.When I study,I will turn off the TV set,so I can concentrate on learning.But I like listening to popular soogs while I am studing.

3 Sep 07

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Do you tell your friends when you're officially ''IN LOVE''?

jackxav @jackxav (660) • Philippines 1 Sep 07

For me,i mention it to my closest friends...Sharing my thoughts to my closest friends help me a lot.They can advice me what to do and how to keep good relationships.YOU? DO you tell your friends that you're in love or you just...

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wangxiaozhi Yes,I will,when I fall in love,I will sharing my thought with my best friends. I often chat with them about my lover,and they will give me some advice.Haha,I like to talk with them about love,my gril friend and their girl friends.

3 Sep 07

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What makes first ''LOVE'' memorable?

jackxav @jackxav (660) • Philippines 27 Aug 07

For me,its a persons first chance to discover more of her or him self through another person.Its the first chance you realize that when you impart yourself to the person you love,you grow more.''You? what makes your first love...

first love

love

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wangxiaozhi First love?I can't forget it.Sometimes I miss her in my dreams.I can't help missing her,although I really want to forget the time that she and I were loving.Because I love my present lover,so...If I always miss her,my first love,I will feel that it's very...

3 Sep 07

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