xliRSA

@xliRSA (13)

South Africa • Age 62

Joined myLot 15 years ago

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When you die. Which do you prefer? Buried 6Ft below the ground or Cremated ?

kodigo @kodigo (171) • Philippines 28 Apr 09

Buried 6Ft below the ground or Cremated ? I do prefer to be cremated, there are obituary's that is located under churches and You'll be visited more often by your relatives and love ones since they can go to the c and visit you...

cremation

funeral services

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xliRSA I definitely want to be cremated! It takes up less space and is much cheaper.. but also that way I KNOW I wont wake up in a coffin scratching the top to try and get out! I am also a registered organ-donor, so I made doubly sure my body will be dead by the time...

29 Apr 09

MY lot is a place where you can share your life problems?

icesmile @icesmile (7160) • Romania 28 Apr 09

So many peoples talk about love, relations, food, work, extramoney, about food or sleeping. In my opinion this is a place where peoples can talk about what they want or can do...not just a place where somebody can make...

mylot

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xliRSA I agree. For now mylot does not even pay to my country, so its definitely not about money for me. I dont think this will ever replace a therapist for someone with serious problems, but for most of us that just need a place to vent or be heard.. I think its...

28 Apr 09

Babies and sleeping

Pleiades @Pleiades (846) • United States 28 Apr 09

Why is it that people say they "slept like a baby" when babies wake up like every two hours? *Pleiades

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xliRSA Whoever really believe that have NOT met my baby. She wakes up a zillion times a night, its driving me nuts! On a 'good' night she will wake up only 8 times. On a bad night (like 2 days ago..) she was up the WHOLE night. Honestly! If she slept a total of 30...

28 Apr 09

Can you spend nothing when you are shopping?

mermaidivy @mermaidivy (15395) • United States 28 Apr 09

I have to say I can but it is very hard. Whether I go to the mall on purpose for getting something or just go to the mall, window shopping, I feel it is very hard to just look but cannot spend money on the thing that I want to...

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xliRSA I havent gone window shopping in years. If I need something I go buy it, if I cannot afford it I DONT go to the mall coz it will just make me miserable thinking of everything I 'want' but cant have. General shopping is different, I go with a fair idea of what...

28 Apr 09

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RichPTC

club80profits @club80profits (194) • United States 28 Apr 09

What do you think about richptc? This site pays out 1$ per link click which is too high for the industry . And yet only charge for advertise $3 per 1000 which is cheaper than linkgrand. So how can they afford to pay its members?...

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xliRSA I would not waste my time or bandwith on that. If you take the risk of paying to be a member, how long will it take to reach minimum payout? By that time its easy for the site just to close down and there is nothing you can do. You can never win back your lost...

28 Apr 09

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What do you do when you cannot sleep? How do you deal with insomnia?

ronaldinu @ronaldinu (12422) • Malta 24 Apr 09

What do you do when you cannot sleep? Its one of those nights when it is becoming hotter. I cannot close my eyes and I ended coming back on the computer. What would you do on such nights? How do you tackle lack of sleep?

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xliRSA I seldom go to sleep before 2 or 3am, keep busy on the computer or read a magazine (which should happen more often!) There are times that I go to bed at 3am but toss and turn and still cant sleep then I get up and either have a hot bath, try to relax, or I get...

25 Apr 09

favorite coca-cola flavor

timhinyy @timhinyy (1653) • United States 19 Apr 09

my favorite coca-cola flavor is the original coca-cola classic. i know my lady likes the cherry flavored coke. what is your favorite? and if you don't like coke what's your favorite of the beverage you drink the most?

beverages

soda

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xliRSA I have never tasted cherry coke, we do not have it here. We have classic coke and diet coke (coke light). Some time ago we had vanilla coke which was fairly nice but it has been discontinued now. I prefer cold water to anything else, but drink coke from time...

25 Apr 09

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Laugh Out Loud?

kdmlrys @kdmlrys (398) • United States 25 Apr 09

LOL or Laugh/Laughing Out Loud is too mainstream. Do you ever get tired of laughing out loud? I think I should refrain from using that acronym. Do you think SOW (smile out wide) is a good alternative?

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xliRSA I seldom use *LOL* simply because I dont actually LAUGH out loud! Sometimes someone online can make me smile yes, but it takes a lot to make me laugh. And when someone types that (LOL) I am always wondering.. are they really laughing or just using it as a...

25 Apr 09

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Which is the most important of a marriage?

wanglu1919 @wanglu1919 (119) • China 21 Apr 09

Someone say money,someone say love,and my opinion is both,that is love each other and earn more money@_@

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xliRSA Trust, respect and honesty, from both partners! Money can help to make life easier but it cannot make you happy.

25 Apr 09

How many times have you been IN LOVE??

Aprillynn1 @Aprillynn1 (225) • United States 23 Apr 09

Just wondering.....how many times have you been in love. I want to say that I have been in love with 4 people in my lifetime. 3 men and 1 woman......I am wondering if I even know what love is.

in love

love

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xliRSA I don't think I have ever really been in love. I have felt very strongly about some people, I have loved to some extent but I have never loved someone with all my heart and soul. I'm not sure why exactly I am holding back but I do, its sad actually.

25 Apr 09

How many hours do you spend online

ada547612 @ada547612 (203) • China 25 Apr 09

I have a full time job that requires me to manage websites so I spend aroud 9 hiurs a day...how about you?

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xliRSA On average I spend about 10 hours per day online, sometimes more, seldom less. When I got online for the first time (about 10 years ago) I was totally addicted and spent 18 hours per day, everyday, online. That lasted for 4 months then my (now ex partner) took...

25 Apr 09

Still Married To The Same Girl I Married 27 Years Ago.

WebMann @WebMann (4731) • Canada 24 Apr 09

Never thought I would get married period, so you can imagine how thrilled I am to be married. But even better, as all our friends have long since divorced, we are still married after 27 years. There have been some really rough...

love conquers all

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xliRSA Congratulations!! I think that you are both exceptional people to still be together after all this time. I have been married more than once. The first time I got married WAY too young and it lasted (surprisingly) for 7 years. Now I have been married for 4...

25 Apr 09

Would you take a former lover back???

onlyllyzie @onlyllyzie (153) • Philippines 24 Apr 09

it depends. First, if i still have feelings for him. second, if he compromises our past misunderstandings. I would say, it depends on the reason of the breakup. if the reason was not beacause of cheating, then probably, i would...

love

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xliRSA Personally I would not take back a former lover. If it did not work the first time, I don't see how it can work the second time. Unless of course you are BOTH willing to WORK very hard on the relationship and have sorted out why you have broken up in the first...

25 Apr 09